u/naughty___gentleman

I've posted on here before with varying degrees of success. If nothing else, I've learned a lot about what I want and what I don't. So I thought I'd try putting down exactly what I'm looking for, even at the risk of making myself sound somewhat shallow or picky with some of it. Maybe that's true, but we like what we like, right? I know some of these things come with time, but why not put it all out there up front?

- Location: I'm in MST so I'd prefer if you were in North America.

- Availability: I want to be able to talk with you throughout the day. Of course I respect that you have other things going on in your life (in fact I hope you do) and I won't go all crazy if you don't respond within minutes, but if you're only available during the day while you're at work... that won't work.

- Age: please be younger than me, so like in the 25-35 range. I know that there are many wonderful women out there who are older than me, and I've enjoyed talking with you but it just doesn't seem to work for me.

- Personality - I enjoy a generally happy person. Fun loving. Don't take yourself too seriously. Kind-hearted and caring.

- Conversation: you don't need to write novels but be able to expand on things and give more than 3 word answers. Volunteer things about your life and be interested in mine.

- Hobbies: I don't think it matters whether we have any of the same hobbies or not. But it's nice if you have at least a few things you're interested in, and I promise I'll be interested in hearing you talk about them.

- Messaging app: Telegram

- Kids: It doesn't matter if you have kids or not, just as long as they don't take up all your attention, because I want some of it too!

- Appearance: Above all I love a cute face. I only say this in the interests of not wasting your time, but if you describe yourself as "curvy" then you're probably not my type.

- Pictures: I like a girl that enjoys sharing pictures. I don't just mean naughty pictures, I love to see your face and snapshots into your day.

- Kinks: I don't have a list of kinks that you need to be into, as long as you have an adventurous spirit and enjoy some experimentation in your life. I am on the dominant side so it's nice if you're somewhat submissive but that's not a requirement.

About me: I've spent this whole post talking about what I want, I suppose you're starting to wonder who the hell is this guy and why should you bother? I'm from Canada. Married with two kids. I enjoy a good book just as much as a good run outside. I have a lot of attention to give to the right woman and I'm not afraid of catching feelings if that's where things go, it's happened before. I have been told I'm handsome, and have also been ghosted after the picture exchange, so... take your chance? (Side note, if you haven't been ghosted after the pic exchange have you even truly onlineaffaired?)

If you're at all interested in learning more about me, please introduce yourself and we can go from there.

I have some experience with being an online dom and am searching for someone new to continue this journey with.

I am looking for something a little more casual than some other posts I see on here. I am not interested in an in person relationship, and I'm not planning to have you sign your life away or come get locked up in my basement as a live-in slave.

However, I am interested in getting to know you, your kinks, and what you're hoping to get out of this. It's no fun if we're not both getting what we want. I am a firm believer that the sub holds the ultimate power in a D/s relationship. You get to choose whether or not to submit, and can end things whenever you want. I think that's something that not everyone appreciates, so I hope you'll remember that, whether it's me you end up messaging or someone else.

I am more of a gentle (but strict) dom. I can be a little sadistic if you're into that, but it's not a requirement. I enjoy power exchanges. I like to control what you wear, when you can play with yourself, when you can orgasm. Maybe more depending on what you're interested in. As well as various tasks for you, depending on how much time you have to commit to this.

As for you, please be located in North America (due to time zones). It would be nice if you were able to hold a conversation, because I do want to get to know you. I don't want to waste anyone's time so I'll be upfront with saying that my type is generally girls with a slim to average build.

I think that's about it. If you think you might be interested, or just want to chat a bit and ask some questions, please come introduce yourself.

I've posted on here before with varying degrees of success. If nothing else, I've learned a lot about what I want and what I don't. So I thought I'd try putting down exactly what I'm looking for, even at the risk of making myself sound somewhat shallow or picky with some of it. Maybe that's true, but we like what we like, right? I know some of these things come with time, but why not put it all out there up front?

- Location: I'm in MST so I'd prefer if you were in North America.

- Availability: I want to be able to talk with you throughout the day. Of course I respect that you have other things going on in your life (in fact I hope you do) and I won't go all crazy if you don't respond within minutes, but if you're only available during the day while you're at work... that won't work.

- Age: please be younger than me, so like in the 25-35 range. I know that there are many wonderful women out there who are older than me, and I've enjoyed talking with you but it just doesn't seem to work for me.

- Personality - I enjoy a generally happy person. Fun loving. Don't take yourself too seriously. Kind-hearted and caring.

- Conversation: you don't need to write novels but be able to expand on things and give more than 3 word answers. Volunteer things about your life and be interested in mine.

- Hobbies: I don't think it matters whether we have any of the same hobbies or not. But it's nice if you have at least a few things you're interested in, and I promise I'll be interested in hearing you talk about them.

- Messaging app: Telegram

- Kids: It doesn't matter if you have kids or not, just as long as they don't take up all your attention, because I want some of it too!

- Appearance: Above all I love a cute face. I only say this in the interests of not wasting your time, but if you describe yourself as "curvy" then you're probably not my type.

- Pictures: I like a girl that enjoys sharing pictures. I don't just mean naughty pictures, I love to see your face and snapshots into your day.

- Kinks: I don't have a list of kinks that you need to be into, as long as you have an adventurous spirit and enjoy some experimentation in your life. I am on the dominant side so it's nice if you're somewhat submissive but that's not a requirement.

About me: I've spent this whole post talking about what I want, I suppose you're starting to wonder who the hell is this guy and why should you bother? I'm from Canada. Married with two kids. I enjoy a good book just as much as a good run outside. I have a lot of attention to give to the right woman and I'm not afraid of catching feelings if that's where things go, it's happened before. I have been told I'm handsome, and have also been ghosted after the picture exchange, so... take your chance? (Side note, if you haven't been ghosted after the pic exchange have you even truly onlineaffaired?)

If you're at all interested in learning more about me, please introduce yourself and we can go from there.