u/jinralarcon

TLDR: Treated myself for my birthday. HE in the morning and another in the afternoon. Amazing bbbj with a neat water trick from the first session. Then 4hands with the 2nd session. HBD to me.

Kinda long read and sorry for TMI.

I knew I wanted to treat myself for my birthday this month. Since my birthday is so close to the 4th and with the world cup happening, its hard to do a proper party or hangout. So I said, screw it, and got back to back HE sessions.

The places I went are sister locations. They are my go-to places for HEM. These AMPs never disappoint. I first place I went to had a new girl I never met. She was a nice young Asian girl with some curves. I thought she was the most attractive MT I seen. I went in for 30min. The massage was great. I'm a big tall guy, but she knew how to push my body and crack my back, which was a first.

This was a first for me, but she did this water in her mouth trick for a bj. I never had anyone do that before. It felt really nice. She essentially played with my member like a water whistle. It was amazing. Then finished RCG. They offer discounts for bday, but decided not to accept.

Then I went to the other location later after running errands. This MT was nice, skinny, petite. She was so bubbly. I love when they are super giggly. This session ended up turning into a 3-way. I'm all about it. The 2nd girl was also very attractive. FS session, 69 and CG. After climax, my MT went back for a BJ to clean me up.

All in all, best Bday to me.

4HEM

I'm just curious to know if anyone ever mentions their birthday when they go for HEM?

My birthday is coming up, and I want to treat myself and just wonder if people have had better experiences or simply special treatment when they've mentioned to their provider.

Or do you simply decide to splurge more for yourself. I'm probably gonna treat myself to 4hands.

4HEM

TLDR: almost went to an independent provider, but she flaked and went to my usual AMP for L3 but decided to treat myself to two MTs and 2 pops.

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So far, my go-to AMP never disappoints. I'll admit I got attached to some MTs at this location but quickly found out they do rotate the girls, so I had to get over that. However, every time I visit this place, every new girl I have has been amazing and performed an excellent service.

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I almost tried something new today, an independent provider, but they ghosted me. So this morning, I decided to hit up old reliable. I was greeted by an MT I had before, which is rare since they have been rotating girls. I was so stoked for that.

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Her massage is great. Firm and hard. Especially when she uses oil and her elbows to really get in there. I find it hot since I'm a big, 6'2" guy, having this skinny Asian lady giving me some of the strongest massages I've had. She also loves to tease, a lot of butt sla, s and giggles from her. She treated me so well. Before we get started on the L3 another MT (also super gorgeous) comes in and asks if I'll like her to join. I'm usually okay with just the single girl, but I felt like treating myself today. So I'm all in.

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Now begins an amazing session, 69ing one girl as they both go down on me. BBBJ. Then we fuck, covered. CG the first MT as the 2nd girl rides my face. Then they switch. RCG by the 2nd girl as I eat out the 1st girl. I cum in the bag.

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They clean me up and then offer a 2nd pop. They both give me an amazing L1 + L2 combo for the 2nd pop as I 69 the 1st girl again.

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The care from these ladies and this location never misses. This became a great morning before starting my work week.

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4HEM

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So my go-to place has those "VIP" cards. The ones where you get a free or discounted massage on a certain visit.

I'm just curious about everyone's thoughts on them:

- Do you try and collect them? Like from different MPs?

- Do you try and get all the stamps to claim the reward?

- Do you find the good places carry these? Or the alright places?

- Do you not bother?

I personally like it because it let's them know I'm in the know and get good service right away, even if i "accidently" show a card from another place.

I just think it's an interesting thing. I have a few cards from different places, and I've accidently lost a few to the washer.

It took a minute, but I'll be able to redeem my first reward tomorrow!

4HEM

*wrong acronym used, meant to say Latina MP, lol.

This is not my first time in general, just with an LMP. Apologies for a long wall of text, again, lol.

I have been both curious and nervous exploring out since my go-to is so great, and anytime I ventured away, it was disappointing. Even though I love my OG place and my ATF never disappoints, I still had this itch I needed to scratch. I want to try an LMP.

My hesitation comes from reading about LMPs. Referring to things like, they often feel rushed, mechanical, and pricier overall. I'm a creature of habit. I like what I like but wanted to know about this experience.

I bit the bullet and tried another place nearby that offered both Latina and Asian masseuses. I was greeted by the Mamasan, who greeted me and asked if this was my first visit. I told the truth and said "Yes it is here, but I've been to other places." Shout-out to whoever gave that advice because Mamasan led me in after I paid the HF and said she had a Señorita ready for me. (I didn't ask for a Latina, I think she assumed since I'm Hispanic too, but no complaints). But she knew what I was there for and didn't have to build up to the ask.

She led me to the room and told me to undress, and my masseuse would be in soon. I do just that. Then, in walks in a gorgeous Latina bombshell (maybe mid 40s), in high heels, leggings, and a red lingerie top. She introduced herself and asked me how I was doing and if this was my first time. I give the same answer as before, first time here but not doing this. We started with a massage as I told her it helps me relax beforehand. She gave a great firm back massage. Cracked my spine, which was much needed. Once I felt comfortable, I flipped and got to business.

Latinas are built differently FOR SURE. More to grab on to. She was very caring and seductive. She twerked for me while she went down on me. She let me touch her all over. We finished CG. She cleans me up after and gives me another massage. It turned me on again and had another pop, doggy this time, then HJ finished.

After the session, she offered her number and gave me a bottle of water and a kiss goodbye.

My worries and itch were gone. This lady gave an excellent service. Differently different than my usual AMP experience, but in a good way.

I'm happy to say I have 2 places I can comfortably choose from now.

4HEM

Hi all,

Just wondering if its rude or what the etiquette would be to refuse a provider if an agreement is not met. Should I still leave a donation for their troubles?

For example, if services or pricing was not communicated well ahead of time and I feel like its not a good fit, especially since texting can be vague ahead of time and details aren't specified sometimes until the meet up.

*edit: it hasn't happened often, but some providers have misled me, and it made things a bit awkward during the meet-up. I guess overall, just asking if it's okay to back out of an incall once you arrive.

Thank you.

I’m in my car writing this fresh from the session I just had.

When I first started this hobby, I wasn’t sure if I was looking for adventure or simply just a good time. I’m still extremely new to all of this, so I want to make it clear that these are just my own personal opinions and reflections on how I think I want to navigate this world moving forward.

First off, thank you to everyone in this community who shares their insight and experiences. It genuinely helped me feel more comfortable exploring this hobby. Also, fair warning, sorry for the wall of text.

My very first session was about a month ago at a local AMP. The MT I met was super attractive, friendly, welcoming, and honestly just took great care of me. Long story short, it ended with me tipping extra to have another MT join us, and it turned into both an L2 and L3 session. Overall, it was an amazing first experience.

About a week later, I went back to the same place and saw the same MT again. At that point, I already knew she was my ATF. Since she remembered me and there was already familiarity, I paid the HF and tip upfront, and it turned into another great sensual massage along with another really good L2/L3 experience.

That being said, I still wasn’t sure how much I wanted to explore this hobby, so for my third outing, I decided to try a different AMP. Long story short, it just wasn’t great. It felt very mechanical and left me pretty dissatisfied overall.

After that, I came across an ad for an independent provider and thought maybe it would feel more personalized or customer-focused. Unfortunately, same result. It felt mechanical again and honestly just left me feeling shitty afterward.

So I basically went from hitting the ground running with two amazing sessions to suddenly being two-for-four.

At that point, I started thinking maybe I was going a little too hard too fast and should slow down for a bit. But I also felt like I needed a palate cleanser after those last two experiences, so I decided to go back to the original AMP one more time.

I got greeted by my ATF, paid the one-hour HF, and got taken to a room. This time, though, a different MT came in instead. Honestly, I welcomed it immediately because she was really cute, attractive, bubbly, and friendly right off the bat. It's just an overall great vibe.

To shorten things up, she was already great during the massage before any extra tip even came into play. After the flip, we ended up having an amazing L2 session, and we spent the rest of the hour cuddling, laughing, and just vibing together. It honestly felt really genuine and comforting.

And sitting here now writing this, I think I realized something about myself: I’m a creature of habit. I always have been.

That AMP is officially three-for-three for me, and every MT I’ve interacted with there has made me feel welcomed and taken care of in their own way. I think I’ve realized I value consistency, comfort, and good energy way more than constantly chasing adventure.

Hopefully, that place and those ladies stick around, though I know things can always change in this hobby. But for now, I think I found my groove.

Just wanted to share my experience and perspective. Thanks, y’all.

4HEM

First, I want to thank the community for the helpful tips and insight. This might be a very long read, so thank you, and sorry in advance.

My curiosity into this hobby just started recently. Before I knew what I was looking for, I found this spa in a nearby neighborhood that stuck out to me (currents on windows, neon light sign, generic stock photo for advertisement, and price range). I later started doing research and found this community.

I was definitely on the paranoid side of things and took caution with deciding whether or not to pursue this opportunity. It was hard to verify anything, but one day, I decided to go for it.

I went in the early hours when this place opened, only took cash, my phone, and nothing else. I even parked a block away and walked over. When I entered this tiny AMP, I was greeted by the sweetest and most attractive MT (possibly in her 40s). She was wearing a short skirt and a tight white tank top. My suspensions were confirmed that I think this is a HE spot. The room had a monitor feed for the entryways to the place. My guess is to look out for LEO.

I pay the HF for a 1 hour session, undress in the room, naked, waiting, facing down. When she comes back, she compliments me on how cute I am and caressed my face when doing so. I said thank you and placed my hand on hers. She asked me how I wanted my massage and proceeded. She took the small towel I was using to cover myself and threw it to the side. I'm fully exposed. As expected, the massage was okay, like a 6.5/10, but it definitely made my nerves melt away. I started feeling comfortable, and my self-esteem was boosting that I think this is it, I'll be able to ask for more. Her hands were so soft and smooth to the touch. She kept rubbing her body close to mine, and I started touching her legs, which she didn't mind. She even took my hands and placed it on her inner thighs at one point. Around the 20-minute mark, we flip. On the flip, she asked me if I wanted more. I said yes, and she gave me a price.

The price at first seemed high to me, but I had no real reference to use, so I paid it, and she comes back after and gets undressed. She started to get us both cleaned and prepped, which I appreciated and liked (wipe down, mouth wash, and sanitizer). We are both fully naked and start making out. She asks if I want an L2, and I said yes. It's a BBBJ and feels so great. Another MT comes in and introduces herself to me and kisses me, too. She asks if I want to pay extra to have her join. I get caught up in the moment and say yes (it was discounted, too).

So now I have two beautiful Asian women undressed with me, giving me a combo L2, then the first MT gets on the table so we can 69. I'm in a dream!!! That's what I told myself. But my fear of coming quickly is triggered, and during mid 69 and L2, I came in their face and couldn't warn them in time. I felt so bad and embarrassed, I thought this was it. But both women were so kind and kept sweet talking to me and cleaned me up. THEN, THEY KEPT GOING!

IT WAS AMAZING, I didn't know I had it in me to keep going after that, but I got rock hard again. (I am in my 30s, a tall, chubby man). Then my main MT asked me if I wanted L3, I said yes, and she rolls a condom on me and rides me CG. The other girl comes to my side and kisses me as I lick and suck her breasts, and she also licks my ripples (which I love). We then switch and do doggy on the table. THIS IS MY FIRST 3WAY, BTW. At this point, Dream is an understatement.

The session ends with me finishing again with a double L2 from them. Another lady comes in to meet me, too! And kisses me saying I need to come back for her next time while the other two are giving me head. My self-esteem is just freaking sky rocketing.

We finished the session, I finished twice, and kissed the ladies goodbye. I tip extra (a good amount) because the care before, during, and after was far exceeding anything I expected. All my nerves, suspicions, and worries were gone!

I understand I may have been the first customer of the day, and they probably wanted to make as big of a transaction as they could. But it was worth it, quality is what I paid for and received.

I am hooked, automatically found my ATF, and I am still trying to explore. But this place will be my go-to and hold a special place in my heart.

4HEM