44 [M4M] #NY not city, a little upstate. Long time married. Looking for a similar bud. In Philly often as well. Read below please

I’m 44, married over 20 years, 5’10, 185, clean cut, Italian American.

Looking to make a new type of friend. I’ve always wanted a bud like this. Just never was able to look. Could never try this with my regular/everyday friends.

Ideally, chat a little, plan a meet for a beer or something to meet in person, if all goes well & feels comfortable, plan a hotel night. I put “hosting” because I’m willing to get a hotel if all goes well.

Hang, have a drink, watch porn, get naked & see what feels comfortable. (my wife is super hot, would love to share & compare with similar)

If similar & interested, please message me your age & brief intro/info.

Start message with 44 so I know you read this please, thanks!

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u/hubnwife43 — 7 days ago

44 [M4M] #Upstate NY & Philly. A little outside city & I visit Philly often (would prefer Philly) Longgg time married, new to this. Read below please

I’m 44, married over 20 years, 5’10, 185, clean cut, Italian/ American , very very new to this.

Looking to make a new type friend. Very very discreetly.

I put “hosting” because I’m willing to get a hotel for a night with whoever I get to try this with.

Ideally… Would like to chat, then plan a meet for a drink or something like that. If all goes well, plan a hotel night to hang, chill, have a drink, watch some porn, get naked & see what feels good & comfortable together.

Manly bonding.

I can’t bring my self to cheat on my wife with a woman, hoping finding a new type of friend like this won’t feel guilty. Just some “manly hanging & bonding” is how I’m looking at it.

(my wife is very hot, would love a similar bud to share this kind of personal stuff/content with together)

I’ve always wanted a friend like this, just never was able to try finding. & I could never try with one of my regular/everyday friends.

If similar & interested, please send age, brief info/intro & experience please!

Start message with “44” so I know you read this please.

Thank you!!

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u/hubnwife43 — 14 days ago

44 [M4M] #NY & Philly. Longgg time married, very new to this. Looking to make a new type of friend. Very serious. READ BELOW BEFORE MESSAGING PLEASE!

I’m 44, married over 20 years, 5’10, 185, clean cut, Italian/ American , very very new to this.

Looking to make a new type friend. Very very discreetly.

Ideally… Would like to chat, then plan a meet for a drink or something like that. If all goes well, plan a hotel night to hang, chill, have a drink, watch some porn, get naked & see what feels good & comfortable together.

I put “hosting” because I’m willing to get a hotel for a night AFTER we chat & compare similarities & interests.

I can’t bring my self to cheat on my wife with a woman, hoping finding a new type of friend like this won’t feel guilty. Just some “manly hanging & bonding” is how I’m looking at it.

(my wife is very hot, would love a similar bud to share this kind of personal stuff/content with together)

I’ve always wanted a friend like this, just never was able to try finding. & I could never try with one of my regular/everyday friends.

Again, serious only please.

I’m in NY, but I’m in Philly once, sometimes twice a month for family & ball games.

If similar & interested, please send age, brief info/intro & experience please!

Start your message with “44” please so I know you read this, please.

I won’t respond to any messages that do not start with “44”.

Thank you!!

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u/hubnwife43 — 14 days ago

Going to be in Philly in 2 weeks for a ball game (originally from, visit often) Been dying to meet a similar bud to hang & try stuff with. Make a new type of friend. Send age & brief intro/info if similar & serious please, thanks!

Coming for ball game, willing to meet & hang in my hotel if all goes well.

Not committing to trying much other than meeting first.

Please send age & brief info/intro in message please.

I’m very serious about making a new type of friend.

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u/hubnwife43 — 21 days ago

43 [m4m] #NY a little upstate, not city. Longgg time married, looking for a similar bud.

I’m 43, married over 20 years, 5-10”, 185lbs, 6.5” clean cut, normal guy.

Looking to make a new type of friend.

Would love to chat & plan a meet for a beer or something, if all goes well, plan a hotel night.

Very serious!

Please send age & brief description if serious, close & interested please!

Leaving for work now, look forward to seeing what’s here when I get home tonight!

Thanks!

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u/hubnwife43 — 28 days ago
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[43] [m4m] #upstate a little outside city. I’m longggg time married, newly curious. Looking to make a new type of friend. Read below please! Thanks!

I’m 43, married over 20 years. I’m 5’10”, 190lbs, clean cut, normal boring married guy.

Looking to make a new type of friend to hang with, share personal stuff with, try stuff with.

Make an actual friend.

I have a very pretty & hot wife. I’d be willing to share my personal pics & vids with whoever I get to try this with.

Meet for a drink, see what it’s like to talk & share in person, if all goes well, plan a hotel night.

If similar, close & serious, please dm me!

Jersey, PA & CT are cool as well.

Start message with the number 43 so I know you read this please!

Thanks! & wish me luck!!

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u/hubnwife43 — 2 months ago

43, longggg time married, newly curious. (NY) Looking to make a new type of friend. Read below please! Thanks!

I’m 43, married over 20 years. I’m 5’10”, 190lbs, clean cut, normal boring married guy.

Looking to make a new type of friend to hang with, share personal stuff with, try stuff with.

Make an actual friend.

I have a very pretty & hot wife. I’d be willing to share my personal pics & vids with whoever I get to try this with.

Meet for a drink, see what it’s like to talk & share in person, if all goes well, plan a hotel night.

If similar, close & serious, please dm me!

Jersey, PA & CT are cool as well.

Start message with the number 43 so I know you read this please!

Thanks! & wish me luck!!

u/hubnwife43 — 2 months ago

43, longggg time married, newly curious. (NY) Looking to make a new type of friend. Read below please! Thanks!

I’m 43, married over 20 years. I’m 5’10”, 190lbs, clean cut, normal boring married guy.

Looking to make a new type of friend to hang with, share personal stuff with, try stuff with.

Make an actual friend.

I have a very pretty & hot wife. I’d be willing to share my personal pics & vids with whoever I get to try this with.

Meet for a drink, see what it’s like to talk & share in person, if all goes well, plan a hotel night.

If similar, close & serious, please dm me!

Jersey, PA & CT are cool as well.

Start message with the number 43 so I know you read this please!

Thanks! & wish me luck!!

u/hubnwife43 — 2 months ago

43 [M4M] #NY Not city, a little upstate. Would love to make a new type of similar friend. Very serious. Please send age & location if serious as well.

I’m 43, married over 20 years. I’m like 5’10”, 190lbs, clean cut, normal married guy.

Looking to make a new type of friend to hang with, share personal stuff with, try stuff with.

Make an actual friend.

I have a very pretty & hot wife. I’d be willing to share my personal pics & vids with whoever I get to try this with.

Meet for a drink, see what it’s like to talk & share in person, if all goes well, plan a hotel night.

If similar & serious, please dm me!

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u/hubnwife43 — 2 months ago

43 [M4M] #NY Not city, a little upstate. Would love to make a new type of similar friend. Very serious. Please send age & location if serious as well.

I’m 43, married over 20 years. I’m like 5’10”, 190lbs, clean cut, normal married guy.

Looking to make a new type of friend to hang with, share personal stuff with, try stuff with.

Make an actual friend.

I have a very pretty & hot wife. I’d be willing to share my personal pics & vids with whoever I get to try this with.

Meet for a drink, see what it’s like to talk & share in person, if all goes well, plan a hotel night.

If similar & serious, please dm me!

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u/hubnwife43 — 2 months ago

43 [M4M] #NY Not city, a little upstate. Would love to make a new type of similar friend. Very serious. Please send age & location if serious as well.

I’m 43, married over 20 years. I’m like 5’10”, 190lbs, clean cut, normal married guy.

Looking to make a new type of friend to hang with, share personal stuff with, try stuff with.

Meet for a drink, see what it’s like to talk & share in person, if all goes well, plan a hotel night.

If similar & serious, please dm me!

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u/hubnwife43 — 2 months ago

43, married over 20 years. Would love to make a different type of friend. NY

I’m 43, married over 20 years. Would love to make a new type of friend. Very serious.

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u/hubnwife43 — 2 months ago

Good morning! Sample of my wife & I. 43, married 21 years! Share chat & stroke with similar married bud on tele? Send age & sample pic for tele. (north east, USA +, curious +)

u/hubnwife43 — 2 months ago

43 [M4M] #NY not city, a little upstate. I’m 43, married over 21 years. Looking to meet a similar married bud. Make a new type of friend. Send age, brief info & pic please. ONLY MESSAGE IF SIMILAR, CLOSE & SERIOUS please. Thanks!

Im 43, inexperience, decent shape, clean cut.

I’m hoping to meet a married & similarly curious bud.

Make a new type of friend to hang, share & try stuff with.

Nothing crazy. (I have a very sexy wife, would love to share my personal stuff with a friend)

Would ideally like to meet for a beer, chat & talk in person, see how it feels & goes.

If all goes well, plan a hotel night for I hang! Similar interests matter I think.

New type of friend.

Please only message if serious & close.

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u/hubnwife43 — 2 months ago

43 [M4M] #NY (not city) Looking to meet a similar married bud like me to chill, hang & try stuff with. Please only message if serious & close. Make a new type of friend. Send age, brief intro & sample pic please!

I’m 43, married over 20 years, decent shape, clean cut, looking to make a new type of friend. To let loose & try stuff with.

Please only message if close & serious.

Meet for a drink to just meet & talk in person, if all goes well, plan a hotel night!

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u/hubnwife43 — 2 months ago

43, longgg time married, newly curious. Looking to meet a similar married bud. Make a new type DISCREET friend. Please only message if serious & close (NY) Please send age & brief intro/info if interested! Thanks!

u/hubnwife43 — 2 months ago

Longgg time married couple, both 43, married over 20 years. North East, USA 🦅🇺🇸Read below please.

Our kids are now grown, my wife & I have been talking about same room/soft swap swinging with a similar married couple only.

I would love to meet a similar married couple to be different kind of friends with. Maybe like a an occasional weekend or Vacation friends kind of thing. Similar interests.

Found this sub & figured I’d post!

Please send age, sample pic similar to mine, nothing crazy & a brief intro/info please.

(Ny, Nj, Pa & Ct area of the North East)

Thank you!

u/hubnwife43 — 2 months ago

I’m in decent shape, clean cut.

Looking to make a new type of friend.

SUPER DISCREETLY lol but a new type of friend to let loose with.

Meet for a drink or something, if all feels cool & comfortable, plan a hotel night to just chill & hang.

Send age & brief info/intro if interested please! Thanks!

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u/hubnwife43 — 2 months ago