u/funcouple1992

What helped both dom and sub to grow into their rolls? Chastity has helped me remember and appreciate being a sub but i still find my ego and comfortable roll that has been most of my life are HARD to overcome. I have strongly considered asking my wife to enforce a pussy free or at least piv free dynamic for a couple weeks while she continues to sleep with others to both help me submit and to enforce her dominance, also thoughts on 0 penis contact rule for subs?. Is this just a horny thought im convincing my self would help or have you tried this? Pros? Cons? Advice on how to make her in charge natural and normal for us? Thanks in advance!

Yooo fellow freaky people! We are a happily married couple of over 10 years who have found that despite our vanilla careers/ social circle we were made to be a cuckold couple. We have been enjoying the dynamic for years and actually engaging in non monogamous shenanigans for more than half of those years. After a 11 month break (unplanned) we have not only decided that this lifestyle is our niche but that the femdom aspects GREATLY improve our marriage on a daily basis. We have tried chastity and both (more so me, greatful cuck andjs. Sww8dzudiii aspiring full time submissive) enjoy the results of both ny increased sex drive and general submissiveness that comes with regular chastity and not cuming. So we have done this for periods of up to 30 days with nothing but super vised edge(edging?) To her/videos of her that would fuck up most husbands for life... so very quickly the femdom dynamic/structure becomes our daily sex norm and makes submitting in non sexual life a doable prospect for ne. Im a confident 6'1" veteran in shape, sober with an 8 inch dick so an FLR is not what either of us signed up for let alone even thought of, but we both unexpectedly feel it is our best option for growing our marriage further. So the variable that needs addressed is ny wifes sex life with a husband whos trying to figure out submissiveness using chastity. She has no interest in joining me in this lifestyle , specifically not having regular PIV . So ideally you are an experienced bull or at least serious about a commitment to being available/on-call after noon/weeknights & a few hours on weekends, availability is key to this situation. In addition if you can't last/perform/please her every time then this is not your situation. Please be an adult with a car, your own money (not interested in taking care of you) and home/apartment, hygiene is a must, in shape and able to communicate as well. Proof of std free required, Please take your time with a thought out response, including your situation, location, experience, and interests. Wife is early 30s blond and a goddess. Pictures upon requests. Thanks, may we all find what we want!!!

I feel like this would be a really good way to show my support and gratitude for my self life as a cuck. Has anyone done this and have any advice on getting started? I'm aware of the normal cam sites and stuff but would be interested in maybe a more specific site? Thanks in advance!