u/mightaswellsayhi

This post is written in English. So your reply should be in English as well. Read to the bottom, answer the questions, talk to you soon!

I know, I know, the heat wave isn't even really over yet and only some of us had a thunderstorm to party in. I know I didn't, and I'm very mad at Zeus for it. But that's not the kind of hot Euro Summer I'm looking for. I want to see beautiful places, swim in beautiful rivers, feel the sweaty skin on skin of making out in an alley in a historic little town I've never gone to. I already do this on my own, pack a bag, pick a direction, see where I end up. How much more fun to dream that up together, and go on our little weekend getaway to explore each other along with the scenery.

Who am I?

Person first, domme second.

Big fan of all things nature. I feed my flock of corvids and watch and worry about them being all good. I disappear into forests and meadows with binoculars and a wild boar ring and a whole lot of hope to find something cool. Most of the time I return with a basket of foraged goodies and new plants to catalogue.

I love making things with my hands. There's just so much joy in creating something. I sew, I cross stitch and embroider, I do some whittling and woodworking and all sorts of crafting.

My taste is a little more dark, earthy and witchy. Some of the things I make are potions, balms, oils, ritual is a part of my life. It grounds me and is my form of self-care and living more and more in tune with the nature around me.

When I'm not outside and being quiet, I'm inside being screamed at. By metalcore bands ideally, but I'll also settle for adjacent genres and drowning in a sea of black hoodies and sweat and people pushing each other around.

I care about the world I live in and the part I play and am curious about everything. I like to stay informed about politics, societal issues, and any rabbit holes I fall into.

The kinky me:

On the kinky side of things, I'm very much a gentle domme. I care about safety and sensuality, I'm nurturing and come into this space with a whole lot of empathy. I love creating atmosphere that works for both of us and isn't just a stereotypical something.

My interest in all things ritual also extends into the kinky space and can take all sorts of shapes and forms.

Reciprocity matters to me a lot. We read "kink dispenser" on here a lot, that's not what I am and I don't expect you to be that either. It's important for me to ensure that you're good at all times and I expect you to do the same, inside and outside of scenes.

Overall, the non-kinky me flavours the kinky me a lot. I am a whole human being with lots of dimensions and I want all of me to be included in my sex life.

Who am I looking for?

A submissive man somewhere in Europe, between 28 and 43 years old. Yes, these requirements are firm. No, I won't make an exception for you.

Someone who's curious, passionate, playful and flirty. Who likes to talk, has a life, has interests he's invested in and wants to teach me about (or get excited together if our interests overlap!). It's so important to me to meet a fellow human being, someone I can respect as a person, and not someone who comes at me dick-first with no thoughts other than "how can I best type with only one hand?"

This connection matters much more to me than any sort of kink match. Submission to me shouldn't be performed, it should be earned and both of us should feel good about it. Submission given by someone I don't connect with, who I don't respect, doesn't do anything for me.

So how do you approach me?

I'm in Germany, near-ish Frankfurt am Main. You're somewhere else in Europe. Tell me where we'd meet up for our hot euro summer. Meet in the middle somewhere? Do a little detour elsewhere? What are we doing? What are we seeing? What are we eating? Whatever your plan includes, tell me all about it (and include your age and location so I can make sure you fall within my parameters).

The summer is just getting started, let's make it memorable!

I know, I know, the heat wave isn't even really over yet and only some of us had a thunderstorm to party in. I know I didn't, and I'm very mad at Zeus for it. But that's not the kind of hot Euro Summer I'm looking for. I want to see beautiful places, swim in beautiful rivers, feel the sweaty skin on skin of making out in an alley in a historic little town I've never gone to. I already do this on my own, pack a bag, pick a direction, see where I end up. How much more fun to dream that up together, and go on our little weekend getaway to explore each other along with the scenery.

Who am I?

Person first, domme second.

Big fan of all things nature. I feed my flock of corvids and watch and worry about them being all good. I disappear into forests and meadows with binoculars and a wild boar ring and a whole lot of hope to find something cool. Most of the time I return with a basket of foraged goodies and new plants to catalogue.

I love making things with my hands. There's just so much joy in creating something. I sew, I cross stitch and embroider, I do some whittling and woodworking and all sorts of crafting.

My taste is a little more dark, earthy and witchy. Some of the things I make are potions, balms, oils, ritual is a part of my life. It grounds me and is my form of self-care and living more and more in tune with the nature around me.

When I'm not outside and being quiet, I'm inside being screamed at. By metalcore bands ideally, but I'll also settle for adjacent genres and drowning in a sea of black hoodies and sweat and people pushing each other around.

I care about the world I live in and the part I play and am curious about everything. I like to stay informed about politics, societal issues, and any rabbit holes I fall into.

The kinky me:

On the kinky side of things, I'm very much a gentle domme. I care about safety and sensuality, I'm nurturing and come into this space with a whole lot of empathy. I love creating atmosphere that works for both of us and isn't just a stereotypical something.

My interest in all things ritual also extends into the kinky space and can take all sorts of shapes and forms, again.

Reciprocity matters to me a lot. We read "kink dispenser" on here a lot, that's not what I am and I don't expect you to be that either. It's important for me to ensure that you're good at all times and I expect you to do the same, inside and outside of scenes.

Overall, the non-kinky me flavours the kinky me a lot. I am a whole human being with lots of dimensions and I want all of me to be included in my sex life.

Who am I looking for?

A submissive man somewhere in Europe, between 28 and 43 years old.

Someone who's curious, passionate, playful and flirty. Who likes to talk, has a life, has interests he's invested in and wants to teach me about (or get excited together if our interests overlap!). It's so important to me to meet a fellow human being, someone I can respect as a person, and not someone who comes at me dick-first with no thoughts other than "how can I best type with only one hand?"

This connection matters much more to me than any sort of kink match. Submission to me shouldn't be performed, it should be earned and both of us should feel good about it. Submission given by someone I don't connect with, who I don't respect, doesn't do anything for me.

So how do you approach me?

I'm in Germany, fairly close to the center of it. You're somewhere else in Europe. Tell me where we'd take our road trip. Meet in the middle somewhere? Do a little detour elsewhere? What are we doing? What are we seeing? What are we eating? Whatever your plan includes, tell me all about it (and include your age and location so I can make sure you fall within my parameters).

The summer is just getting started, let's make it memorable!

Read to the end before you message me. If your attention span doesn't last through one post, we're not a good match.

Who am I?

Birder, hiker, maker, collector, witch, always working on one thing or another. Currently that's planning my next travels, training to get back into longer distance hikes by frolicking through the fields every day and sewing my summer wardrobe.

Who are you?

Hopefully a whole person that lives a full, rich life outside of kink. It would be fantastic if some of our hobbies aligned, but I'm also always happy to dip my toes into another person's world, see what makes other people tick, what brings them happiness and makes them get out of bed in the morning!

What kind of dynamic am I looking for?

If kink is all you think of and all you want out of this, I am not the person for you. If you want to be treated like a piece of meat, I am not the person for you.

I love humans that are whole, that meet each other on the same level, that care for and respect one another first, and live out their sexual fantasies second. Ideally these two are easily combined, but if I can't talk to you like a person, if all you're looking for is sex, if you have no interest in truly getting to know me, then I can already tell you I will lose interest very fast and not bother getting to these deeper places that make any type of domination that much better.

As you might guess from that, I'm not looking for a quick fix but something longer-lasting and deeper than surface level.

How do you get my attention?

I'm a birder at heart. I expect courtship. What that courtship looks like is up to you. Whether you get inspired by birds, who have an amazing variety in courtship rituals, by your favourite romcom, by my text or just by following your heart. But if there is no sign of it in your first message, you might as well not send it.

Important:

• Be at least 30 years old.
• Be in Europe, ideally at most 1 or 2 countries away from Germany.
• Be willing to travel.
• Do not send me your kink list.
• Do not message me if you fall outside of these parameters.
• Seriously. No, 29 is not old enough. No, I won't make an exception.

Go on. Dance for me or show me your coolest feathers.

Read to the end before you message me. If your attention span doesn't last through one post, we're not a good match.

Who am I?

Birder, hiker, maker, collector, witch, always working on one thing or another. Currently that's planning my next travels, training to get back into longer distance hikes by frolicking through the fields every day and sewing my summer wardrobe.

Who are you?

Hopefully a whole person that lives a full, rich life outside of kink. It would be fantastic if some of our hobbies aligned, but I'm also always happy to dip my toes into another person's world, see what makes other people tick, what brings them happiness and makes them get out of bed in the morning!

What kind of dynamic am I looking for?

If kink is all you think of and all you want out of this, I am not the person for you. If you want to be treated like a piece of meat, I am not the person for you.

I love humans that are whole, that meet each other on the same level, that care for and respect one another first, and live out their sexual fantasies second. Ideally these two are easily combined, but if I can't talk to you like a person, if all you're looking for is sex, if you have no interest in truly getting to know me, then I can already tell you I will lose interest very fast and not bother getting to these deeper places that make any type of domination that much better.

As you might guess from that, I'm not looking for a quick fix but something longer-lasting and deeper than surface level.

How do you get my attention?

I'm a birder at heart. I expect courtship. What that courtship looks like is up to you. Whether you get inspired by birds, who have an amazing variety in courtship rituals, by your favourite romcom, by my text or just by following your heart. But if there is no sign of it in your first message, you might as well not send it.

Important:

• Be at least 30 years old.
• Be in Europe, ideally at most 1 or 2 countries away from Germany.
• Be willing to travel.
• Do not send me your kink list.
• Do not message me if you fall outside of these parameters.
• Seriously. No, 29 is not old enough. No, I won't make an exception.

Go on. Dance for me or show me your coolest feathers.