u/potage-989

I was in my 40s before I even heard of edging - a woman I chatted with mentioned it. I started practising it when I visited chatrooms more often. Usually the people I chatted with were interrupted, or busy with work or home life, so the chats tended to be brief and unsatisfying. Gradually I found more chat friends but tended to hold off masturbating to orgasm in case a more erotic encounter was just around the corner! Now, periodically visiting porn sites, I still do the same - looking for the most erotically charged video, and holding off until I can't take it any more. I'm guessing that this is a common experience, but maybe less so for women, who may be able to cum repeatedly?

Growing up in the 60s I remember my parents and friends' parents had suspicious devices like strap-on-hand massagers and Wahl muscle/scalp envigorators. Have any of you used such things, or even been prescribed them by a doctor as a "marital aid"?

The mother of one of my childhood friends had a Wahl vibrator - plugged into the wall, shaped like a small electric mixer, and had a hollow vibrating cup on the end. It must have dated from the 1950s to early 1960s. I didn't fully understand its purpose at the time, but I'm guessing it was a "marital aid".

Does anyone here have any experience of them, or indeed still use one?

I'm about to turn 70, and have masturbated all my life and through my marriage. I enjoyed chatting in Yahoo chatrooms in my 40s when the internet was new, but now visit streaming sites regularly. Any other older folk still at it?

I'm turning 70 soon, and I've masturbated since my teens and through my marriage, finding sources if inspiration from magazines, then chatrooms on Yahoo, and now streaming sites. Do other m/f folk have stories of how they manage their libido?