u/myunhingedacct

Hello all, this is probably the craziest update of all. I have to say…she’s NOT fucking VANILLA ANYMORE. Holy shit, she WAS VANILLA 11 weeks ago, but she is getting completely TRANSFORMED by stepping into a power role :’)

I’m going to keep titling my posts this way though, as i want my posts to hopefully encourage those men with vanilla wives who think (she would never) to potentially explore some fantasies together, done well, and with good honest communication, can be truly AMAZING.

Chastity has been going extremely well for us. We have grown more trusting of eachother and I have grown to be more caring and supportive of all of her daily needs, chores, tasks, etc. I have been more creative with dates and taking her out more, she’s had flowers 4 times. We went from having vanilla intercourse 3 or so times a month. To me using a harness with her biggest toys strapped on to make her cum 2-3 times, usually after a full body naked massage.

Using the harness on her, has really shown me how much of an inadequacy I have being only 5.5 inches, and 4” in girth. Her reactions to the thrusting, the passion in her kisses and the way she looks into my eyes, the body movements, the shaking, the convulsing, the faces she makes. It has really been an eye opener, and has led me to fully accept my size.

I had been thinking of revealing my cuckold fantasy to her for years, really considering it ever since starting chastity, and then actually wanting to tell her once I started with the harness.

She gave me the perfect opportunity saying she had a dream about another guy, kissing him, while I was there. I told her I dreamt the same things as her, except she was getting fucked and i loved being there. I told her it’s been my fantasy for a long time, and I genuinely feel I trust her enough to give her this gift of cuckolding me, exploring her sexuality, stepping into a more demanding dominant version of herself that knows her worth, and what she deserves in and out of the bedroom. I didn’t tell her like that, but it’s what I was trying to say.

She said YES!!!!

I was fucking SHOOK. I couldn’t believe my ears.

The following 2 weeks or something, have been an absolute ROLLERCOASTER of emotions, trustworthiness, extremely passionate and caring sex, deep conversations, and overall just improving our relationship in almost every aspect all around.

We have been listening to podcasts “Venus Cuckoldress podcast” on Apple, and she is really starting to…get excited, she’s stepping into a more dominant and demanding role. It’s allowing her to embrace the chastity and control even more than before.

She’s actually started leaning into SPH, the first time she did I was fucking her well, after a couple drinks, and she flat out said “I’m gonna need more than that to cum”

This has evolved into her telling me every time, “I need more”

I started roleplaying as a bull, or as a hookup. I put on the harness and I play with the dildo on her ass or stomach. “It’s going to be a lot deeper than your husband isn’t it”

When I tease her, and enter her, and put on this more dominant side of myself. She is in complete and total ecstasy. Me telling her I wanted her to acknowledge how small I am, and humiliate me for it, and that turns me on, made her release all of her suppressive emotions and reactions to the harness.

I ask her all kinds of things like “your husband can’t fuck you like that can he?” Her response “he can’t, he would’ve came already”

“You like that dick better than your husbands dick baby?” “Yesss I love that dick deep in me”

It has truly been fucking TANTRIC. I have been even been denying her from rubbing her pussy until I give her permission. She gets SO turned on by this.

Chastity wise, I ordered a key for her, we went to a jewelry store and got a silver anklet, and starting about a week ago she has been asking about the key every other day just about “has my key shipped yet?”

She plans to wear it 24/7, as I wear the cage 24/7 for her. The thought of people knowing about our dynamic is hot and exciting for me, and we have talked about people “knowing” and she said “I’m proud of this, if they know then so be it”

She also TOLD me to put the cage on 2 unlocks ago. And last night after using the harness on her she asked me if I wanted to feel how stretched her pussy was and I said yes…then she made me beg to be unlocked. I fucked her for about 5 seconds and she said “I can barely feel you” while she was smiling. About 25 seconds later I was getting closer, but I wasn’t planning on cumming. The first time I slowed down because it’s sensitive she pushed me out of her and said “you can’t cum” I loved it, but I leaned into it and asked if that was really it, and she said “yes baby, that’s it for tonight”

In our conversations, we have mentioned, that if it weren’t for us trying chastity, and having a “bit” more open communication and kinky talk, we may have never thought to introduce cuckolding. We have also agreed that we are both happier than we have even been in our entire relationship. We BOTH say “this is too good to be true, I just worry you’re going to want to stop one day” “all of my wildest dreams are being answered”

Chastity, is truly fucking amazing. For those of you who think cuckolding is like the end of the world, you should go listen to a cuckoldress podcast. Cuckolding can truly be BEAUTIFUL and AMAZING for your relationship with your significant other, you aren’t replacing yourself sexually, but rather giving her the power, freedom, confidence, and trust, to have VARIETY in her sex life. To have experiences that you would never be able to give her, dates, food, sex, bigger dicks, hotter guys, you name it. She deserves it ALL, she has been the girl of my DREAMS in bed. I might be in chastity, but I get 5x the sexual attention I used to get, she sleeps naked or in ONLY a thong EVERY NIGHT, and she unlocks me ALL the time and denies me the opportunity to cum.

All of this FLR chastity cuckolding dynamic can be extremely beautiful and powerful for your relationship. I genuinely hope that some of the men reading this post, who fantasize about this (even if you are shameful about it) with their gf/wife, that you will seek out GOOD HEALTHY NON PORNOGRAPHIC educational resources about any of this. Trust me, these podcasts can get HOT, talking about how the cuck feels the first time watching, the first time she feels with a bigger dick, etc. In the self education of these kinks, you may be able to construct a healthier, easier to grasp proposal for your significant other. Leading to either 1. Not being absolutely DISGUSTED by your fantasy, or 2. Genuine curiosity into fulfilling THEIR significant others fantasies, where their own curiosity will trail behind.

I hope you all are having an amazing day! My wife and I are happier than WE EVER IMAGINED. I truly encourage you to explore actually making your fantasies a reality, it is truly life changing. Until next time :)

Hello all,

Just a fun question as I’m kinda curious. My wife and I are interested in pursuing cuckolding. And a random thought I had while DMing others, is how many of you/your wives were only able to cum via clit stimulation during penetration, but after cucking, can cum via internal orgasms?

Scarier question but I already know the answer for most, is, are you the cuck, able to replicate an internal orgasm for her? Maybe with a big toy?

It gives me a TON of angst, knowing she might cum from NO clitoral stimulation with another man. When she’s never done this with me. And I might never be able to give her one.

How did you deal with that angst?

Thank you :)

Hello all,

I hope this isn’t too storyish. Just trying to discuss my experience with you all as I JUST unveiled my fantasy to my wife less than 3 days ago.

I posted, I believe only yesterday or the day before. My wife and I have been experiencing an emotional rollercoaster of good fun and loving emotions ever since I confessed I wanted her to cuck me, and move past the fantasy in my head, and she said yes.

After work, we always call eachother to chat on the phone. Today, she told me “so I was doing some research on the stuff we talked about” through reddit

She said “I’m glad we talked about it before I did research, because I feel like I would’ve been scared away if it was the other way around”

She had her own questions and concerns, the usual, like what if it changes the way I see her in a negative way? What if I’m just going to get jealous and want my own experiences with other women? What if she ends up not liking it, will she still be enough for me after all the anticipation?

I was able to answer her questions confidently because I am so well versed in this as I have been fantasizing and researching, being on the fence, for about 3 ish or more years, but strongly the last 2 months after she started keyholding me.

I assured her I want her to go at her own pace, and we still have a lot of time until we even pursue anything because we are dealing with that life “hump” first. Which is good because it gives her time to get excited.

Being caged, one of our new rituals is a full body naked massage for her. This happens usually once or twice a week, and last 30 mins to 1 hour frequently with an orgasm at the end, at her own request.

Today, we listened to a cuckold podcast while I have her the massage, we exclaimed a few times, laughed a few times, and just had fun.

After the massage, she told me she wanted “just me” earlier In the day. Meaning no harness, and no toys. Just me. Which I’m completely fine with, as I rarely get full access to her unused pussy nowadays.

After about 10-15 minutes of good fucking, I asked “do you want me to get a toy?” And she said “maybe” I said “you need a bigger dick than mine to cum baby?” And she said “yea, maybe just a little bit bigger” I was in ecstasy, my heart was beating so fast. I couldn’t believe the words coming from her mouth.

(The podcast was still playing with earbuds in our ears)

I said “maybe I should fuck you like I’m someone else” and she agreed. I roleplayed as someone else and said “you like it deeper than your husband?” And she gasps and said yes, “it feels better than him?” And she said yes…immediately reassured me that she still loves me and I still feel amazing inside her, and then went straight back to it. Shes never admitted it, not like that, I’m fucking obsessed. She came super hard, and I good girled her and told her how good she looked taking “another guys cock”

After all was said and done, she asked me to put the cage on for the first time, like, I’ve always done it myself. I said “I appreciate you asking” and she said “I wasn’t really asking, but ok”

Instantly became much harder to put the cage on.

Things seem to be going very well, and she’s asking questions and looking to have open honest conversations about it. So I’m actually super proud of her/us. In just a matter of days she seems like she’s a future cuckoldress in the making lol.

I know it’s early guys, things will still develop and I will keep you all updated. Until next time :)

Hello all, I have recently began chastity with my wife, and she has been keyholding me for about 10 weeks give or take now. It has been going incredibly. I treat her like a queen like she deserves and do all of the chores for her, gave her 15 orgasms last month, etc.

One of our FAVORITE parts of the chastity play, has been using a harness on her, with her favorite dildos, called reverse pegging for those who don’t know. I have told her I actually enjoy fucking her with the toys more than my own dick, with the harness, it really feels like it’s me, to me. And it takes away the pressure of performance. She enjoys the bigger size, and the intensity of her orgasms when she’s getting stretched out. I’ve loved using toys on her for years. But being locked, and having extreme sensitivity on top of being on the smaller side of average. I have been using the harness nearly every time. We’ve probably had actual PIV like 6 times or so since starting chastity.

ALL OF THIS has made me feel very comfortable with letting her fuck another guy. We have talked about my size, and she doesn’t care that I’m smaller, and says I’m still good for her. But I always say “maybe until you have kids”

After I made her cum with the harness this morning, she told me she had a dream, and it was about her kissing another guy in public while I was there. I seized the opportunity and told her I have dreamt of her getting fucked by another guy, with me watching, and it’s been a long time fantasy of mine. With all of our recent experiences with chastity and the harness, I have really been enjoying it and I genuinely feel like I trust you and I’m ready for you to experience it.

We talked about it and she said “I mean, I would hate to see you fuck other girls…but I don’t even think you would want to?” Which is true. We agreed that we would both enjoy occasionally bringing a girl into the bedroom, so we can “team up” on my wife. We did this in college with a friend, a few times. Ultimately my wife ended it because she said “it feels like we are adding a third person to the relationship, it feels like it’s going further than just sex, psychologically and emotionally”

The reason she stopped the threesomes last time, is the exact thing that I thought about when I decided I DID want her to cuck me, and I wanted to tell her when the time was right, this was just days ago in my own head.

We talked about that, and I told her I completely trust her. She told me she feels more comfortable with me than she could ever imagine feeling, and she cried a little bit and said she’s so lucky to have me.

We have some life stuff that we are dealing with at the moment, but she said “I’m down after we get over this hump” in a way, and I said I’m down. By the end of this year she could be getting fucked by another guy. We both said we are excited, although I feel like I’m WAY more excited than her, as I have fantasized about this for YEARS and she’s only now thinking about it.

Anywho, what do you guys think of all this? And also, what should we do? Like until we get over this period of our life and we can kinda focus on having a little bit of fun? Should we be trying some roleplaying? Should we be doing some experimental online chatting/sexting with bulls? What did you do leading up to the first time?

It’s still somewhat far away, but what are some things we should be concerned about? What are some things we should talk about?

Thank you all! 🙏🏼

Hello all, a shorter update this time. But I wanted to come while everything was still fresh.

We have still been going strong with chastity, she still hasn’t REALLLY gotten a grasp on the denial aspect of it. I pretty much ask her to not let me cum. We both like it better when I don’t cum, but she says “I feel bad that you don’t get to”

However, she has gotten pretty sizequeenish with all of the reverse pegging I have been giving her. She has been cumming about 10-15 times a month. Usually 50-70% of her orgasms come from her toys. Her pussy has completely adjusted and can now take her biggest 10” x 6” dildo BALLS DEEP inside her.

It’s so hot watching her take it, the faces she makes, the stretch it gives compared to me. And then after when I finally enter her pussy and I can barely feel anything because I completely destroyed it using whatever I just did.

However last time we had sex I made her cum with a big toy, not her biggest, and after, I asked for a handjob, she said she wanted me to ruin it myself with her pussy, and when I entered her she said “unless it’s not tight enough” and I asked on of my biggest most peculiar fantasies…”can I try and put my balls in your pussy too?” And she said yes with no hesitation lol.

It wasn’t a super tight fit, but a firm grasp once they were both in, but then once I managed to get my dick in (thank god I’m only 5ish inches, my balls stayed inside her despite me pulling back enough to enter her) it felt AMAZING. I could feel that I was actually filling her up, and then the best part, I couldn’t just like pull out. I was kinda trapped inside her. With my dick AND balls, I could BARELY pull out, but my dick would pop out and my balls would stay in place. She was making faces and I asked her if she liked it and she REALLY did, lol, who would’ve thought. She almost came again, and then she ruined me 3x with her hands.

Definitely doing full package fucking again, she also said it felt a lot deeper.

I even got her a knot dildo, and surprised her with it, she was super into it and she’s definitely enjoying getting stretched out. She said “it hurts but it feels so good at the same time”

After she said “unless it’s not tight enough” I said “it might not be, but I love stretching you out, I love feeling how big those toys are by entering you, and feeling that you’re like…destroyed…I love it so much…it’s like lowkey, my long term fantasy and goal to fist you” she said “idk that’s a lot” and I said “it seems like a lot now but maybe after we have kids” and she said “yea that’s true” and I said “my dick might be too small after we have kids” (she’s sweet, and tells me it’s not too small now, it’s not, and I still make her cum, but it’s on the border of too small lol, one kid and that’s gonna seal the deal lol) and I said “I don’t care though, I’ll make you cum however you need” and she said “I love you” and kissed me passionately, I almost wanted to tell her I fantasized of her cucking me, maybe after we have kids? But I already have told her that I have a cuckold fantasy, and that I don’t really want to ACT on it at least right now. So I didn’t say it. But I thought it and it was hot lol. I wonder if she thinks about it too, secretly? Anywho lol.

We are both loving every second. I also ordered her key, and we went and got an anklet sized from a Kay jewelers, she’s actually more excited to start wearing it than me. She’s said “ughhhh, I can’t wait until it gets here” I’ve been kinda taken aback by how eager she is to wear it. Especially her being vanilla. I communicated to her that some people will probably know, maybe even some of her family (one of her siblings is pretty kinky) and she literally doesn’t care, she just automatically goes to the default excuse “it’s just the key to his heart” and she hasn’t even got the key yet lol.

Going extraordinary, I will update you guys again in the coming weeks. If you haven’t been following along, I have been posting periodic updates that you can view on my profile. Thanks! Have a good one!