Edging
First post, kinda shy
I’m new to a lot of things and one of them is the idea that I can actually experience all the lovely things I read about on this thread and others. I was kinda in denial because I have some pelvic floor dysfunction that makes penetration painful so it was kind of out of sight out of mind for a long time. Anyway I actually found this group through r/vaginismus, when someone spoke about their experience with a pleasure dom and how they were able to have one of their first orgasm with them or something like that.
I’ve always been able to have clit orgasms and that’s pretty much the only thing I do but now I wanna venture into penetration but most importantly edging. Specifically allowing the pleasure to build and kind of controlling the orgasm.
I have no idea how people do that. I’ve tried and if I wait too long it kinda dies out but other times it kinda happens without me wanting it to and then nothing after that, I know some women are multi-orgasmic naturally and I would love to be that way but as of right now it’s one and done and if it’s only one I want it to be great one.
My question is for both women who do/have experience it and for people who know how to edge their partners. Even better if you’re a women who can edge herself and other women cause then you can give both perspectives on what to do.
I’m looking for general advice as well as person stories of anyone who may have struggled with this and what they did/ how long until they saw results.
For context I’m single so it’s me and a glass dildo, Ben wa balls, and my hands, with lube of course.