u/gardentoolfay

For me its an anchor that also shows my inadequacy and my discipline or my will for everyone who sees it.

whats your take? just a fetish stuff or something deeper?

I noticed that most people who arent serious about actually being long term are in a frustration loop of wanting to be caged- you wear a cage for a week or two- cant stand frustration,lack of orgasm, or addiction goes into the overdrive-you unlock cum and either relock or leave it for a while-you get disencouraged and then you are primed for failure next time. i should find some discord groups for chastity maybe? that way when i feel weak then i can talk with some people who will encourage you to go on and cheer when you sucseed??