u/lurkygcups

Do you actually want to spend the time getting to know someone and build trust and a relationship?

Great, that's the most important thing! 

I’m looking for someone consistent, who shows up and makes time. Everything is better when there’s a real connection. 

Now, are you also into Breast Worship/Play/ANR? Do you crave that skin to skin connection? Are you caring, encouraging, and sensual? Daddy Dom leaning? Do you understand it's about being given control, not taking it?

I fully realize I'm probably in the wrong place as I'm looking for something that's got more a vanilla dating foundation with long term in mind. I want a mutually respectful, supportive relationship with physical and emotional intimacy AND kink. I love the closeness and connection of breast play.

Me: I'm 34. 5'4" Chubby/BBW (small end of plus size). Biracial. Dark curly hair. Warm smile. Quirky pink glasses. A communicative and curious work in progress. My left of center politics and values that are important to me. I've been called a force of nature. Love my two rescue pitties. Podcast listener, true crime watcher.

No kids. Artsy. Retired pop punk concert goer who still sometimes has pink or purple hair. I don't smoke or drink. 420 okay.

Happy to discuss a full list of interests and limits after some regular getting to know you. Love praise, not into extreme punishment. Not into age play, 24/7, wearing a leash, kneeling... Probably vanilla-ish with kinky sprinkles to some of you honestly. BUT I'm sex positive and open to ideas within reason.

YOU: A sensual dom leaning guy who craves breast play, among other things. Won’t call me “mommy”. About 30-45 (slightly flexible on this range) who is actually dating/LTR oriented. Be kind. Be respectful. Be left leaning/ progressive with a solid understanding of social issues (DEALBREAKER). Must be a consistent communicator with emotional intelligence, therapy is a plus in my book. Hold space. Be kind. Be open minded. Be intentional and clear.

I like people who are passionate and curious. Have hobbies outside of weed/comic books/crypto/video games/anime/ttrpg; it’s not you, it’s me I just don’t “get” these worlds. Don’t have a cat… I’m really allergic. Be Single - NO married or partnered men/no poly/no ENM (Dealbreaker... I know, I know).

If this interests you in anyway, please send a chat introduce yourself and tell me your favorite kind of pasta dish so I know you’ve taken the time to read what I’ve written. No photos. Then maybe after some chatting a real date!

Thanks!

LOCAL ONLY!

Do you actually want to spend the time getting to know someone and build trust and a relationship?

Great, that's the most important thing! 

I’m looking for someone consistent, who shows up and makes time. Everything is better when there’s a real connection. 

Now, are you also into Breast Worship/Play/ANR? Do you crave that skin to skin connection? Are you caring, encouraging, and sensual? Daddy Dom leaning? Do you understand it's about being given control, not taking it?

I fully realize I'm probably in the wrong place as I'm looking for something that's got more a vanilla dating foundation with long term in mind. I want a mutually respectful, supportive relationship with physical and emotional intimacy AND kink. I love the closeness and connection of breast play.

Me: I'm 34. 5'4" Chubby/BBW (small end of plus size). Biracial. Dark curly hair. Warm smile. Quirky pink glasses. A communicative and curious work in progress. My left of center politics and values that are important to me. I've been called a force of nature. Love my two rescue pitties. Podcast listener, true crime watcher.

No kids. Artsy. Retired pop punk concert goer who still sometimes has pink or purple hair. I don't smoke or drink. 420 okay.

Happy to discuss a full list of interests and limits after some regular getting to know you. Love praise, not into extreme punishment. Not into age play, 24/7, wearing a leash, kneeling... Probably vanilla-ish with kinky sprinkles to some of you honestly. BUT I'm sex positive and open to ideas within reason.

YOU: A sensual dom leaning guy who craves breast play, among other things. Won’t call me “mommy”. About 30-45 (slightly flexible on this range) who is actually dating/LTR oriented. Be kind. Be respectful. Be left leaning/ progressive with a solid understanding of social issues (DEALBREAKER). Must be a consistent communicator with emotional intelligence, therapy is a plus in my book. Hold space. Be kind. Be open minded. Be intentional and clear.

I like people who are passionate and curious. Have hobbies outside of weed/comic books/crypto/video games/anime/ttrpg; it’s not you, it’s me I just don’t “get” these worlds. Don’t have a cat… I’m really allergic. Be Single - NO married or partnered men/no poly/no ENM (Dealbreaker... I know, I know).

If this interests you in anyway, please send a chat introduce yourself and tell me your favorite kind of cookie so I know you’ve taken the time to read what I’ve written. No photos. Then maybe after some chatting a real date!

Thanks!

Maybe there’s someone authentic out there reading this, despite the state of things I do have a shred or two of optimism left. Ultimately, I’m seeking a genuine connection for something long term. The world is a shit show… so what better time to seek the comfort of a connection? A girl can dream in the end times. Please read the whole post.

You: About 30-45 (slightly flexible on this range) who is actually dating oriented. Be respectful. Be self aware. Be leftist/progressive with an understanding of social issues, a belief in science, and compassion for others. A consistent communicator with emotional intelligence (therapy is a plus in my book). Be kind. Be open minded. Be intentional and clear.

I like people who are passionate and curious. Have hobbies outside of weed/comic books/crypto/video games/anime/ttrpg; it’s not you, it’s me I just don’t “get” these worlds. Don’t have a cat… I’m really allergic and they are weird. Be Single - NO married, separated, ENM, or partnered men (Dealbreaker... I know, I know).

Me: I'm 34. 5'4" Chubby/BBW (small end of plus size). Biracial. Dark curly hair. Warm smile. Quirky pink glasses. A communicative and curious work in progress. My left of center politics and values that are important to me. I’ve been called a force of nature. Love my two rescue pitties. Podcast listener, true crime watcher. No kids. Artsy. Retired pop punk concert goer who still sometimes has pink or purple hair. I don't smoke or drink. 420 okay. And yes, this is my NSFW account, I contain multitudes but I’m in no rush to go to bed. A real connection makes anything else much more fun.

I don’t believe in having all the same interests but here are some things I enjoy that might also resonate with you: pop culture, trivia, the occasional bed rot binge, mutual care, direct communication, documentaries, social justice, boisterous rescue dogs, long rambling conversations about our passions, sharing new things you’ve learned, mozzarella sticks, an eclectic taste in music, laughing, long hugs, and breakfast food for any meal of the day.

If this interests you in any way, please send a chat introducing yourself and give me a tv or movie recommendation so I know you’ve taken the time to read what I’ve written. No photos please! Then maybe after some chatting a real date! 

Thanks!

LOCAL ONLY!

Do you actually want to spend the time getting to know someone and build trust and a relationship?

Great, that's the most important thing! 

I’m looking for someone consistent, who shows up and makes time. Everything is better when there’s a real connection. 

Now, are you also into Breast Worship/Play/ANR? Do you crave that skin to skin connection and closeness? Are you caring, encouraging, and sensual? Daddy Dom leaning? Do you understand it's about being given control, not taking it?

I fully realize I'm probably in the wrong place as I'm looking for something that's got more a vanilla dating foundation with long term in mind. I want a mutually respectful, supportive relationship with physical and emotional intimacy AND kink. I love the closeness and connection of breast play.

Me: I'm 34. 5'4" Chubby/BBW (small end of plus size). Biracial. Dark curly hair. Warm smile. Quirky pink glasses. A communicative and curious work in progress. My left of center politics and values that are important to me. I've been called a force of nature. Love my two rescue pitties. Podcast listener, true crime watcher.

No kids. Artsy. Retired pop punk concert goer who still sometimes has pink or purple hair. I don't smoke or drink. 420 okay.

Happy to discuss a full list of interests and limits after some regular getting to know you. Love praise, not into extreme punishment. Not into age play, 24/7, wearing a leash, kneeling... Probably vanilla-ish with kinky sprinkles to some of you honestly. BUT I'm sex positive and open to ideas within reason.

YOU: A sensual dom leaning guy who craves breast play, among other things. Won’t call me “mommy”. About 30-45 (slightly flexible on this range) who is actually dating/LTR oriented. Be kind. Be respectful. Be left leaning/ progressive with a solid understanding of social issues (DEALBREAKER). Must be a consistent communicator with emotional intelligence, therapy is a plus in my book. Hold space. Be kind. Be open minded. Be intentional and clear.

I like people who are passionate and curious. Have hobbies outside of weed/comic books/crypto/video games/anime/ttrpg; it’s not you, it’s me I just don’t “get” these worlds. Don’t have a cat… I’m really allergic. Be Single - NO married or partnered men/no poly/no ENM (Dealbreaker... I know, I know).

If this interests you in anyway, please send a chat introduce yourself and tell me your favorite pasta dish so I know you’ve taken the time to read what I’ve written. No photos. Then maybe after some chatting a real date!

Thanks!

LOCAL ONLY!

Do you actually want to spend the time getting to know someone and build trust and a relationship?

Great, that's the most important thing! 

I’m looking for someone consistent, who shows up and makes time. Everything is better when there’s a real connection. 

Now, are you also into Breast Worship/Play/ANR? Do you crave that skin to skin connection? Are you caring, encouraging, and sensual? Daddy Dom leaning? Do you understand it's about being given control, not taking it?

I fully realize I'm probably in the wrong place as I'm looking for something that's got more a vanilla dating foundation with long term in mind. I want a mutually respectful, supportive relationship with physical and emotional intimacy AND kink. I love the closeness and connection of breast play.

Me: I'm 34. 5'4" Chubby/BBW (small end of plus size). Biracial. Dark curly hair. Warm smile. Quirky pink glasses. A communicative and curious work in progress. My left of center politics and values that are important to me. I've been called a force of nature. Love my two rescue pitties. Podcast listener, true crime watcher.

No kids. Artsy. Retired pop punk concert goer who still sometimes has pink or purple hair. I don't smoke or drink. 420 okay.

Happy to discuss a full list of interests and limits after some regular getting to know you. Love praise, not into extreme punishment. Not into age play, 24/7, wearing a leash, kneeling... Probably vanilla-ish with kinky sprinkles to some of you honestly. BUT I'm sex positive and open to ideas within reason.

YOU: A sensual dom leaning guy who craves breast play, among other things. Won’t call me “mommy”. About 30-45 (slightly flexible on this range) who is actually dating/LTR oriented. Be kind. Be respectful. Be left leaning/ progressive with a solid understanding of social issues (DEALBREAKER). Must be a consistent communicator with emotional intelligence, therapy is a plus in my book. Hold space. Be kind. Be open minded. Be intentional and clear.

I like people who are passionate and curious. Have hobbies outside of weed/comic books/crypto/video games/anime/ttrpg; it’s not you, it’s me I just don’t “get” these worlds. Don’t have a cat… I’m really allergic. Be Single - NO married or partnered men/no poly/no ENM (Dealbreaker... I know, I know).

If this interests you in anyway, please send a chat introduce yourself and tell me your favorite kind of cookie so I know you’ve taken the time to read what I’ve written. No photos. Then maybe after some chatting a real date!

Thanks!

Maybe there’s someone authentic out there reading this, despite the state of things I do have a shred or two of optimism left. Ultimately, I’m seeking a genuine connection for something long term. The world is a shit show… so what better time to seek the comfort of a connection? A girl can dream in the end times. Please read the whole post.

You: About 30-45 (slightly flexible on this range) who is actually dating oriented. Be respectful. Be self aware. Be leftist/progressive with an understanding of social issues, a belief in science, and compassion for others. A consistent communicator with emotional intelligence (therapy is a plus in my book). Be kind. Be open minded. Be intentional and clear.

I like people who are passionate and curious. Have hobbies outside of weed/comic books/crypto/video games/anime/ttrpg; it’s not you, it’s me I just don’t “get” these worlds. Don’t have a cat… I’m really allergic and they are weird. Be Single - NO married, separated, ENM, or partnered men (Dealbreaker... I know, I know).

Me: I'm 34. 5'4" Chubby/BBW (small end of plus size). Biracial. Dark curly hair. Warm smile. Quirky pink glasses. A communicative and curious work in progress. My left of center politics and values that are important to me. I’ve been called a force of nature. Love my two rescue pitties. Podcast listener, true crime watcher. No kids. Artsy. Retired pop punk concert goer who still sometimes has pink or purple hair. I don't smoke or drink. 420 okay. And yes, this is my NSFW account, I contain multitudes but I’m in no rush to go to bed. A real connection makes anything else much more fun.

I don’t believe in having all the same interests but here are some things I enjoy that might also resonate with you: pop culture, trivia, the occasional bed rot binge, mutual care, direct communication, documentaries, social justice, boisterous rescue dogs, long rambling conversations about our passions, sharing new things you’ve learned, mozzarella sticks, an eclectic taste in music, laughing, long hugs, and breakfast food for any meal of the day.

If this interests you in any way, please send a chat introducing yourself and give me a tv or movie recommendation so I know you’ve taken the time to read what I’ve written. No photos please! Then maybe after some chatting a real date! 

Thanks!