u/piano_at_jazz

So I have this date upcoming with a very good potential POT. We agreed to 650 ppm.He just asked me if we would get physical on the first date or not,as he would have to book a hotel or what I would prefer. I told him that I would like to wait 1 or 2 dates in order to get to know him more.Actually I just wanted to play good girl as I sensed that that is what he likes. Now he just asked me if I want to get paid for the first dates too. OF COURSE I WANT TO GET PAID. Some might think that this is a redflag but no he is just straightforward with his questions and kind of aloof. How should I answer the question? I do not want to sound too money focused, I still want him to have the good girl image of me

Today I went to a M&G. I dressed very elegantly. My manicure and pedicure was on point, I smelled good and my hair was looking fantastic.( A little girl on the train told me the last part-I unfortunately can´t drive). I arrive at said location and after some minutes I see him.He didn´t look bad, he didn´t look that fancy either. To all my german SBs out there: he was dressed like a Vertriebler. So far so good. We had already talked on MSD so I actually felt comfortable.

And then he opened his mouth.

This man only had 6 teeth max in each row, but as I am a sucker for the sunk cost fallacy and I really believed that my ROI could still become positive, I kept on.

This man, in his 50s, wanted to go eat a kebab with me. I almost asked him with which teeth, instead I just declined and we went to a gelateria. This man didn´t understand the word discretion.

His voice was so loud. When I went to the loo to refresh myself the grannies there told me that he would make a broke ass partner and that I should just tutor his son and go out with him. I felt sooo embarres but essentiatilly they were right.

He had no etiquette, no manners and I feel terrible for his old girl, which was an kenyan international student who needed the money.(He really higlighted that fact).

And I could have overlooked all that and the fact that he had a fetish for black girls and adobted a black boy himself, if he hadn´t tell me that I´m not like other girls just because I didn´t ask for a meeting fee before the M&G. You are not going to make a pickmesha out of me.

He was rude to the mom working at the gelateria too.Her two children were running around the store and her husband didn´t help. You could see that she was overstimulated. But he still got mad that she didnt come ring us up after 3 seconds.

At least I got a new student out of it and 50 bucks

Hallöle,

as the title says today I have my first Meet and Greet and I am very excited. I wanted to wear a long shoulder off dress or a skirt and top combo. Only problem: I got very big feet and I usually just wear sneaker. I don’t want him to see me as immature though if I wear a dress with sneakers. Should I wear something else? Any outfit suggestion? By the way I am 180 cm tall or 5’11 and he is even missing the birthday party of his friends just to come see me.