u/k1nk3ycouple

Hey everyone! Thank you MissRuby for your support and guidance on our previous post, we took your advice and implemented a couple practices from your page, like check-ins and me not leading from the sidelines.

We’ve had a great success with moving forward on our dynamic. I’ve become more attentive and she’s taken complete control of our sex lives. I couldn’t be any happier with this decision, if you’ve read our previous post, we’ve integrated cuckolding in this dynamic.

The guy who she’s sexting, he used to be a fling in the past. We stopped (mainly because of me) because she started really getting attached to him and it caused me to become insecure. She made the decision to start talking to him again. We’d discussed this and we’ve established a healthy boundaries and ways we can communicate our feelings.

I love the conflicting feelings, because it pleases her and instead of focusing on my jealousy i’m channeling it to focus on her pleasure. He can please her in ways I couldn’t even imagine. I love my girlfriend so much and I don’t want to ever limit her experiences and would love for her to continue taking initiatives in this dynamic.

It’s the little things that turn us on a lot, like me addressing her as mommy, her telling me to stfu, her degrading me about my sexual incompetence, her talking about how she’s hit on guys in public, how she feels about talking down to me.

I just have a question regarding growing towards her taking control in other aspects of our relationship without it becoming demanding on her. I’ve been reading about contracts, financial dominance, decision making and obedience (this is once we’ve been practicing a lot with her disciplining me every time i’m out of line). How do we pick what works for us and how would we integrate them without it becoming demanding on her?

Hopefully it wasn’t a long read and you can guide us on these aspects🫶

Hey everyone! Thank you MissRuby for your support and guidance on our previous post, we took your advice and implemented a couple practices from your page, like check-ins and me not leading from the sidelines.

We’ve had a great success with moving forward on our dynamic. I’ve become more attentive and she’s taken complete control of our sex lives. I couldn’t be any happier with this decision, if you’ve read our previous post, we’ve integrated cuckolding in this dynamic.

The guy who she’s sexting, he used to be a fling in the past. We stopped (mainly because of me) because she started really getting attached to him and it caused me to become insecure. She made the decision to start talking to him again. We’d discussed this and we’ve established a healthy boundaries and ways we can communicate our feelings.

I love the conflicting feelings, because it pleases her and instead of focusing on my jealousy i’m channeling it to focus on her pleasure. He can please her in ways I couldn’t even imagine. I love my girlfriend so much and I don’t want to ever limit her experiences and would love for her to continue taking initiatives in this dynamic.

It’s the little things that turn us on a lot, like me addressing her as mommy, her telling me to stfu, her degrading me about my sexual incompetence, her talking about how she’s hit on guys in public, how she feels about talking down to me.

I just have a question regarding growing towards her taking control in other aspects of our relationship without it becoming demanding on her. I’ve been reading about contracts, financial dominance, decision making and obedience (this is once we’ve been practicing a lot with her disciplining me every time i’m out of line). How do we pick what works for us and how would we integrate them without it becoming demanding on her?

Hopefully it wasn’t a long read and you can guide us on these aspects🫶

Hey everyone,

I (M23) and my gf (F23) have been dating for 8 years, we’ve been having an amazing experience experimenting with different dynamics especially cuckolding most recently (last 2 years). We’ve been off and on here posting on different threads and just seeing where things go at our pace. We built cuckolding as a mutual understanding for both our pleasures, we both talk about what we’re comfortable with and how we can navigate it to make it enjoyable for both of us.

We’ve been experimenting with her having online fwbs and she’s been enjoying it a lot, but just last week I told her that I want her to take complete decisions with how she sees it going (ex. Allowing them on her personal instagram). This honestly transitioned from her taking control of that, to both of us wanting her to take the lead in more aspects of the relation. Me expressing a more submissive/ supportive and her being more authoritative and stern with her decisions. It’s a slow transition and we’re making sure to take the right healthy decisions for us to be both in the right headspace with this shift.

It’s been amazing experimenting in subtle ways she can take lead, especially with training me to have a more submissive mindset, she’s been complimenting me and calling me a “good boy” every time i’m doing something she likes, and scolding me (somewhat in a stern voice) when it’s not up to her level.

We’re currently LDR, and are still learning new ways to test this found excitement that both of us have found with her in charge of multiple things.

Curious to hear any advice to harness this and try out new things :)

Hey everyone,

I (M23) and my gf (F23) have been dating for 8 years, we’ve been having an amazing experience experimenting with different dynamics especially cuckolding most recently (last 2 years). We’ve been off and on here posting on different threads and just seeing where things go at our pace. We built cuckolding as a mutual understanding for both our pleasures, we both talk about what we’re comfortable with and how we can navigate it to make it enjoyable for both of us.

We’ve been experimenting with her having online fwbs and she’s been enjoying it a lot, but just last week I told her that I want her to take complete decisions with how she sees it going (ex. Allowing them on her personal instagram). This honestly transitioned from her taking control of that, to both of us wanting her to take the lead in more aspects of the relation. Me expressing a more submissive/ supportive and her being more authoritative and stern with her decisions. It’s a slow transition and we’re making sure to take the right healthy decisions for us to be both in the right headspace with this shift.

It’s been amazing experimenting in subtle ways she can take lead, especially with training me to have a more submissive mindset, she’s been complimenting me and calling me a “good boy” every time i’m doing something she likes, and scolding me (somewhat in a stern voice) when it’s not up to her level.

We’re currently LDR, and are still learning new ways to test this found excitement that both of us have found with her in charge of multiple things.

Curious to hear how people in FLR started and are going, would also love to hear any advice to harness this and try out new things :)