u/potent_evil103

Hii guys, recently became of age for the community and I've been wondering, how do I find a caregiver? I looked for I've been looking for a mommy on social media and only found scammers (based off what I've guessed), on other subreddits (r/ABDLPersonals), but either I get no response, or people are charging money. I'm just looking for a real connection, and I don't want to be scammed. Does anyone have any way to find a caregiver? Yes, I've checked out fetlife, no I don't trust it; I'm new too to adulting so I just don't feel great using it yet.

I am south of Charlotte in SC, looking for a caregiver in the charlotte metro area. I'm just a baby, looking to be babied and have my first experience in ABDL.