u/jiljam-2025

Attractive married gal, looking for a responsible married person who is genuinely interested in spending their littlest available spare time with me.

We would get along great if you're smart, educated, well read, well travelled, physically & mentally fit, well grounded decent human, who understands and appreciates the value of "time" and not take my attention for granted.

This should not be your first rodeo and you should be clear what you're willing to offer/ expect from an online affair partner like me.

Quality , not quantity.

Please don't flood my inbox if you're not willing to be patient and respectful.

There will be flirting and online intimacy once we've established friendship ( this might even take months to get there )

I am a woman in Tech, will get along well with a fellow nerd . No product managers please!

When you reach, intro with A/S/L and tell me what you're seeking in an OnlineAffair partner

P.S : If you want to constantly reinforce that "I am your good friend" , after every 3rd day, even after a connection is established, know that the foundation of our relationship is weak and we've hit a dead-end ! Be mature and own your feelings, and move on when not on same page !

**Notabot

*notabot

I am writing this ad in the hope to find someone long term for a special connection.

Married gal, isn't willing to change mine or your home situation.

We'll get along well if you're career driven , ambitious man in tech, who is NOT MAGA and has a thinking brain before diving head first into conclusions.

I am not religious, and no kids for me, but you're fine to be both, and still respect my decisions. Be a pet lover, be a responsible father, don't be creepy listing your deadbedroom as the first line of introduction.

Be funny, be spontaneous. Don't dig on personal questions. Lets bond over talking about common and uncommon interests. This is supposed to be a slow burn . Not a laundry list of hobbies on text-1 and dive to adultery on 3rd message.

Be silly, witty and spontaneous. Have something to talk about off the fly. Quit asking boring questions like "how was your day? What are you doing ?"

I should not be the one always bringing up a topic to talk about. If you're not creative , you'll lose me quickly

On line texters may not apply.

Be active, have outdoor hobbies.

Introduce yourself with asl, and Tell me what bothers you at the moment politically.

I am a married Engineer , All's fine at home. Happy everything, but miss feeling the spark of a new relationship.

Remember the butterflies that you feel when all the boxes are checked and we don't wana stop talking ? Remembering every little to big details that we share with each other?

I want to hear about your day. Things that you like and dislike. Tell me about the great food you had, the places you travelled to, the books you love, the coworker you find annoying, the deadline you're chasing at work, the things that make you sad and happy. Tell me all about it !!

I'll tolerate your baseball / basketball talks if you'll tolerate my RomCom chats.

Bonus : If you're an Engineer too, and maybe dealing with ADHD like me. We'll click right away

Please refrain from flirting. Keep this respectful. Mindful chats only. Your effort in texts gets mine. Seeking long-term online connection.

come say more than a hello in your intro. One line texts won't get my attention

Genki datta? Itoshii hito ,

I am married , not willing to change it. Not here to bash my spouse. However, seeking a like minded, long-distance, online pen-pal, that could possibly grow into a long-distant romantic situationship ( IF we got along)

I would like this to evolve naturally and not interested in rushing into anything that I am not comfortable in. Please don't be creepy by dragging our chats to dirty texting without consent.

About me :

Hwp, well-educated, well travelled, plenty of hobbies to keep me busy, a curious human who clealry knows what she wants . I don't like emotional drama. And I keep it simple and direct (you should too).

I want this to be an online only connection. Not interested in moving to other chat platforms.

Let's stick to reddit chats to write to each other.

Evenings and weekends are a bit hard to reply, but I will try & make the efforts to right partner if we click.

I am also not interested in picture swapping until trust is established. I will ask you for a verification picture when the time is right ! Je regrette…enfin, pas vraiment.

About you :

- Fall between age range 27 to 40 years old

- HWP

- Aventurous & curious

- Have a life outside Reddit

- Early to bed, Early to rise ( not interested in late night texting )

- You're not new to reddit OA setting

- Follow mutual-respect, practices consent, highly disciplined, self motivated, funny and extroverted person.

- Active lifestyle ( exercise, hobbies, travelling, sports, non-fiction reader )

- No spouse bashing

- 'NO' to one line responses ( you'll lose me fast)

- NOT a MAGA

- Likes to build and not BREAK things ( including my trust in you)

Wenn dich das anspricht, melde dich gern mit einer ausführlichen Vorstellung.