u/mfogue

What do we all want? (or at least most of us, I can't speak for everyone). We want to feel validated and special again, if we're here it's because we are missing something important in our relationship. That's exactly my case, I miss feeling appreciated, I miss feeling like I'm important, I miss that spark and constant flirting. If you feel the same, this could be a great chance to solve that together and get our happiness back!

Firstly a disclaimer, I'm from Europe, but I can adapt to very different time zones. I work from home (now, my career kinda changed not too long ago) and also I'm a night owl, so if we need time, trust me when I say I have TONS of that. I have a little kid and my sleep patterns are all over the place anyway. And what do I do with the time that I have now? Mainly use it in different hobbies, like reading (any genre, but I especially enjoy some history or fantasy novels, we could choose any book to read together!), or watching horror movies (my guilty pleasure, even if they're horrible), or trying to get creative with some crafting projects, or walking around getting some fresh air, or planning a trip to keep my mind as open as possible. All that is nice but I want to share all that and more with the right person. I love sharing pictures and voice notes during my day, just anything to feel closer to you.

I can connect with very different types of people, if you're kind and curious then I know we'll get along really well! I don't care about ages or body types, I only care about you being yourself and see how well we connect. I know I can learn a lot from you and I'm willing to know everything that makes you who you are, as well as share everything about me. I'm an open book for the right person (maybe too much sometimes!).

Wherever you are, if you feel I could make your life just a bit better, say hi and let's start something beautiful together.

What do we all want? (or at least most of us, I can't speak for everyone). We want to feel validated and special again, if we're here it's because we are missing something important in our relationship. That's exactly my case, I miss feeling appreciated, I miss feeling like I'm important, I miss that spark and constant flirting. If you feel the same, this could be a great chance to solve that together and get our happiness back!

Firstly a disclaimer, I'm from Europe, but I can adapt to very different time zones. I work from home (now, my career kinda changed not too long ago) and also I'm a night owl, so if we need time, trust me when I say I have TONS of that. I have a little kid and my sleep patterns are all over the place anyway. And what do I do with the time that I have now? Mainly use it in different hobbies, like reading (any genre, but I especially enjoy some history or fantasy novels, we could choose any book to read together!), or watching horror movies (my guilty pleasure, even if they're horrible), or trying to get creative with some crafting projects, or walking around getting some fresh air, or planning a trip to keep my mind as open as possible. All that is nice but I want to share all that and more with the right person. I love sharing pictures and voice notes during my day, just anything to feel closer to you.

I can connect with very different types of people, if you're kind and curious then I know we'll get along really well! I don't care about ages or body types, I only care about you being yourself and see how well we connect. I know I can learn a lot from you and I'm willing to know everything that makes you who you are, as well as share everything about me. I'm an open book for the right person (maybe too much sometimes!).

Wherever you are, if you feel I could make your life just a bit better, say hi and let's start something beautiful together.

Sometimes life feels unfair, likr living a life that we didn't choose but it was imposed to us. In my case, I found too late in life that I have too little in common with the other side of the marriage, at a time when ending things didn't seem like an option. Maybe this sound relatable to you, maybe you're also feeling the frustration or knowing things and be so much better but changing them being so hard. Maybe we can try to change them together.

I'm a Spanish guy, 39, with one kid that keeps me active and my main reason to go on these days. I love reading (mainly historical fiction and fantasy novels) and also writing. Anything that feels creative helps me ease my mind: drawing, painting, crafting... I'm a homebody but I need to keep my mind open and I travel as often as I can, new places, new cultures, new points of view. About looks, I'm 180 cm tall (or 5'11"), I work out often to keep me in shape and I've been told I'm too pale for the Spanish stereotype, but who cares about stereotypes anyway. I work from home and I have plenty of time to talk during the day, especially in the morning and nights. I have some weird sleeping patterns so any time zone is welcome.

If you think we could create something beautiful, say hello and let's see if we connect. In the worst case we can at least laugh and I can teach some awesome Spanish curse words. The best case is something waiting for us.

Reading in bed and wondering when life turned out like this. I used to have a lot of motivation and I am a romantic at heart, but all that faded away. It's a pity when we can't be ourselves because something out of our control changes that. What if I want to be my old self? Feeling excited about someone, those butterflies when we see we have a new message waiting to be read, a natural and effortless connection with someone. Maybe you miss all that, and we could try to get it back together!

I'm married with one kid who is a little miracle, and the relationship feels like coparenting without any affection or passion. When I have some time for myself I like to get lost in a good book or maybe do something creative. I like listening to music but I've never been able to play an instrument, even if it's something I would love to learn to do one day. I try to have an open mind, I have tons of patience and I'm always looking for something new to experience. I know attraction is important, so we can share a picture to see if we click. I'm 5'11" (or 180 cm) tall, I work out regularly, brown eyes and hair, and pale skin.

First and foremost, I want to build a true friendship here, and then see if feelings arise as we know more from each other. I live in Europe (you can try to guess which country) but I can adapt to different time zones, and I want to dedicate the time I have to the right person. If you think I could make your life any better, just say hello!

When we think about our lives, we usually try to leave our mistakes and regrets behind. They're there, but sometimes we try to find the chance to start something new, something special that lasts and gives us a part of what we're missing: communication, affection, desire.

For the communication part, I want to find someone with whom we can be ourselves, never feeling judged for sharing what's on our minds. I am from Spain, in a marriage that feels stuck and still can't end for a variety of reasons, one of them is a little kid. I can be either an introvert homebody or an outdoors explorer. I love reading (especially historical fiction and fantasy), getting inspired to do something artistic (like drawing, painting or crafting), watching a good (or bad) horror movie, or a comedy that makes me laugh until I can't hold my tears. I also love traveling and exploring our world, keeping my mind open and enjoying the food and experiences in little corners of the Earth. I'm a night owl so I can adapt to different timezones, I truly enjoy long conversations.

The affection part will come as we know more of each other. I don't need much to be happy, a good morning text, a bad joke, a picture of the sunset you're watching right now... Just knowing we're thinking of each other can make me daydream of you.

The desire part, well that can't happen without the other two, but about looks I can tell I'm 5'11" (or 180 cm tall), I try to keep myself fit, brown hair and eyes, and quite pale for the Spanish stereotype (but who cares about stereotypes anyway).

So if you reached here, if you felt all this could be what you're also looking for, let's start this new year together. Let's start a journey where we decide where we're going, a safe place without judgement where we can be ourselves. A place where I'll always be waiting for you with a smile.

When we think about our lives, we usually try to leave our mistakes and regrets behind. They're there, but sometimes we try to find the chance to start something new, something special that lasts and gives us a part of what we're missing: communication, affection, desire.

For the communication part, I want to find someone with whom we can be ourselves, never feeling judged for sharing what's on our minds. I am from Spain, in a marriage that feels stuck and still can't end for a variety of reasons, one of them is a little kid. I can be either an introvert homebody or an outdoors explorer. I love reading (especially historical fiction and fantasy), getting inspired to do something artistic (like drawing, painting or crafting), watching a good (or bad) horror movie, or a comedy that makes me laugh until I can't hold my tears. I also love traveling and exploring our world, keeping my mind open and enjoying the food and experiences in little corners of the Earth. I'm a night owl so I can adapt to different timezones, I truly enjoy long conversations.

The affection part will come as we know more of each other. I don't need much to be happy, a good morning text, a bad joke, a picture of the sunset you're watching right now... Just knowing we're thinking of each other can make me daydream of you.

The desire part, well that can't happen without the other two, but about looks I can tell I'm 5'11" (or 180 cm tall), I try to keep myself fit, brown hair and eyes, and quite pale for the Spanish stereotype (but who cares about stereotypes anyway).

So if you reached here, if you felt all this could be what you're also looking for, let's start this new year together. Let's start a journey where we decide where we're going, a safe place without judgement where we can be ourselves. A place where I'll always be waiting for you with a smile.

Sometimes life feels unfair, liking living a life that we didn't choose but it was imposed to us. In my case, I found too late in life that I have too little in common with the other side of the marriage, at a time when ending things didn't seem like an option. Maybe this sound relatable to you, maybe you're also feeling the frustration or knowing things and be so much better but changing them being so hard. Maybe we can try to change them together.

I'm a Spanish guy, 39, with one kid that keeps me active and my main reason to go on these days. I love reading (mainly historical fiction and fantasy novels) and also writing. Anything that feels creative helps me ease my mind: drawing, painting, crafting... I'm a homebody but I need to keep my mind open and I travel as often as I can, new places, new cultures, new points of view. About looks, I'm 180 cm tall (or 5'11"), I work out often to keep me in shape and I've been told I'm too pale for the Spanish stereotype, but who cares about stereotypes anyway. I work from home and I have plenty of time to talk during the day, especially in the morning and nights. I have some weird sleeping patterns so any time zone is welcome.

If you think we could create something beautiful, say hello and let's see if we connect. In the worst case we can at least laugh and I can teach some awesome Spanish curse words. The best case is something waiting for us.

Sometimes life feels unfair, liking living a life that we didn't choose but it was imposed to us. In my case, I found too late in life that I have too little in common with the other side of the marriage, at a time when ending things didn't seem like an option. Maybe this sound relatable to you, maybe you're also feeling the frustration or knowing things and be so much better but changing them being so hard. Maybe we can try to change them together.

I'm a Spanish guy, 39, with one kid that keeps me active and my main reason to go on these days. I love reading (mainly historical fiction and fantasy novels) and also writing. Anything that feels creative helps me ease my mind: drawing, painting, crafting... I'm a homebody but I need to keep my mind open and I travel as often as I can, new places, new cultures, new points of view. About looks, I'm 180 cm tall (or 5'11"), I work out often to keep me in shape and I've been told I'm too pale for the Spanish stereotype, but who cares about stereotypes anyway. I work from home and I have plenty of time to talk during the day, especially in the morning and nights. I have some weird sleeping patterns so any time zone is welcome.

If you think we could create something beautiful, say hello and let's see if we connect. In the worst case we can at least laugh and I can teach some awesome Spanish curse words. The best case is something waiting for us.

Sometimes life feels unfair, liking living a life that we didn't choose but it was imposed to us. In my case, I found too late in life that I have too little in common with the other side of the marriage, at a time when ending things didn't seem like an option. Maybe this sound relatable to you, maybe you're also feeling the frustration or knowing things and be so much better but changing them being so hard. Maybe we can try to change them together.

I'm a Spanish guy, 39, with one kid that keeps me active and my main reason to go on these days. I love reading (mainly historical fiction and fantasy novels) and also writing. Anything that feels creative helps me ease my mind: drawing, painting, crafting... I'm a homebody but I need to keep my mind open and I travel as often as I can, new places, new cultures, new points of view. About looks, I'm 180 cm tall (or 5'11"), I work out often to keep me in shape and I've been told I'm too pale for the Spanish stereotype, but who cares about stereotypes anyway. I work from home and I have plenty of time to talk during the day, especially in the morning and nights. I have some weird sleeping patterns so any time zone is welcome.

If you think we could create something beautiful, say hello and let's see if we connect. In the worst case we can at least laugh and I can teach some awesome Spanish curse words. The best case is something waiting for us.

Sometimes life feels unfair, liking living a life that we didn't choose but it was imposed to us. In my case, I found too late in life that I have too little in common with the other side of the marriage, at a time when ending things didn't seem like an option. Maybe this sound relatable to you, maybe you're also feeling the frustration or knowing things and be so much better but changing them being so hard. Maybe we can try to change them together.

I'm a Spanish guy, 39, with one kid that keeps me active and my main reason to go on these days. I love reading (mainly historical fiction and fantasy novels) and also writing. Anything that feels creative helps me ease my mind: drawing, painting, crafting... I'm a homebody but I need to keep my mind open and I travel as often as I can, new places, new cultures, new points of view. About looks, I'm 180 cm tall (or 5'11"), I work out often to keep me in shape and I've been told I'm too pale for the Spanish stereotype, but who cares about stereotypes anyway. I work from home and I have plenty of time to talk during the day, especially in the morning and nights. I have some weird sleeping patterns so any time zone is welcome.

If you think we could create something beautiful, say hello and let's see if we connect. In the worst case we can at least laugh and I can teach some awesome Spanish curse words. The best case is something waiting for us.

Reading in bed and wondering when life turned out like this. I used to have a lot of motivation and I am a romantic at heart, but all that faded away. It's a pity when we can't be ourselves because something out of our control changes that. What if I want to be my old self? Feeling excited about someone, those butterflies when we see we have a new message waiting to be read, a natural and effortless connection with someone. Maybe you miss all that, and we could try to get it back together!

I'm married with one kid who is a little miracle, and the relationship feels like coparenting without any affection or passion. When I have some time for myself I like to get lost in a good book or maybe do something creative. I like listening to music but I've never been able to play an instrument, even if it's something I would love to learn to do one day. I try to have an open mind, I have tons of patience and I'm always looking for something new to experience. I know attraction is important, so we can share a picture to see if we click. I'm 5'11" (or 180 cm) tall, I work out regularly, brown eyes and hair, and pale skin.

First and foremost, I want to build a true friendship here, and then see if feelings arise as we know more from each other. I live in Europe (you can try to guess which country) but I can adapt to different time zones, and I want to dedicate the time I have to the right person. If you think I could make your life any better, just say hello!