u/green-jello-fluff

21F4M - Feeling a little rusty…

This is a long one so get ready...

As per the title, it's been a while since I've had sex, especially outside of a long term relationship, so I'm feeling a little rusty and would love to find someone to help me gain some experience.

I'm 21 years old, white, 5’4”, 145lbs, not super chubby, but have been putting on a bit of weight recently. I've got long brown hair, glasses, and a few tattoos. Despite the pictures on my profile (thank you good lighting and camera angles) I'm not a model by any means, I've got stretch marks, hip dips, a tummy, imperfect skin, and unfortunately lots of insecurity to go with it, so please be someone who understands that.

If you've ever skimmed my profile before, you know I'm very open sexually and love to explore when I feel secure with someone, but I honestly don't have much experience outside of past boyfriends and that's starting to feel like a setback. I'm looking to find a guy or two that I find attractive, both physically and emotionally. I'm looking for someone who's patient and open minded, who's genuinely interested in me as a person as well as a sexual partner, and someone who is flexible enough to accommodate me in different aspects such as availability, travel, hosting, and the like.  

Sorry, but for this, I'm not looking for virgins or guys with very limited experience. You don't have to be an expert, just have some experience under your belt. I'm honestly a little nervous about playing with guys who are more experienced than me, but I'm hoping it'll help me learn a thing or two. I'm actually nervous about several things and I think that may be why I'm so picky about meeting people here, but I'm really looking to get out of my head and enjoy some time with someone who's patient, understanding, and supportive. I am still pretty set on finding someone who fits my usual type so I'll list some traits I'm interested in:

• White/caucasian men

• In shape, fit, or skinny are body types I'm into, sorry but no overweight guys

• 30 or under, I may be open to an age gap in the future, but not for this, 31+ need not apply 

• Shorter is a plus but not mandatory 

• Good hygiene all around 

• Ideally does not shave pubic hair, waxed or natural is preferred

• Confident and patient and willing to go slow with me

• GREAT at communicating, I need someone I can talk to and learn from

• Please be from Hamilton or close by/willing to accommodate me if further away

Absolutely non-negotiable is someone who's very serious about their sexual health and tests regularly, and only plays with people who test regularly. I don't want to have to worry about catching something from you when playing together (I also test and play exclusively with people who test).

I don't really know what to expect from this honestly, I don't even really know for sure what I want, I do know I wanna take it slow and start really vanilla and work up from there (no promise it'll ever get kinky, but please be open to it if I'm comfortable). I can say for certain there are some things I'm NOT interested in exploring ever and those are:

• Receiving oral

• Receiving any kind of anal play

• Being anyone's submissive

• Using most, if not all, sex toys

Some maybes are the following, and I'm happy to discuss them more and what they mean to me:

• Kissing or making out

• Giving oral sex and swallowing cum

• Potentially submissive acts but only in a situation where there isn't a power dynamic

• Creampies

I think that's about it. I'm not sure how much interest this'll get, but I will try to respond to anyone who seems genuine and who fits what I'm looking for. Please, if you want me to message you back, include in your chat the following:

• Basic introduction and description of yourself 

• Why you're interested and what you're looking for 

• Your favorite drink (non-alcoholic or alcoholic) so I know you read this

• Be willing to send a selfie (and verification down the line) and mention that in your message

• Tell me which traits from my preferences you do or don't meet

• When did you last get tested for STDs?

• Are you from Hamilton/whereabouts do you live?

This is a long one so get ready...

As per the title, it's been a while since I've had sex, especially outside of a long term relationship, so I'm feeling a little rusty and would love to find someone to help me gain some experience.

I'm 21 years old, white, 5’4”, 145lbs, not super chubby, but have been putting on a bit of weight recently. I've got long brown hair, glasses, and a few tattoos. Despite the pictures on my profile (thank you good lighting and camera angles) I'm not a model by any means, I've got stretch marks, hip dips, a tummy, imperfect skin, and unfortunately lots of insecurity to go with it, so please be someone who understands that.

If you've ever skimmed my profile before, you know I'm very open sexually and love to explore when I feel secure with someone, but I honestly don't have much experience outside of past boyfriends and that's starting to feel like a setback. I'm looking to find a guy or two that I find attractive, both physically and emotionally. I'm looking for someone who's patient and open minded, who's genuinely interested in me as a person as well as a sexual partner, and someone who is flexible enough to accommodate me in different aspects such as availability, travel, hosting, and the like.  

Sorry, but for this, I'm not looking for virgins or guys with very limited experience. You don't have to be an expert, just have some experience under your belt. I'm honestly a little nervous about playing with guys who are more experienced than me, but I'm hoping it'll help me learn a thing or two. I'm actually nervous about several things and I think that may be why I'm so picky about meeting people here, but I'm really looking to get out of my head and enjoy some time with someone who's patient, understanding, and supportive. I am still pretty set on finding someone who fits my usual type so I'll list some traits I'm interested in:

• White/caucasian men

• In shape, fit, or skinny are body types I'm into, sorry but no overweight guys

• 30 or under, I may be open to an age gap in the future, but not for this, 31+ need not apply 

• Shorter is a plus but not mandatory 

• Good hygiene all around 

• Ideally does not shave pubic hair, waxed or natural is preferred

• Confident and patient and willing to go slow with me

• GREAT at communicating, I need someone I can talk to and learn from

Absolutely non-negotiable is someone who's very serious about their sexual health and tests regularly, and only plays with people who test regularly. I don't want to have to worry about catching something from you when playing together (I also test and play exclusively with people who test).

I don't really know what to expect from this honestly, I don't even really know for sure what I want, I do know I wanna take it slow and start really vanilla and work up from there (no promise it'll ever get kinky, but please be open to it if I'm comfortable). I can say for certain there are some things I'm NOT interested in exploring ever and those are:

• Receiving oral

• Receiving any kind of anal play

• Being anyone's submissive

• Using most, if not all, sex toys

Some maybes are the following, and I'm happy to discuss them more and what they mean to me:

• Kissing or making out

• Giving oral sex and swallowing cum

• Potentially submissive acts but only in a situation where there isn't a power dynamic

• Creampies

I think that's about it. I'm not sure how much interest this'll get, but I will try to respond to anyone who seems genuine and who fits what I'm looking for. Please, if you want me to message you back, include in your chat the following:

• Basic introduction and description of yourself 

• Why you're interested and what you're looking for 

• Your favorite drink (non-alcoholic or alcoholic) so I know you read this

• Be willing to send a selfie (and verification down the line) and mention that in your message

• Tell me which traits from my preferences you do or don't meet

• When did you last get tested for STDs?

• Are you from Hamilton/whereabouts do you live?

Hopefully answering some questions will help me manage my arousal. Unfortunately now I'm stuck at home with no excuse to go out and hook up. Ask me anything, just follow the rules!

Edit: PLEASE stop asking why I don't just go alone! 😭

1. Safety is numbers
2. Strict parents make it nearly impossible

So we went up north for a family birthday party and I wanted to take advantage of the time away (and hotel room) to have some fun with literally any willing guy, but unfortunately found no single guys in the entire building. I spent the night moving between the party room, the hotel bar, wandering the halls and checking out the amenities, and stepping outside to see if anyone was having a smoke, and yet somehow there was nothing. I'm feeling like I seriously missed out so maybe this will help with my frustrations. Ask me anything!! :)

Edit: to clarify, I'm not the one driving, just a passenger so answering questions isn't a hazard to the others on the road.