u/newgoatbook

I was having one of those nights where I just couldn't settle down. I kept rolling over, adjusting the blankets, and sighing enough that my wife noticed.

She asked if I was having trouble sleeping. I said I was and jokingly told her the only thing that might help was if she played with me a little.

She smiled, curled up against me with her head on my chest, and started stroking me. It was incredibly relaxing. I absentmindedly ran my hands over her back and hips while we just enjoyed being close.

It didn't take long before relaxing turned into getting seriously turned on. I asked if she'd go down on me, and without hesitation she slid under the covers and got to work. She was completely into it, taking her time but also clearly determined to make me finish. It ended up being one of the best blowjobs she's given me in a long time.

I came in her mouth, she swallowed, we cuddled for a minute afterward, and I don't think I've fallen asleep that fast in ages. Turns out her insomnia treatment is surprisingly effective.

I was having one of those nights where I just couldn't settle down. I kept rolling over, adjusting the blankets, and sighing enough that my wife noticed.

She asked if I was having trouble sleeping. I said I was and jokingly told her the only thing that might help was if she played with me a little.

She smiled, curled up against me with her head on my chest, and started stroking me. It was incredibly relaxing. I absentmindedly ran my hands over her back and hips while we just enjoyed being close.

It didn't take long before relaxing turned into getting seriously turned on. I asked if she'd go down on me, and without hesitation she slid under the covers and got to work. She was completely into it, taking her time but also clearly determined to make me finish. It ended up being one of the best blowjobs she's given me in a long time.

I came in her mouth, she swallowed, we cuddled for a minute afterward, and I don't think I've fallen asleep that fast in ages. Turns out her insomnia treatment is surprisingly effective.

Weekdays get so busy between work and life that there is no time for intimacy of any sorts. We are just going from one chore to another.

I am curious to hear if other couples have found some ways to keep things interesting during those busy work days?

I started messaging M, who’s a lovely woman from this lovely sub, after one of my previous posts, and we chatted about the naughty parts of our lives, as people do here.

It led to her sharing that she’d like to try out a woman and would also love to see her husband with another woman. My wife and I have also enjoyed talking to other couples virtually from time to time, so I thought this might be a fun new thing to try.

I asked M if I should send one of her husband’s pics to my wife to see her reaction, and M sent me one of his dick pics and one of her own tit pics.

I told my wife we were going to have some fun in the night, and she was obviously quite excited to see what was in store.

As we wound down for the night, I laid her down on her tummy and started licking her ass cheeks and massaging her shoulders and back, which always gets her going because it relaxes her and turns her on at the same time. All this touching and licking got her really wet. I fingered her and made her taste herself, and then I said, “Let’s look at our friends now.” I opened my phone, scrolled to the pics, and looked at M’s husband’s dick first. I was still massaging and kissing her sensually while she was enjoying the sensations on her skin, and now, in addition to that, she was also enjoying this sexy visual in front of her.

She was moaning and whimpering and let out a small moan, calling it so thick and juicy, and her mouth opened instinctively. I noticed that immediately and moved the phone closer to her mouth, and she licked the dick on the phone. My god, that was so fucking hot to watch.

Then we scrolled to M’s pic, and she immediately started kissing the nipple on the screen. I asked her to give me a turn, and then I did the same thing while, at the same time, rubbing my cock on her ass and pinching her nipples.

All of this got her really turned on, and she turned towards me, placed my cock ring on me, and started to ride me. She rode me and ground herself on me, feeling the ring vibrate against her.

While she was grinding, I unlocked the phone and had her favorite pic open on it, and she ground some more on the visual and started picking up pace.

I loved watching her tits bounce, and it made me want more, so I asked her for a turn. She scrolled to M’s pic, and I started talking dirty about M, saying things like, “Let’s fuck her together and cum on her sexy tits,” and it was enough to get both of us over the edge. She squirmed and screamed on my cock, and it made me lose all control and fill her up good.

We both slept very well last night, and in the morning, I shared our adventure with M, who then shared it with her husband. That led to some interesting times, but that is a story for another time.

I started messaging M, who’s a lovely woman from this lovely sub, after one of my previous posts, and we chatted about the naughty parts of our lives, as people do here.

It led to her sharing that she’d like to try out a woman and would also love to see her husband with another woman. My wife and I have also enjoyed talking to other couples virtually from time to time, so I thought this might be a fun new thing to try.

I asked M if I should send one of her husband’s pics to my wife to see her reaction, and M sent me one of his dick pics and one of her own tit pics.

I told my wife we were going to have some fun in the night, and she was obviously quite excited to see what was in store.

As we wound down for the night, I laid her down on her tummy and started licking her ass cheeks and massaging her shoulders and back, which always gets her going because it relaxes her and turns her on at the same time. All this touching and licking got her really wet. I fingered her and made her taste herself, and then I said, “Let’s look at our friends now.” I opened my phone, scrolled to the pics, and looked at M’s husband’s dick first. I was still massaging and kissing her sensually while she was enjoying the sensations on her skin, and now, in addition to that, she was also enjoying this sexy visual in front of her.

She was moaning and whimpering and let out a small moan, calling it so thick and juicy, and her mouth opened instinctively. I noticed that immediately and moved the phone closer to her mouth, and she licked the dick on the phone. My god, that was so fucking hot to watch.

Then we scrolled to M’s pic, and she immediately started kissing the nipple on the screen. I asked her to give me a turn, and then I did the same thing while, at the same time, rubbing my cock on her ass and pinching her nipples.

All of this got her really turned on, and she turned towards me, placed my cock ring on me, and started to ride me. She rode me and ground herself on me, feeling the ring vibrate against her.

While she was grinding, I unlocked the phone and had her favorite pic open on it, and she ground some more on the visual and started picking up pace.

I loved watching her tits bounce, and it made me want more, so I asked her for a turn. She scrolled to M’s pic, and I started talking dirty about M, saying things like, “Let’s fuck her together and cum on her sexy tits,” and it was enough to get both of us over the edge. She squirmed and screamed on my cock, and it made me lose all control and fill her up good.

We both slept very well last night, and in the morning, I shared our adventure with M, who then shared it with her husband. That led to some interesting times, but that is a story for another time.

Wife and I have been together for 16 years and have a strong and fun marriage and a normal suburban life outside of that.

We have always spoken about each others crushes openly and I’ve noticed that her crushes tend to be black men more often than not.

A few days ago I bought her a black dildo and we role played her with another guy and it was very hot.

We are looking to chat with others who may have experienced this from either side.

What are some fun things you and your partner do that keep life from feeling too routine?

Not necessarily the big romantic stuff or expensive date nights. I mean the oddly specific traditions, random habits, little games, spontaneous adventures, flirty routines, or silly things that somehow make your relationship feel more connected.

I’ve always found it interesting how the happiest couples often seem to have their own little world and rhythms together.

Curious what yours are, especially the oddly specific ones that unexpectedly became “your thing."

The rainforest is lush and green and our cabin was situated right in the middle of it.

We had some wine on the patio and enjoyed hearing all the animals while also inhaling the scent of the forest and admiring its beauty.

After the wine was over we went inside the cabin which has floor to ceiling windows overlooking the trees.

Our curtains were open and I started undressing her and undressed myself.

Sat down on the chair next to the window and placed her on my lap.

Kissed her passionately while she bounced on my cock.

Her body was looking spectacular in that dusk light and I kneaded her breasts and sucked on her nipples while she picked up pace and stared out of the window admiring the forest and enjoying the view.

It was the perfect setting with the views and our bodies against each other and we both finished together as I filled her up and we kissed and cuddled and slept long and sound.

A few weeks ago we bought a new dildo which is black, and a decent size without being unrealistic or painful.

Wife and I have been enjoying using it on her and doing some dirty talk involving it and have even given it a name.

Yesterday, a guy I was chatting with here was sharing stories of his own adventures with his wife, and we spoke about the dildo and the conversation turned towards what he'd do with her if it was him instead of the dildo.

We went back and forth a bit and it was all respectful and fun. Later last night, I told my wife about the conversation and I could see how big of a turn on it was for her which in turn got me going. I asked her what she'd like to ask the guy and she said she'd like to know if he'd lick her underboob and rub his dick there.

I thought it was pretty sexy and we both came good.

Perhaps a little tame for this sub but I really enjoyed what happened and wanted to share.

A few weeks ago we bought a new dildo which is black, and a decent size without being unrealistic or painful.

Wife and I have been enjoying using it on her and doing some dirty talk involving it and have even given it a name.

Yesterday, a guy I was chatting with here was sharing stories of his own adventures with his wife, and we spoke about the dildo and the conversation turned towards what he'd do with her if it was him instead of the dildo.

We went back and forth a bit and it was all respectful and fun. Later last night, I told my wife about the conversation and I could see how big of a turn on it was for her which in turn got me going. I asked her what she'd like to ask the guy and she said she'd like to know if he'd lick her underboob and rub his dick there.

I thought it was pretty sexy and we both came good.

Perhaps a little tame for this sub but I really enjoyed what happened and wanted to share.

A few weeks ago we bought a new dildo which is black, and a decent size without being unrealistic or painful.

Wife and I have been enjoying using it on her and doing some dirty talk involving it and have even given it a name.

Yesterday, a guy I was chatting with here was sharing stories of his own adventures with his wife, and we spoke about the dildo and the conversation turned towards what he'd do with her if it was him instead of the dildo.

We went back and forth a bit and it was all respectful and fun. Later last night, I told my wife about the conversation and I could see how big of a turn on it was for her which in turn got me going. I asked her what she'd like to ask the guy and she said she'd like to know if he'd lick her underboob and rub his dick there.

I thought it was pretty sexy and we both came good.

Perhaps a little tame for this sub but I really enjoyed what happened and wanted to share.

One thing I've always found fascinating is how many people in genuinely happy marriages still end up here. Sometimes it’s curiosity, sometimes it’s novelty, sometimes it even seems to make their real life relationship stronger.

I’d love to hear your story if you’re one of those people. What brought you here, and what keeps you around?

This is inspired by a post here earlier today.

I’m starting to think unpredictability is one of the biggest factors in long term attraction.

Not huge dramatic things. Just small moments where your spouse surprises you and suddenly you see them differently again.

Married people of Reddit: what’s a small unexpected thing your partner did recently that reminded you the spark is still there?

Got my wife a really sexy spring coat today, it is very chic and she looks great in it. I'd love to see her wearing only that later in the night, but wondering if someone has any more adventurous ideas?

This Friday night was exactly what we needed - a chance to unwind and relax together. We snuggled up on our big couch, the soft glow of the TV lighting up the room, and watched something new together, feeling the stress of the week melt away.

As we settled in, I couldn't help but notice how comfortable her skin felt against mine. I pulled down her shorts and panties, the soft fabric rustling against my fingers as I touched her bare skin. Her skin was like silk beneath my fingertips, and I couldn't resist the urge to taste it. I licked my fingers, savoring the sensation of her skin on my tongue.

She didn't pull away, but instead leaned into me, her body relaxing into mine. I felt a rush of desire at her proximity, and I knew I had to have more. I wetted my fingers further, and rubbed them on her ass, feeling the gentle give of her skin as I touched it. Before long, I lowered myself, my lips kissing her ass, my tongue licking away the fabric of her panties.

Believe it or not, I kissed and licked her ass for a good half an hour and finished watching the show before we moved on to other things 😉