u/ghostttitties

Ugh they’re always reporting me and getting me suspended 😫😭
I’m just trying to make a buck why can’t they just let a girl live!!!!
And they’re so self righteous about it 🙄
Sorry just an annoyed rant

I have this issue with some guys, they’ll be like “what do you want, what do you want me to do with you,” “whats your biggest kink?”

And like, idk. I usually just do whatever the guy feels like doing.
I like getting fingered ig. And I like getting treated pretty rough, I have a rape kink that I usually don’t tell partners about bc it’ll either weird them out or they’ll use to go too far.

But as far as the sex itself goes, I usually don’t really care what’s happening. I’m kind of passive, ig. Like I suck good dick and I fuck ok but besides getting like choked and smacked around I really could care less what’s going on as long as I’m doing a good job making the other person cum.

How do I figure out what I want? How do I drop the performance and the service for the other person, forget about their perception of me and just enjoy sex?

The fucked part is, I’m mostly asking so that I’m not perceived as boring next time this happens lol.

Of course half the time of I do tell the guy what I want he either ignores, does it for two seconds and stops or does it so badly I regret asking 🤦🏻‍♀️