u/needsandsecrets

I really hope so, for both of us. I am a high energy, fun but deep, do-it-myself kind of man who willing to put in the effort to build an emotional and physical connection. Yes, I am married and not looking to change situations, and I'm assuming we are both missing something. The 'stable but emotionally empty' feeling really does leave one questioning.

Best case, this is becomes a more long term place where we are excited to hear from each other. I want to experience the good feelings that come from adult level respect, and ultimately be bright spot in each other's world,

To a woman 26~ 48 looking for a meaningful, supportive, and exciting time, I am interesting in getting to know about you, yours passions, and your skills. Health does matter, so I am looking for someone who matches my effort to take care of the best version of their natural body type. I am only looking for people married or long-term committed relationship; kids or no kids either way (if they are in the picture, I know they will come first). I want this to be a place of mutual, adult-level respect that makes sense for us both. I am hoping to find someone within driving distance of Denver, because I do want to meet in person when the time is right.

Friends have described me as fun, intense, sarcastic, and deep. I work in a corporate IT job, take all aspects of my health seriously, and clean up my own mess. No kids at this time. If you let me, I'll talk for hours about fitness, the outdoors, reading, cars, tech, cooking, house projects, music, and more, in no particular order. Appearance-wise, I'm an average-height dark-haired light-skinned man. I take care of myself and would consider my arms and shoulders as my best feature. Past my exterior discipline, I do have a romantic, emotional, and erotic side that I am wanting to share with someone who appreciates it.

I am here because despite my best efforts, some of my hopes that didn't pan out. Life is too short to feel so emotionally disconnected or unappreciated. Not trying to make this a vent session but I know we all have our reasons for being here. I'll share the full story if you feel like you need to know, and I hear yours out as well.

Clear and consistent communication matters, so I will try to be up-front about my availability while respecting your needs and boundaries. Privacy and discretion are essential; everything we share is for us only and we will both take the steps to keep it that way.

Thank you for taking the time to read. If anything I said intrigued you, send me a chat and lets see what we can build. I am completely fine messaging for a bit and sharing what we need to make sure we connect and that we are both comfortable.

Stay well and safe no matter what.

A high energy, fun but deep, do-it-myself kind of man is looking for both an emotional and physical connection to fill what's missing. I am willing to put in the effort even if it's unconventional. Obligatory details: Am married, no kids, not looking to change situations, I'm assuming we are both missing something, privacy and discretion matter, no judgement.

Connection matters. I want to have mutual excitement to hear from each other, express empathy, and have the good feelings that come from adult level respect and the unique perspective that our situation affords. I want to give emotional and mental support, be bright spot in each other's world, and hopefully make this a bit more long-term. I do want this to be a space of emotional comfort and good company :)

If you are a woman around 26 - 48 looking for someone to support you, listen to you, and meaningfully care, I am interesting in getting to know you. Your passions and skills matter to me more than your profession; what you do is an expression of the ambition by which you chase your goals, and I want to hear more about hear what excites you. Health does matter, so I am looking for someone who matches my effort to take care of the best version of their natural body type. And yes I am only looking for people married or long-term committed relationship; kids or no kids either way (if they are in the picture, I know they will come first).

A little bit more about me, I am a tech guy who like to stay active. I work in a corporate IT job. I take all aspects of my health seriously. I clean up my own mess. I read (mostly sci-fi), I like cars, hikes (yes actually), dogs (don't have one right now), coffee, good cooking, house projects, and many other things. No kids at this time. Appearance-wise, I'm an average-height dark-haired light-skinned man. I take care of myself and would consider my arms and shoulders as my best feature. I can absolutely share more if you'd like.

I am here because despite my best efforts, I am in a stable but emotionally empty place at home. I had different hopes that didn't pan out. Life is too short to feel so emotionally disconnected or unappreciated. Not trying to make this a vent session but I know we all have our reasons for being here. I'll share the full story if you feel like you need to know, and I hear yours out as well. Past my exterior discipline, I do have a romantic, emotional, and erotic side that I am wanting to share with someone who appreciates it.

Clear and consistent communication matters, and I will always try to be clear about my availability while respecting your needs and boundaries. Privacy and discretion are essential; everything we share is for us only and we will both take the steps to keep it that way. I am completely fine messaging for a bit to make sure we connect and that does include pictures when we are comfortable. No hard feelings if we need to call it early if the chemistry isn't right. This needs to be a place of mutual, adult-level respect, and will be here as long as it continues to make sense for us both. I am looking for someone somewhat local to the north and west side of Denver, because I do want to meet in person at some point.

Thanks for taking the time to read, and if I'm not for you, that's ok. But if anything intrigued you, send me a chat and let's see what we can build. ~ Stay well and safe no matter what.

Short version: High energy, married, and do-it-myself kind of man looking for both an emotional and physical connection to replace what's missing. Willing to do what it takes to build and grow that.

Like many, I thought marriage would have so many answers that didn't pan out. I don't know how to quit, but I also doesn't know how to go on without something giving. And right now, that is my resolve to not go back here, even with how hard I've tried and how many options I've explored. Life is too short to not feel emotionally disconnected or unappreciated. Not trying to make this a vent session but I know we all have our reasons for being here. I'll share the full story if you feel like you need to know, and I hear your's out as well.

What kind of person can I be described as? A fitness/tech guy; I work in a corporate IT job, and really take my health (all aspects of it) seriously. I am never the person to have someone clean up after me and would rather do it myself so that it can be at the right level of excellence. I read (mostly sci-fi), I like cars, hikes (yes actually), dogs (don't have one right now), coffee, good cooking, house projects, among other things. No kids at this time. Appearance-wise, I'm an average-height dark-haired light-skinned man who would take the 'soccer player who occasionally has 1 beer' a decent physical description. I take care of myself and would consider my arms and shoulders as my best feature. I can absolutely share more if you'd like.

The offer? Communication, empathy, effort, depth, self-sufficiency, and many good stories. I want to be someone who you can talk to about anything you feel like sharing, with no judgement and an empathetic ear. I want to give you emotional (and mental if asked) support for your goals and dreams. I won't be someone that you feel like you have to carry; we all have enough of that at home. I've lived a very interesting life so I have hopefully enough stories to make you laugh, and I want to find enjoyment in those little moments. Past my exterior discipline, I do have a romantic, emotional, and erotic side that I am wanting to share with someone who appreciates it.

Who am I looking for? A woman between 26 - 48; trying to stay somewhat closer to some life experiences. Married or long-term committed relationship; kids or no kids either way (if they are in the picture, I know they will come first). Your passions and skills matter to me more than your profession; what you do is an expression of the ambition by which you chase your goals. Health does matter, so I am looking for someone who matches my effort to take care of the best version of their natural body type. I'm open to talking about almost any hobby or activity; I really want to hear what excites you.

To make this work? Communication. I do appreciate regular texting (and voice memos when it's smart), and of course intentionally letting the other know about any schedule changes. I tend to be up fairly early but can also stay up somewhat late. Privacy and discretion are essential for me and I expect the same for you; everything we share is for us only and we will both take the steps to keep it that way. I am completely fine messaging for a bit to make sure we connect and that does include pictures when we are comfortable. No hard feelings if we need to call it early if the chemistry isn't right. This needs to be a place of mutual, adult-level respect, and will be here as long as it continues to make sense for us both. I am looking for someone somewhat local to the north and west side of Denver, because I do want to meet in person at some point. I do want this to be a space of emotional comfort and good company :)

Thanks for taking the time to read, and if I'm not for you, that's ok. But if anything intrigued you, send me a chat and let's see how we can make this work. Stay well and safe no matter what.