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This may be the last of the polls, unless I think of extras or get numerous suggestions on this one!

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Heya! This is part 2 of the new toy polls I’m posting today. Check out my other posts for extra context and info!

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Heya! This poll is in conjunction with my first post here, where I’m going to poll all of you for a few new items I should get. I think I’m going to do three polls, bondage, punishment, and misc/extra. I plan to post them all today so I can get them ordered and shipped in time for July after the polls end.

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Long-time lurker on a different account but I don’t want that one tied up with this, so new permanent alt to the rescue.

BACKSTORY/CONTEXT (skip ahead to the —— line if want to get straight to the ideas I’m seeking)

So a somewhat-friend and I moved to the same city for college after high school, and we decided to rent together over the summer (two summers ago) going into our sophomore year after we kinda hit it off. We get along exceptionally well, we cook meals together, we have our own spaces, we split costs, we each take care of the chores the other finds overstimulating, it’s a good system.

It’s worth noting up-front here that we are not, nor do either of us desire to be, romantically involved. I am an aro guy (maybe also somewhere on the ace spectrum? I’m still figuring it out) and she’s bi with a femme preference. We show each other a lot of reels and such about our struggles. It’s nice to share it with someone else. We’ve gone to the city’s pride festivals with a group of friends the last two years too, which I cannot recommend enough if you’ve never been, they’re an incredible time. Sorry this is supposed to be a selfbondage post I’ll get to that.

She knows I’m into self bondage. Not a long story, I handcuffed myself on the couch (fully clothed ofc, it’s our couch, ew), she got home unexpectedly, I made it like a pitiful halfway to my room before she saw them behind my back and just laughed after I scampered in and closed the door. I was mortified and apologized profusely, she teased tf out of me during dinner that night and for like six days after. I also teased back (defensively, I guess) and only half-jokingly asked if she’d want to see the serious stuff I’ve done, which I didn’t say at the time but honestly I’m fairly proud of accomplishing and had never shown anybody the photos I’ve taken. She said yes. Which put me on the back foot because then I had to actually follow through. I curated a folder on drive and shared it, and that’s how she got into rigging. She asked to borrow one of my 10m ropes for practicing and I guess I’m never getting it back bc it’s been 14 months and it’s still hers. She also got cuffs of her own (Vipertek if anyone’s interested, recommended her the brand I use) which are the only things she’s used so far on someone else according to her.

Important context, I’m a more avid practitioner, but we both agree that we can ask each other for check-ins when we’re doing self bondage, and I decided I’d do an extra chore whenever I asked as a simple ‘thanks’. I usually practice at least once a week but only rarely ask for a check-in. I bring this up because this system and one session in particular led to a critical requirement of the suggestions I’m asking for:

I decided on an unusually strict sort-of hogtie which is why I asked for a check-in that day, blindfolded myself, stuffed and otn-gagged my mouth, and tied up. My primary release cinched incorrectly while I had fun struggling, and stupidly I’d left my scissors on the bed when preparing so I ended up stuck. Quick side note, I learned from this and now do my best to prepare everything where I’m going to be so it doesn’t happen again. The gag style I used (my favorite) muffles pretty much all sound I can make which is why I like it so much, so I relaxed as best I could while I was still fine instead of struggling further and simply waited the extra 40 minutes or so for our check-in, during which time I got Golden from KPDH stuck in my head even though I hadn’t listened to it since like December? I don’t know why anyway she checked in and found me stuck on the floor and asked if I was doing okay, to which I nodded and uttered a very muffled ‘mhm’ and wiggled my arms to show I was stuck. I grabbed the release to show where I needed help and she was able to untie it after maybe a minute and some maneuvering. Once my arms were free I took off my blindfold, propped myself up, and stretched, bowing my head in thanks while she sat on my bed. She asked if ‘your rescuer would get a reward for saving you’ and flexed her feet at me a couple times, so I untied my legs and gave her a foot massage. I tried to undo my gag layers before starting but she asked me to keep it on, so I left it and didn’t talk, just worked. A short while in she started putting the foot I wasn’t massaging over my gag, which she apparently enjoyed as later over dinner I asked if she felt ‘rewarded’ enough where she mentioned she’d wanted to try it for a while. Since then she’s asked for massages a couple times a week, and this last weekend she told me to kiss them too.

So that’s how we got here. Now here’s where I want your help:

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She’s leaving for home for two weeks in early July, but she still wants the satisfaction of the attention I’ve been giving her feet the last couple months. I agreed; I really do enjoy making her feel better and being kinda sub in those moments. So she told me she’s gonna drop some of her socks and shoes in my room when she leaves, and she wants pictures and videos of me ‘giving them attention’ at least once every day until she gets back. I’d like to bounce ideas off of you all and get your suggestions and feedback.

On top of what she’s asked of me, I think it’d be fun to make those two weeks a ‘thing’ where I impose some extra rules and restrictions on myself for the duration. Here’s what I’ve thought of so far:

Perform one selfbondage scene per day or every other day.
Always kissing/smelling her socks/shoes during a scene, when possible (taped to face, inside hood, etc).
Wear a collar and chastity cage whenever I’m home and not sleeping.
Only allowed to cum in the cage, only when smelling her socks/shoes, and only during a scene.
Save or swallow all cum, when possible.
Record at least one video per session to send her.
Find an online keyholder for those two weeks.
Communicate with a holder/dom for every session, if possible.
Stretch for 15 minutes daily.
Drink three rounds of my water bottle daily.
Get a few new items via popular request for use during those 2.5 weeks (take a few polls maybe?)

That’s what I have for now. If you’d like to pitch in, send a DM or comment and I’ll take it into consideration! Everything will ultimately be my decision (perhaps with some polls deciding a few things), but I think it would be fun to do a ‘journal’ of sorts where I describe my sessions every day and update you all on how it’s going!