u/mcucker

Give up on the notion of orgasming. We stay locked and we serve our kings queens and others. No one wants our shrimps; so my mission is to serve them wholeheartedly. I want to live in the BNWO

I’m a white, service-oriented submissive in permanent chastity, and I’m mainly here to help connect interested women or couples with respectful, confident Black men who may be a good fit for them whom I serve. My role is not to center myself, but to be useful, supportive, and helpful in making introductions where there is mutual interest, clear communication, and genuine chemistry. I personally support the BNWO.

I am especially drawn to dynamics where strong, confident people are appreciated and supported. I enjoy being in a service role, being given structure, and helping make relationships easier, more pleasant, and more fulfilling for the people involved. I do not like the term “bulls,” and I am not interested in crude stereotypes or disrespectful language. I prefer dynamics that feel intentional, respectful, and mutually beneficial, where everyone is treated like a real person rather than a fantasy label.

About me: I enjoy being kept in chastity, being put in my place in a consensual way, and serving powerful couples or individuals who value dedication, consistency, and discretion. Outside of this, I enjoy gaming, gardening, IKEA projects, cooking, cleaning, and being useful to others. I’m located in the southern U.S., but I am only looking for an online dynamic for myself.

My hard limits include bodily fluids, actual violence, and any in-person sexual contact from me. Boundaries, consent, and clear expectations are important to me.
If you’re interested, send me a message explaining what about this interests you, what kind of person or dynamic you are looking for, and how I can best help connect you with someone who genuinely appeals to you.

I’m trying to come up with a structure for a true BNWO society. Please share your input and ideas!

Rules for black men and women:

1. All the standard laws related to not harming others (ie no assault, murder, rape, etc.)
2. No black men or women shall be required to work to get state benefits.
3. Must be given a home at age 18

Rules for white women:

1. No breeding with white men
2. No dating, sleeping with, or marrying white men
3. If a black man or woman wants your job, you must give it to them. If a black man or woman.
4. Must be employed or submit themselves to being bred by black men or living with them as their maids.
5. If living in a home with a white male servant, they are required to ensure the men stay in line

Rules for white men:

1. Vasectomies at age 18
2. Must remain caged or receive sex changes
3. Must be employed and must live with a black man or woman to serve them after work
4. Must obey any non illegal orders from anyone in society.
5. May not have management positions unless permitted by all others for some reason
6. May not have their own bank account- it will be held by their host
7. May not call themselves men

Rules

I’m trying to come up with a structure for a true BNWO society. Please share your input and ideas!

Rules for black men and women:

1. All the standard laws related to not harming others (ie no assault, murder, rape, etc.)
2. No black men or women shall be required to work to get state benefits.
3. Must be given a home at age 18

Rules for white women:

1. No breeding with white men
2. No dating, sleeping with, or marrying white men
3. If a black man or woman wants your job, you must give it to them. If a black man or woman.
4. Must be employed or submit themselves to being bred by black men or living with them as their maids.
5. If living in a home with a white male servant, they are required to ensure the men stay in line

Rules for white men:

1. Vasectomies at age 18
2. Must remain caged or receive sex changes
3. Must be employed and must live with a black man or woman to serve them after work
4. Must obey any non illegal orders from anyone in society.
5. May not have management positions unless permitted by all others for some reason
6. May not have their own bank account- it will be held by their host
7. May not call themselves men

Rules

I love the BNWO in and outside the bedroom. I want black men and women to be lifted up and lead us and I want to serve them where I can. I think it’s needed to right centuries of wrongs and honestly I think drawing on and submitting to black strength will make us all better off. I personally feel my inferiority radiating whenever I’m in their presence. The question though is: this is a group of likeminded whitebois, how do we get cis women and our black kings and queens to see how beneficial this life could be. What do we need to be doing more to support?

I’ve been married 5 years. When we started dating, I told her about my desires for chastity, cuckolding, and the BNWO. She acted as though she was cool with it and we’d even sext about it. Once we got married it was like a total rug pull and all the sexy talk came to a halt. She gets mad if I even bring it up any more. Idk what to do. I love my wife but I love my black kings and queens too. Has anyone else run into this and, if so, how did you deal with it?

I want to start a house of sissy whitebois who are devoted to the BNWO. All of us would sleep in maid outfits in the basement and be around 24/7 to serve our kings and queens. Our kings and their guests would stay for free while we sissies pay all the costs.

Tell me, what would you want in the house and would any kings actually ever agree to live in a place like that? I just want to make sure we take care of our kings and queens

This one is for the ladies: What drew you to (or alternatively, pushed you away from) the BNWO. For context, this is a fetish/lifestyle where white men and women submit themselves to black men and women. Typically, it involves white women being exclusive sexual with black men and having the white men in their lives around only to serve them. I’d love to especially know what gives you the ick and if any part sounds remotely appealing.

I’m working on a BNWO themed erotic novel. I don’t want it to be the typical AI swill you find online. I want it to embrace BNWO in the broader culture while also showing it impact on a married couple. Current ideas involve sissification, chastity, service, and support of black businesses and coworkers. I’d love to know what you all think needs to be in it to get your attention and spread the idea of this lifestyle to a broader audience.