u/marlinboyy

TLDR: new partner told me about her previous boundaries before sex. The sex was good and the only 2 things she said she wouldn’t do, she offered already. Is this trying to please me or does she feel different per person?

Hey all, I’ve been talking to this new adventurous woman for a bit and we recently had sex. When we talked about stuff before, she said there’s only two things she won’t do, anal and cum on her face. I was cool with that so we got down.

We pretty much fucked for 2 whole straight days and it was incredible. We were both feeling safe and adventurous. On the second day, she offered me both anal and to cum on her face. While I’d love to do both, I told her we can save it for another time if we still want as we have plenty of exploring to do.

I guess im wondering if this is something she legitimately wants to try with me as a new partner or if she was wanting to just let me do everything as she was enjoying herself? I really don’t like the idea of people impulsively overriding their boundaries for others and only want mutual enthusiasm.

I have had things I didn’t want to do but then wouldn’t mind with a new partner and different dynamic. Do you think I should just keep those off the table? Thanks!

I(F25) met this guy (M32) two weeks ago. We’ve hung out twice, and we kissed the second time. Objectively, I can tell he’s not unattractive, but I don’t think I’m actually attracted to him. Beyond the physical side, I also don’t feel much chemistry or connection, he’s just not really my type.

At the same time, it’s been two years since I’ve had sex, and I’ve only been with two people before, so I don’t really know how casual sex is supposed to feel. Part of me wonders if it’s okay to sleep with someone even if the chemistry isn’t there, just because I want the experience or physical intimacy.

I also wonder whether it’s actually safer emotionally to have casual sex with someone I don’t really like, since if I genuinely liked someone, there’s a chance I’d catch feelings. But then I question whether having sex with someone I’m not even attracted to is a bad idea in the first place.

Movies make it look so effortless, but in reality, the logistics are tricky. Do you carry wet wipes, wait until you get home, or have a specific protocol? What’s your realistic experience with cleanup in these settings?

I mean, idk what else to do, there’s tip, ball and hand/mouth combo, what makes ur eyes roll?
oh and how often do you feel teeth, is it smth like, if my mouth can feel it you can and if i can’t you can’t?

I want to make my man have the best orgasm ever specifically when he cums inside me. I am obsessed with the idea of making him cum prematurely/uncontrollably. What can I say besides “cum inside me” to make him explode?

I (29F) have been with my partner (31M) for six years and our main way of finishing has been him pulling out. We’ve been going through a bit of a dead bedroom issue the last while. We finally had sex the other night (it had been 2 months, and no I’m not the reason) and I was in his favourite position, and I noticed he finished inside. He literally never does this. When I asked why he didn’t pull out he said he forgot. When asked how he told me not to complain. I’m just confused. How do you forget when you’ve literally always done it, or at least asked/warned before you finished inside? I’ll take anecdotes, responses from men and women, I’m just so confused.

so i’ve been seeing this guy for like a year and the other day while having sex in sort of like the prone bone/doggy style position he sort of started spreading my ass cheeks as he would go in which i could feel him doing and he’d lowkey never done that before so i was wondering for all the men does it give you a better view like what exactly was he doing that for? 😂

I’m kind of having a crisis here, me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and a half almost and she’s had partners before me and she’s my first, we do everything besides PIV, I told her from the beginning I wasn’t going to do that. In her past relationships she used to smoke and get high from time to time and I dorm know about specific situations but I’m worried that her sex with those people are always going to be better then me. I’ve heard some things about being high making sex and orgasms so much better and enjoyable, I’ve never smoked and I never will and I got my gf to quit she’s been sober for many months. Sadly, she has had partners before bigger than me and combine that with the big high, I’m wondering if I’m cooked. For reference I’m 6x4.75 just average, so please give me the real truth guys and what yall think. If there’s thing you can suggest for me to get better not at all thinks like fingering, oral, and for when I do end up doing PIV.

Just like the question states- are you constantly talking to at least one girl and potentially hooking up with someone? Especially if you find yourself to be pretty attractive, are you ever completely single?

I am a woman and I find this pretty wild!! I think for me I either like someone or don’t. And I value connection a lot so it is hard for me to find people in interested in. Like I go through many periods of time where I am literally talking to 0 people and that can be a span of a month or even up to years! I’m talking like not even finding someone attractive or having eye candy from far away lol.

(Btw it’s not judgement at all !!! It’s more like curiosity!)

I (24F) have a rather high sex drive right now (we’ve been having sex 3-5 times a day the past couple days). It’s super fun, and I don’t want it to slow down (my fiancé is in the same boat, as obviously I would slow down if he was not enthusiastic).

However, I am getting a little sore from how much sex we’re having. We’ve been making sure to do plenty of foreplay, so I’m prepared and plenty wet. Does anyone have any tips on helping with this?

Thanks in advance!!