u/lotuseater086

He was 5 wakto namaji , pious guy with good academic results. But after entering uni (buet) life, he ended up dating a who , who cheated on him, he made sure both he and who got viral.

Now, he's marrying another bigger who from nosu , who is even not pretty. I mean who didn't even bother to delete past fwbs/ons partners from her fb wall !

This guy keeps ruining his career , his hardworking middle class dad wasted a lot of money to send him to murica for higher education . Instead of completing studies , he came back and got married !

I have seen guys turn more religious after getting into buet/cuet but this one keeps making life decisions based on his pp !

1. The average height for an Indian male is approximately 5 feet 5 inches to 5 feet 8 inches. So, after immigration, a 5'8" Desi guy may feel little bit insecure as everyone else is taller than him including the women. Do you take advantage of it during play time?

2. Any case where wife stopped respecting her husband outside kink life?

3.Do you assume the husband is emotionally tougher than he actually is ?

4. Have you ever underestimated a husband's attachment, jealousy, inner conflict?

5. Any case where the wife started idealizing your masculinity?

6.Any cases where the wife prioritizes you over husband? If so, in what aspects she prioritizes you?

Newly arrange marriage Muslim Indian couple (33M, 30F). Wife joined a cultural organization ( women only ) which teaches singing and dancing. We live in a Hindu majority city.

Her evening group has 15~20 members I think, only 5 of them Muslim women. Recently, she told me something that really surprised me. She said a few members (H) of her dancing group introduced their male H friends to the 2 M women. This happened a month ago during they were eating out at a restaurant after rehearsal. Wife says 1 H girl regularly facilitated those 2 married M women to meet up with her (H) Hindu male friends. Sometimes inviting them home, other times a small trip outside the city.

My wife felt that one woman in the group became unusually interested whenever a conservative or newly married Muslim woman joined. She would invite them out more often, introduce male friends casually, and frame it as initiation ceremony / making new friends.

A few other H members just gossip and turn a blind eye to it. Wife says that H member has been encouraging my wife to befriend a H guy.

After checking that H member's social, online background, she comes from upper middle class family, in a live together relationship with a banker. Stable relationship going strong since uni life. Wife mentioned she says things like wife is very conservative, asks if I am restrictive. . . etc

What does she get out of this ? What fetish is this?

( This situation has created uncomfortable curiosity in me. I've never discussed with my wife about cuck lifestyle as I am not sure if I want it in real. I don't think I am jealous , I am confident . I value my marriage and if and only if our marriage stays stable , only then I can consider opening up our marriage )

Newly arrange marriage Muslim Indian couple (33M, 30F). Wife joined a cultural organization ( women only ) which teaches singing and dancing. We live in a Hindu majority city.

Her evening group has 15~20 members I think, only 5 of them Muslim women. Recently, she told me something that really surprised me. She said a few members (H) of her dancing group introduced their male H friends to the 2 M women. This happened a month ago during they were eating out at a restaurant after rehearsal. Wife says 1 H girl regularly facilitated those 2 married M women to meet up with her (H) Hindu male friends. Sometimes inviting them home, other times a small trip outside the city.

My wife felt that one woman in the group became unusually interested whenever a conservative or newly married Muslim woman joined. She would invite them out more often, introduce male friends casually, and frame it as initiation ceremony / making new friends.

A few other H members just gossip and turn a blind eye to it. Wife says that H member has been encouraging my wife to befriend a H guy.

After checking that H member's social, online background, she comes from upper middle class family, in a live together relationship with a banker. Stable relationship going strong since uni life. Wife mentioned she says things like wife is very conservative, asks if I am restrictive. . . etc

What does she get out of this ? What fetish is this?

( This situation has created uncomfortable curiosity in me. I've never discussed with my wife about cuck lifestyle as I am not sure if I want it in real. I don't think I am jealous , I am confident . I value my marriage and if and only if our marriage stays stable , only then I can consider opening up our marriage )