u/pinkbunnyrah

Been wearing my cage for about 15 hours now, however the underside of my balls hurt a bit so i apply vaseline from time to time to help it, im using a 48mm ring, i can easily slide a thumb or two under the ring from the top, also using a chastity belt to keep it secure in place although im not sure how tight the belt needs to be so im using it a bit loose, my concern is my balls often go cold, not sure what i gotta do to prevent it and if tyeres a better way to prevent the pain under balls.

M19, 173, 70, looking for a long term master to move and live with, ill learn to take care of the house, cook, and clean, along with offering my entirety for u to use and abuse.

I hadnt done any anal in over half a year and thought id give it a go, i took a 9.5in x 2-3in dildo in with ease, without any prep, stretching or lube. Wasnt even tight, no pain, not sure if i could even feel pleasure, in fact i still had plenty of space, i feel like im too loose, might not be able to satisfy any tops, am i ruined haha, ik everyone prefers tight holes and most people are around 6inches, i might never be able to satisfy a top, feeling super insecure rn. What do you guys think?

Context: Recently got my second cage since my first was a cheap copy and broke, my first was a 6cm cage and was still a bit big, longest ive been able to wear was a week, and since it broke i got a new onez this ones almost flat but not quite, havent been able to wear for more than like 3 hours-ish due to sizing and comfort issues, i also got a belt for the first time to keep it in place. Now, ive tried 42cm, 48cm, 56cm rings and some more, in all of these my balls go cold after a couple minutes and idk what the issue is, cant tell if its too big or too small, with the 56 its a tad too big yet the same thing still happens, im so lost and dunno where to begin with. Would appreciate your insight on this matter 💕