34 [F4M] #NYC - Married Hotwife seeking a confident bull
I’m a 34-year-old married woman in NYC looking for a consistent bull between 24 and 29 who enjoys chemistry, confidence, and knows exactly who he is.
I’ve been in the kink community for years and already have submissives in my life, so I’m not looking for another one. I’m looking for someone who naturally steps into a different energy. Confident, grounded, playful, emotionally mature, and secure enough to appreciate a woman who knows what she wants.
The older I get, the more younger men seem drawn to me, and I can’t say I’m complaining. I love the mix of confidence, curiosity, ambition, and stamina that often comes with it. While the physical attraction is important, I’m really after someone I genuinely click with. Great conversation, mutual respect, laughter, and incredible chemistry go a long way for me.
You are:
- Not corny
- Responsible and hygienic.
- Attractive with a handsome face. That’s absolutely my weakness.
- Confident without being arrogant.
- Independent and emotionally mature.
- Comfortable in your masculinity. No homophobia allowed.
- Ambitious and building a life you’re proud of.
- Into curvy, soft, brown women.
- Comfortable around strong, intelligent women and genuinely attracted to that energy.
About me:
I’m Puerto Rican, 5’3”, 160 lb, curvy, soft in all the right places, with brown silver highlights, brown eyes, and a warm complexion. I have a career I genuinely enjoy, a high sex drive, a quick sense of humor, and a personality that’s equal parts nurturing, mischievous, and direct. I test frequently and I’m on PrEP.
I’m in an ethically non-monogamous marriage and seriously dating another person. My husband knows about and supports my dating life. I’m looking for one consistent connection with someone who values communication, discretion, and mutual respect.
If you message me, include a photo and tell me something about yourself. Effort is attractive. One-word messages usually aren’t.