u/poryati

My name is Tom, I’m 29 years old, and I’ve been working as an engineer in my dream job for about a year now. In my free time, I like staying fit through calisthenics and hiking. On quieter days, I enjoy reading or watching movies and TV shows. My taste in music is pretty diverse. I listen to almost everything except metal and hardcore techno. Recently, I’ve really been into Hands Up music.

In my last relationship, I was in a Dom/Sub dynamic for about three years, which gave us a lot of time to explore and experiment together. Unfortunately, the relationship ended because of a job-related move. Still, the experience made me realize that this is exactly the kind of relationship I want.
For me, a deep emotional connection and strong trust are the foundation of a healthy Dom/Sub dynamic and truly intense sessions. A “normal” relationship no longer feels fulfilling to me and often seems too superficial, because the level of emotional intimacy and trust that grows within a Dom/Sub relationship feels more real and much deeper than in a normal relationship.

That’s the reason why I‘m looking for a woman who enjoys being submissive and who finds happiness in a Dom/Sub relationship built on trust, honesty, and open communication. It’s also important to me to mention that safewords, the traffic light system, and aftercare are essential for me, because sessions can become quite intense.

Since there are many different kinks in the Dom/Sub or BDSM area, I will briefly list most of mine here to avoid you reaching out if too many of them exceed your limits.
My kinks: degradation, orgasm control, edging, toys, anal, giving tasks, spanking, BDSM and cock & cum worship.

If you feel like this could be a good match, I’d be happy to get to know you.

About me: My name is Tom, I’m 29 years old, and I recently graduated from university. I’ve been working in my dream job for about nine months now, which feels really great. In my free time, I like to stay fit with calisthenics or go hiking. On quieter days, I enjoy reading a book or watching movies and series. My taste in music is quite diverse. I listen to almost everything except metal and hardcore techno. Lately, I’ve really been into Hands Up.

In my last relationship, I lived in a Dom/Sub dynamic for three years. Unfortunately, it didn’t last due to a job-related move. However, that experience showed me that this is exactly the kind of relationship I want. For me, it’s not just about the sexual aspect, but especially about the intense emotional connection and the deep trust that comes with it. A “normal” relationship therefore no longer feels right to me and seems rather superficial.
I’m looking for a woman who takes this topic just as seriously and understands that a good Dom/Sub relationship is built on trust, honesty, and open communication. It’s important to me that things like setting safe words or using a traffic light system are a given. Precisely because sessions can become very intense, aftercare is absolutely essential for me.

Since there are many different kinks in the Dom/Sub or BDSM area, I will briefly list most of mine here to avoid you reaching out if too many of them exceed your limits. My kinks: degradation, orgasm control, edging, free use, toys, anal, giving tasks, spanking, BDSM, and much more.

If you feel like this could be a good match, I’d be happy to get to know you.