u/polydisabledgoth

I thought the actual meeting went well, there was banter between the three of us, but then one left and the other one said that he didn't think that guy was actually bi and that he felt he wasn't geninue and then I hung out with him at the bar for another few hours.

He said he didn't realise that it was so hard to create a throuple, we talked about hanging out on the weekend, but then he had to go ruin everything by messaging me afterwards that he was disappointed nothing physical happened ie sex didn't happen and to message me if I changed my mind. I explained taking someone on a date didn't mean sex would happen or was owed. He said he agreed, but honestly i feel like that is a big red flag.

At least I had what I wanted for half an hour. Sigh, not giving up

32 [F4MM] #Melbourne Still looking for my guys

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Hi there, I'm 32, Caucasian, chubby, use walking sticks. I have one girlfriend I've been dating since October 2024.

I love blues, jazz, metal. I also enjoy crosswords, reading, a couple of drinks and going out to all kinds of events. I have a masters degree and have one cat. I work two days a week.

I'm looking for two open minded guys in a couple, or two friends who want to build something loving and geninue. Who want to be an ongoing part of my life, and share everything.

Please no

\\- guys into rough sex

\\-single guys

\\-long distance

\\-biphobic or transphobic people (I'm cis, but I've dated/dating people who aren't)

\\-bad communicators

\\-pic collectors or people looking for chat only

\\-guys over 40

Hope I can finally find them

So I know you've read this put your favourite colour in your reply

Edit : I will need to see face pics for safety reasons, eventually, if that's an issue, don't both sending a DM, I am looking for two guys for a relationship.

Forest green and orange if you are out there, hopefully you find me again

About me : 32 year old with cerebral palsy, hair is currently dark, 152cm tall (so short as hell) 78kg (so chubby) with a natural pussy and dark sense of humour.

About you : You are a securely attached male couple that have had experiences with mfm threesomes and mmf threesomes that are also disability friendly and well versed in aftercare. Previous poly experience would be great.

What I am looking for : Said couple as above, someone who is looking for an ongoing threesome situation with the possibility of it transitioning to throuple. A couple who I can cuddle with after, mature and securely attached. Not looking for mff. Other flavours of queer most welcome, looking for people i can also get a drink with/watch a movie with after, something very chilled.

What I offer: Clean modern apartment, with a comfortable bed and a very cute cat.

Low effort messages will be ignored. Fellow people with a disability to the front

As above

Any disability friends guys around in Australia interested in an or a mmf mfm throuple dynamic? Not looking for single guys or long distance, let me know.

Sent at 5:15am this morning, they read the post, details about both guys, lots and lots of detail about their background their history, their favourite colour (so they can follow instructions) how they were looking for something similar, paragraphs and paragraphs then the account said deleted. :(

It just makes me even more determined that my guys are out there

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Hi there, I'm 32, Caucasian, chubby, use walking sticks. I have one girlfriend I've been dating since October 2024.

I love blues, jazz, metal. I also enjoy crosswords, reading, a couple of drinks and going out to all kinds of events. I have a masters degree and have one cat. I work two days a week.

I'm looking for two open minded guys in a couple, or two friends who want to build something loving and geninue. Who want to be an ongoing part of my life, and share everything.

Please no

\- guys into rough sex

\-single guys

\-long distance

\-biphobic or transphobic people (I'm cis, but I've dated/dating people who aren't)

\-bad communicators

\-pic collectors or people looking for chat only

\-guys over 40

Hope I can finally find them

So I know you've read this put your favourite colour in your reply

I don't know if anyone has used locanto much, it is hit and miss like Craigslist if anyone remembers that. I was supposed to go out with two bi male friends this week,one of one expressed an interest in dating me, and as they were play partners, the other would be more involved casually, but we would all bond, it would be more like a v situation.

We were supposed to go out Thursday (had planned location and time) and Tuesday night we were talking over text, and he asked me for a selfie (he asked for them daily), so I sent him one he was positive about it, and since id only seen the one pic of him I decided id ask for one in reply. Since then, crickets.

I haven't even been left on read, still unread. I'm crushed tbh 💔 these guys sound like everything I wanted (to a degree that it sounded too good true, which it obviously was)

I want this style of relationship so badly, it feels impossible with my physical disability and this combo of bi/pan guys, but my heart can't give up on it.

Yes I am in therapy, no I did not intend to fetishish them, everything I wanted they said they wanted to, it was mutual which is why I'm so confused.

What happened here? Yes, I've been told I'm werid. They were friends with each other, I didn't know them, they (he?) talked about the dynamic as what we all wanted

I was supposed to go out with two bi male friends this week,one of one expressed an interest in dating me, and as they were play partners, the other would be more involved casually, but we would all bond, it would be more like a v situation.

We were supposed to go out Thursday (had planned location and time) and Tuesday night we were talking over text, and he asked me for a selfie (he asked for them daily), so I sent him one he was positive about it, and since id only seen the one pic of him I decided id ask for one in reply. Since then, crickets.

I haven't even been left on read, still unread. I'm crushed tbh 💔 these guys sound like everything I wanted (to a degree that it sounded too good true, which it obviously was)

I want this style of relationship so badly, it feels impossible with my physical disability and this combo of bi/pan guys, but my heart can't give up on it.

Yes I am in therapy

About me : 32, dark hair with blonde roots, chubby body size 16, loves to stroke cock and have my hairy pussy eaten. Use walking sticks, dark sense of humour.

You : A male couple or two male friends between 25-45, keeps fit who can play tonight. You are both disability friendly and are actually genuinely so. Not into anything rough, no dom types. Hopefully you've had experience

What I can offer : Clean, spacious apartment, unique perspective on life, an adorable cat (both kinds) 😏

I'm looking for some sensual fun tonight and want to be the centre of attention, hopefully you know how to work as a team to please a woman. No solo guys no one over 45, would love this to be ongoing.

Tash

Bumping as still searching

Hi, yes first of all I know there is a seekingthrouples subreddit, I've posted there. Trying to get a geninue version of what I almost had a few months ago

Basically I almost had a mfm throuple where one of the male friends also had a disability, but I never ended up meeting the pair of male friends as they vanished when I tried to set up meeting.

I'm keen to connect with other people with a disability interested in throuples particularly a pair of male friends who have disabilities and also people with disabilities in general to discuss challenges of intimacy with a disability and to build community.

I'm 152cm use walking sticks dark hair atm, if you have a friend please ensure they are disability friendly or disabled themselves before sending a message

Either looking for two male friends or two non binary people. It would be nice to have more people with disabilities in my life to be cute with.

Anyone fetishing gets an instant block

Let me know your favourite colour, disability and how you can help out.

"Hey" or similar low effort messages will be ignored

Looking for two genuine guys/MM couple for a threesome this afternoon.

I'm 32 F, have cerebral palsy I am looking for an open minded pair of friends or couple to fuck me today, hopefully ongoing.

I am a bigger woman, I'm not interested in anything rough or unsafe. Condoms are a must. If you have a friend and message please make sure your friend is disability friendly and okay with it.

Hairy pierced pussy and B cup tits.

Looking for right now, can host this afternoon but busy tonight.

Looking for my unicorns would love to have a geninue connection with you both. Hopefully all cuddle up together after. Please only reach out if you can meet this afternoon. My girlfriend and I do not play together

Hope ill get laid today. Someone blocked me after giving my address wtf. Please if there is anyone out there who is geninue and not an ass and not going to block me after they come. Jesus. Wtaf