u/okaybhaii

me and my partner are trying to have an anal experience but we fail every time. these are the current problems

1. When I am hard and i try to slide it in , I feel a pain or pushing tension on my pubic area , and I become soft and loose erection.

2. Her bhole feels vay tight sometimes.

we have used lubes , finger first techniques but the penis wouldn't just go in. she enjoys butthole fingering and i generally wear a condom on my fingers when I do so but failing to penetrate through penis

how can we proceed ? tips and advice would be appreciated

me and my partner are trying to have an anal experience but we fail every time. these are the current problems

1. When I am hard and i try to slide it in , I feel a pain or pushing tension on my pubic area , and I become soft and loose erection.

2. Her bhole feels vay tight sometimes.

we have used lubes , finger first techniques but the penis wouldn't just go in. she enjoys butthole fingering and i generally wear a condom on my fingers when I do so but failing to penetrate through penis

how can we proceed ? tips and advice would be appreciated

me and my partner are trying to have an anal experience but we fail every time. these are the current problems

1. When I am hard and i try to slide it in , I feel a pain or pushing tension on my pubic area , and I become soft and loose erection.

2. Her bhole feels vay tight sometimes.

we have used lubes , finger first techniques but the penis wouldn't just go in. she enjoys butthole fingering and i generally wear a condom on my fingers when I do so but failing to penetrate through penis

how can we proceed ? tips and advice would be appreciated