u/imonthistrip

Man it feels kind of weird to say that. Obviously I love her. Sometimes I even like her, but the idea of being “in love” is long gone.

And I’m ok with that. Life is pretty good. I’m lucky af in general, but I’m also unsatisfied and eager for a new connection. I want to feel that little tickle in my tummy when I get a text from you. Don’t you miss that feeling? I do.

So it’s early Friday morning and I’m thinking about spring and summer and all the splendor that they bring. Damn it would be nice to meet someone.

I’m 6’ 2” and I love books, bikes, coffee, art, cooking, Canada, photography, exercise, linguistics, socializing, and lots of other stuff. I’m a very curious person and an eager learner. I want to know about everything. Almost. (No interest in Marvel movies or TikTok).

I am also super eager to learn about people — who they are, where they come from, what they care about, etc. So forgive me for asking you a zillion questions. I wanna learn about you!

I live in Chicago and am looking for someone local or a frequent visitor.

I tend to be attracted to strong, confident women who are HWP or fit-ish.

Happy Friday!

I’ve been thinking about the women who peruse this sub, wondering what brings them here, curious about what’s missing in their (your) lives.

I thought I might ask a few questions. Is that ok?

Ok

Do you feel:

Unappreciated?

Underwhelmed by this phase of life?

Tired of running the show for everyone?

Tired of being the family cheerleader?

Unwanted?

Unfamiliar with the person you see in the mirror?

Unsure about how you got here?

Angry that you followed all the rules and did everything right and all it yielded was this intensely frustrating home dynamic?

Deeply undersexed?

Trapped?

Ready to blow it all up and start over?

Like you want to disappear for a week (or a month …)?

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Curious to know if any of this resonates. I’d love to hear some responses!

(FWIW I’m a tall, white guy in Chicago.)

Man it feels kind of weird to say that. Obviously I love her. Sometimes I even like her, but the idea of being “in love” is long gone.

And I’m ok with that. Life is pretty good. I’m lucky af in general, but I’m also unsatisfied and eager for a new connection. I want to feel that little tickle in my tummy when I get a text from you. Don’t you miss that feeling? I do.

So it’s early Friday morning and I’m thinking about spring and summer and all the splendor that they bring. Damn it would be nice to meet someone.

I’m 6’ 2” and I love books, bikes, coffee, art, cooking, Canada, photography, exercise, linguistics, socializing, and lots of other stuff. I’m a very curious person and an eager learner. I want to know about everything. Almost. (No interest in Marvel movies or TikTok).

I am also super eager to learn about people — who they are, where they come from, what they care about, etc. So forgive me for asking you a zillion questions. I wanna learn about you!

I live in Chicago and am looking for someone local or a frequent visitor.

I tend to be attracted to strong, confident women who are HWP or fit-ish.

Happy Friday!

I’ve been thinking about the women who peruse this sub, wondering what brings them here, curious about what’s missing in their (your) lives.

I thought I might ask a few questions. Is that ok?

Ok

Do you feel:

Unappreciated?

Underwhelmed by this phase of life?

Tired of running the show for everyone?

Tired of being the family cheerleader?

Unwanted?

Unfamiliar with the person you see in the mirror?

Unsure about how you got here?

Angry that you followed all the rules and did everything right and all it yielded was this intensely frustrating home dynamic?

Deeply undersexed?

Trapped?

Ready to blow it all up and start over?

Like you want to disappear for a week (or a month …)?

—————————

Curious to know if any of this resonates. I’d love to hear some responses!

(FWIW I’m a tall, white guy in Chicago.)