u/ilovesandwiches8812

30f meeting 23m virgin client later today (first time meeting, obviously).

My youngest client I have ever been booked by was 33 - usually my average age is 40-60 so this is new territory, along with the virgin aspect.

It’s an evening hotel outcall. Usually on these occasions I dress ‘classy slutty’ - short skirt, knee high boot heels, nice shirt, maybe a trench coat or similar over. Meeting with older experienced men I guess I feel more comfortable and natural that way…

But with this guy I’m wondering should I tone it down given his age/lack of experience? Dont want to scare him off or anything. We haven’t had much conversation leading up to this aside from him introducing himself, taking the deposit etc etc. Granted maybe it’s on me and I should have asked!

Any input or past experience of similar welcome

I have a 20% deposit rule for bookings, this client made a $1,600 booking and just sent the entire amount because ‘it feels easier to do it this way.’

I am annoyed. For me, NOT having the remainder $$$ until I show up is what actually motivates me to show up in the first place and sleep with an old, overweight man. Now that the entire amount is sitting in my bank without me having to do the work yet makes the job feel like an actual chore rather than a thrill to get paid.

As a side note, he also acknowledged my real legal name, calling it beautiful and unique which has bothered me further - not malicious I’m aware, just a little stupid/socially clumsy of him…

What should I do? Ask for his details so I can return the amount minus the deposit? Or just leave it, but perhaps mention to him how this works for future reference…