34F4M #Chicagoland #online if you travel- when the connection is there, this is easy
Obligatory not wanting to change your situation or my own.
This place is tough to be, but realistically, it only takes one right person. So I keep trying, even if my standards are high and people on here are fickle.
I want that easy connection that gives me butterflies, makes me a little nervous
I want to crave eachother. I want you to go out of your way to do things you know will make me smile. I want to tease eachother. Build up. I want to be the first thing you think about when you have a moment to yourself. A small commute? Running an errand? House magically alone? That's our time. Keeping the fire burning between meets and/play sessions.
I reciprocate, when it's there. That feeling, that fire. Being left on read and lack of conversation just goes...nowhere. If you let it fizzle out...then that's just what happens. I won't waste either of our time.
I like to do voice and video calls. My schedule will be changing soon, so commutes are my best time. Physically, I'm looking for a man who's average to fit with a nice face. Traditionally attractive. I'm a fan of guys who work out, and can share things about themselves. From the mundane to the sexy. No giant beards covering your face because ... I want to see your face haha. Not into large age gaps.I want someone who shows initiative and wants to talk with me. Tells me when they're free and brings an energy to the table. When it's there, this is easy. I do want someone that can meet, not looking for solely online, but can deal with distance if you travel. Also, it's a plus if you have experience with this. No poly.
I'll probably regret saying this next bit, but chemistry. I want a man who can excite me? Has game? More on the leading, dominant side. Someone to keep me wanting them- that part is important. I like the side of me that is needy...but that's hard to bring out in me. I'm probably complicated that way. Knows the art of teasing and building up. I just can't get into someone that texts me about my "big tiddies". I just can't. Please save me from this.
About me- I'm a mom of three young kids with curves, long dark hair, green eyes. Hobbies are hard when you're a mom of three, but I'm getting back into working out after having my children.I like to do DYI type projects, I get excited about my plants, I enjoy cooking as well. I like a lot of different things, chances are there's something we can connect on
Think you can keep this going? Something long term? Let's figure this out π.