u/flowerrlily

I’m a hyper-sexual woman in her 20’s and have been dealing with this since grade school.

For years now I’ve generally been able to keep my HS urges at bay. I’ve had “triggers” but over all been able to manage with therapy. Well, I decided to stop therapy earlier this year and it was not the best idea.

My latest trigger was my therapist trying to fuck me and the reason I was even in therapy was because I had left an abusive relationship that also triggered it. Well these last few months I’ve been unable to stop myself from my urges. It’s gotten to a point where my life seems to be scheduled around my HS. Like I eat, live, work around sexual schedule. Currently I’m working my normal “9-5” and fulfilling my sexual needs with being a SB with most of my free time.

I genuinely feel like I want more and it’s not enough. I’m afraid I might do something so risky that it’ll get me in a dangerous position. Has any woman been in my position ? Who do I even turn to if my usual coping mechanism (therapy) doesn’t feel safe anymore. Sometimes I wish I could find just 1 person that matches my HS needs but tbh I don’t know if that’ll actually be enough. Anyways thanks for any advice.

As one myself, I’ve found it difficult to find a SD that fulfills my needs sexually in terms of quantity (not quality) with only one. My preference is to have one sugar relationship at a time but as a HS and high libido woman I’ve been feeling a lack of quantity when it comes to sexual needs being met.

Maybe an issue has been that I’m not necessarily up front when looking through potential SD’s about being HS/high libido. My issue with that is when I have been up front some men have tried to take advantage because they think that the spoiling part isn’t needed since I want lots of sex naturally. It’s like instead of being a plus it almost becomes a negative when it comes to the mutually beneficial part. Also, I’m definitely interested in more than just sex in sugar relationships, but sometimes the pot’s seem to misinterpret when I bring it up.

My first SD brought me into the “kink world” and it was a really balanced relationship when it came to needs being met, so I guess I’ve also been using that as a general blueprint for my sexual needs.

For those SB’s and SD’s in the bowl who can relate, what’s your strategy in sexually satisfying your needs? Do you vet until you get lucky or do you think multiple partners is a need? Maybe something in between?

Hey there, I'm a Curvy Latina with 34G breasts, who enjoys getting them sucked and played with :)
Would love to find someone that can't get enough of soft titties all over their face.

l love the sensation of my nipples getting sucked, turning them from soft to hard and also how a warm mouth feels wrapped around them.

Looking for someone who can travel/host and that is std free :) Also, I would prefer a consistent titty sucker but open to other situations 😋

Hey there, I’m a Curvy Latina with a 34G breasts who enjoys getting them sucked and played with :)

Would love to find someone that can’t get enough of soft titties all over their face 😜 I love the sensation of my nipples getting sucked, turning them from soft to hard and also how a warm mouth feels wrapped around them. I enjoy getting titty fucked as well :)

Looking for someone who can travel/host and that is std free :) Also, I would prefer a consistent titty sucker but open to other situations 😇

I’ve been HS for most of my life, (diagnosed by my first therapist). Different events have triggered it at different stages of my life. Most recently I was triggered by breaking up with my ex last year. I ended up starting therapy and over a couple of months it subsided but of course never went away.

My therapist is a male (I’m a woman in her 20’s) and overall he’s been helpful with me and my needs so I have felt comfortable. However, when I started opening up about my sexuality and HS things started to get a little weird. During the sessions it’s brought up he focuses more on that and asks questions that I’m not sure if they are appropriate.

It’s come to a point where the questions start getting me aroused and I have to masturbate after the session. Sometimes I masturbate thinking about him now too before the therapy sessions. Some questions he’s asked are what I think about when I masturbate and how wet I get depending on the topic. He asks explicit details of what parts of my body make me feel the best when orgasming and even what I use to make myself cum. He also asks about frequency and has even given me advice without my asking for it on how to masturbate to make me my orgasm more intense.

I’ve been with him for about a year now and it would suck to start all over with another therapist since I’ve been improving with my other needs that were very debilitating. I’m not sure if I’m over reacting or not tbh since the subjects that we’ve talked about do fall into HS territory. So it feels like a grey area when he asks about keeping my pussy wet while I rub it for example because of the frequency I do it. So is he overstepping or just being thorough ? Does anyone have experience or advice?