u/quiet_expression-

After a shorter hiatus than I would have liked, I'm back to this place. Each experience teaches you more and shows me what I'm really looking for in a man.

So, starting off with saying that I'm not looking to change situations. I'm married and you should be too. I'm looking for someone I can build a physical, emotional and mental connection with. I think honestly and trust are huge in these types of dynamics, so I'm looking for someone who values the same. Think...sexy best friend. With benefits. Talking daily, sending pics and meetings 1-2 times a month (ish).

I tend to match energies and efforts. I think conversation should be fairly easy, not a game of 20 questions. If you share things about yourself, that generates the wonder and wanting to know more. Attraction is also important- I like traditionally attractive. A nice smile, strong arms. I don't care about abs or height honestly. I just don't want a belly that would crush me, no boobs that are bigger than mine and stronger than me. Age between 20 and 45 would be best. I also like voice and video calls. I have a 30-40 minute commute each day, so during that time would be great. I also have availability during the day.

I'm 5'3, long brunette hair, mom bod that is being worked on now that I'm done having babies. I get the most compliments on my eyes. The feedback I generally get is that I'm cute mom next door, genuine and smart. I tend to get along with men who value my mind (and body) most. I don't have a lot of time for hobbies. I work a lot and the rest of the time I'm momming to 3 kids. I do garden, workout, and the occasional art project, cook. I have a good group of friends I enjoy seeing as well.

I lead a fairly busy life, so I really prefer to not waste anyone's time. I'm honest if I don't feel it, or if someone else catches my interest. I'm looking for a place where the stresses of everyday life are just...gone. It's just you and me, and happiness and good times.

I only want one person ideally, within two hours of the Chicago area. I don't have the bandwidth to juggle multiple, nor do I want to add to any risks.

Do you think we'd be a good match? If so send me a message! I'll respond to anything thoughtful generally. Please be patient because...sometimes inboxes get flooded.

Obligatory not wanting to change your situation or my own. Please only respond if you know what you want and how to treat a pAP. Looking for something that becomes in person.

This place is tough to be, but realistically, it only takes one right person. So I keep trying, even if my standards are high and people on here are fickle.

There are plenty of opportunities, but I only want the right one.

I want that easy connection that gives me butterflies, makes me a little nervous. I want to crave eachother. To go out of your way to do things you know will make me smile. I want to tease eachother. Build up. I want to be the first thing you think about when you have a moment to yourself. A small commute? Running an errand? House magically alone? That's our time. Keeping the fire burning between meets and/play sessions.

I reciprocate, when it's there. That feeling, that fire. Being left on read and lack of conversation just goes...nowhere. If you let it fizzle out...then that's just what happens. I won't waste either of our time.

I like to do voice and video calls. My schedule is a little sporadic the next few minths, but I find time fir someone worth it. Physically, I'm looking for a man who's average to fit with a nice face. Traditionally attractive. I'm a fan of guys who work out, and can share things about themselves. From the mundane to the sexy. No giant beards covering your face because ... I want to see your face haha. Not into large age gaps.I want someone who shows initiative and wants to talk with me. Tells me when they're free and brings an energy to the table. When it's there, this is easy. I do want someone that can meet, not looking for solely online, but can deal with distance if you travel plus have good communication. Also, it's a plus if you have experience with this. No poly.

I'll probably regret saying this next bit, but chemistry. I want a man who can excite me? Has game? More on the leading, dominant side. Someone to keep me wanting them- that part is important. I like the side of me that is needy...but that's hard to bring out in me. I'm probably complicated that way. Knows the art of teasing and building up. I just can't get into someone that texts me about my "big tiddies". I just can't. Please save me from this.

About me- I'm a mom of three young kids with curves, long dark hair, green eyes. Hobbies are hard when you're a mom of three, but I'm getting back into working out after having my children.I like to do DYI type projects, I get excited about my plants, I enjoy cooking as well. I like a lot of different things, chances are there's something we can connect on

Think you can keep this going? Something long term? Let's figure this out 😘.

Obligatory not wanting to change your situation or my own. Please only respond if you know what you want and how to treat a pAP. Looking for something that becomes in person.

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This place is tough to be, but realistically, it only takes one right person. So I keep trying, even if my standards are high and people on here are fickle.

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There are plenty of opportunities, but I only want the right one.

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I want that easy connection that gives me butterflies, makes me a little nervous. I want to crave eachother. To go out of your way to do things you know will make me smile. I want to tease eachother. Build up. I want to be the first thing you think about when you have a moment to yourself. A small commute? Running an errand? House magically alone? That's our time. Keeping the fire burning between meets and/play sessions.

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I reciprocate, when it's there. That feeling, that fire. Being left on read and lack of conversation just goes...nowhere. If you let it fizzle out...then that's just what happens. I won't waste either of our time.

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I like to do voice and video calls. My schedule is a little sporadic the next few minths, but I find time fir someone worth it. Physically, I'm looking for a man who's average to fit with a nice face. Traditionally attractive. I'm a fan of guys who work out, and can share things about themselves. From the mundane to the sexy. No giant beards covering your face because ... I want to see your face haha. Not into large age gaps.I want someone who shows initiative and wants to talk with me. Tells me when they're free and brings an energy to the table. When it's there, this is easy. I do want someone that can meet, not looking for solely online, but can deal with distance if you travel plus have good communication. Also, it's a plus if you have experience with this. No poly.

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I'll probably regret saying this next bit, but chemistry. I want a man who can excite me? Has game? More on the leading, dominant side. Someone to keep me wanting them- that part is important. I like the side of me that is needy...but that's hard to bring out in me. I'm probably complicated that way. Knows the art of teasing and building up. I just can't get into someone that texts me about my "big tiddies". I just can't. Please save me from this.

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About me- I'm a mom of three young kids with curves, long dark hair, green eyes. Hobbies are hard when you're a mom of three, but I'm getting back into working out after having my children.I like to do DYI type projects, I get excited about my plants, I enjoy cooking as well. I like a lot of different things, chances are there's something we can connect on

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Think you can keep this going? Something long term? Let's figure this out 😘.

Obligatory not wanting to change your situation or my own. Please only respond if you know what you want and how to treat a pAP.

​

This place is tough to be, but realistically, it only takes one right person. So I keep trying, even if my standards are high and people on here are fickle.

​

There are plenty of opportunities, but I only want the right one.

​

I want that easy connection that gives me butterflies, makes me a little nervous. I want to crave eachother. To go out of your way to do things you know will make me smile. I want to tease eachother. Build up. I want to be the first thing you think about when you have a moment to yourself. A small commute? Running an errand? House magically alone? That's our time. Keeping the fire burning between meets and/play sessions.

​

I reciprocate, when it's there. That feeling, that fire. Being left on read and lack of conversation just goes...nowhere. If you let it fizzle out...then that's just what happens. I won't waste either of our time.

​

I like to do voice and video calls. My schedule is a little sporadic the next few minths, but I find time fir someone worth it. Physically, I'm looking for a man who's average to fit with a nice face. Traditionally attractive. I'm a fan of guys who work out, and can share things about themselves. From the mundane to the sexy. No giant beards covering your face because ... I want to see your face haha. Not into large age gaps.I want someone who shows initiative and wants to talk with me. Tells me when they're free and brings an energy to the table. When it's there, this is easy. I do want someone that can meet, not looking for solely online, but can deal with distance if you travel plus have good communication. Also, it's a plus if you have experience with this. No poly.

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I'll probably regret saying this next bit, but chemistry. I want a man who can excite me? Has game? More on the leading, dominant side. Someone to keep me wanting them- that part is important. I like the side of me that is needy...but that's hard to bring out in me. I'm probably complicated that way. Knows the art of teasing and building up. I just can't get into someone that texts me about my "big tiddies". I just can't. Please save me from this.

​

About me- I'm a mom of three young kids with curves, long dark hair, green eyes. Hobbies are hard when you're a mom of three, but I'm getting back into working out after having my children.I like to do DYI type projects, I get excited about my plants, I enjoy cooking as well. I like a lot of different things, chances are there's something we can connect on

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Think you can keep this going? Something long term? Let's figure this out 😘.

Obligatory not wanting to change your situation or my own.

​

This place is tough to be, but realistically, it only takes one right person. So I keep trying, even if my standards are high and people on here are fickle.

​

There are plenty of opportunities, but I only want the right one.

​

I want that easy connection that gives me butterflies, makes me a little nervous. I want to crave eachother. To go out of your way to do things you know will make me smile. I want to tease eachother. Build up. I want to be the first thing you think about when you have a moment to yourself. A small commute? Running an errand? House magically alone? That's our time. Keeping the fire burning between meets and/play sessions.

​

I reciprocate, when it's there. That feeling, that fire. Being left on read and lack of conversation just goes...nowhere. If you let it fizzle out...then that's just what happens. I won't waste either of our time.

​

I like to do voice and video calls. My schedule is a little sporadic the next few minths, but I find time fir someone worth it. Physically, I'm looking for a man who's average to fit with a nice face. Traditionally attractive. I'm a fan of guys who work out, and can share things about themselves. From the mundane to the sexy. No giant beards covering your face because ... I want to see your face haha. Not into large age gaps.I want someone who shows initiative and wants to talk with me. Tells me when they're free and brings an energy to the table. When it's there, this is easy. I do want someone that can meet, not looking for solely online, but can deal with distance if you travel plus have good communication. Also, it's a plus if you have experience with this. No poly.

​

I'll probably regret saying this next bit, but chemistry. I want a man who can excite me? Has game? More on the leading, dominant side. Someone to keep me wanting them- that part is important. I like the side of me that is needy...but that's hard to bring out in me. I'm probably complicated that way. Knows the art of teasing and building up. I just can't get into someone that texts me about my "big tiddies". I just can't. Please save me from this.

​

About me- I'm a mom of three young kids with curves, long dark hair, green eyes. Hobbies are hard when you're a mom of three, but I'm getting back into working out after having my children.I like to do DYI type projects, I get excited about my plants, I enjoy cooking as well. I like a lot of different things, chances are there's something we can connect on

​

Think you can keep this going? Something long term? Let's figure this out 😘.

Obligatory not wanting to change your situation or my own.

This place is tough to be, but realistically, it only takes one right person. So I keep trying, even if my standards are high and people on here are fickle.

I want that easy connection that gives me butterflies, makes me a little nervous

I want to crave eachother. I want you to go out of your way to do things you know will make me smile. I want to tease eachother. Build up. I want to be the first thing you think about when you have a moment to yourself. A small commute? Running an errand? House magically alone? That's our time. Keeping the fire burning between meets and/play sessions.

I reciprocate, when it's there. That feeling, that fire. Being left on read and lack of conversation just goes...nowhere. If you let it fizzle out...then that's just what happens. I won't waste either of our time.

I like to do voice and video calls. My schedule changes often, but if you're worth it I'll nake time for you. Physically, I'm looking for a man who's average to fit with a nice face. Traditionally attractive. I'm a fan of guys who work out, and can share things about themselves. From the mundane to the sexy. No giant beards covering your face because ... I want to see your face haha. Not into large age gaps.I want someone who shows initiative and wants to talk with me. Tells me when they're free and brings an energy to the table. When it's there, this is easy. I do want someone that can meet, not looking for solely online, but can deal with distance if you travel. Also, it's a plus if you have experience with this. No poly.

I'll probably regret saying this next bit, but chemistry. I want a man who can excite me? Has game? More on the leading, dominant side. Someone to keep me wanting them- that part is important. I like the side of me that is needy...but that's hard to bring out in me. I'm probably complicated that way. Knows the art of teasing and building up. I just can't get into someone that texts me about my "big tiddies". I just can't. Please save me from this.

About me- I'm a mom of three young kids with curves, long dark hair, green eyes. Hobbies are hard when you're a mom of three, but I'm getting back into working out after having my children.I like to do DYI type projects, I get excited about my plants, I enjoy cooking as well. I like a lot of different things, chances are there's something we can connect on

Think you can keep this going? Something long term? Let's figure this out 😘.

Obligatory not wanting to change your situation or my own.

This place is tough to be, but realistically, it only takes one right person. So I keep trying, even if my standards are high and people on here are fickle.

I want that easy connection that gives me butterflies, makes me a little nervous

I want to crave eachother. I want you to go out of your way to do things you know will make me smile. I want to tease eachother. Build up. I want to be the first thing you think about when you have a moment to yourself. A small commute? Running an errand? House magically alone? That's our time. Keeping the fire burning between meets and/play sessions.

I reciprocate, when it's there. That feeling, that fire. Being left on read and lack of conversation just goes...nowhere. If you let it fizzle out...then that's just what happens. I won't waste either of our time.

I like to do voice and video calls. My schedule will be changing soon, so commutes are my best time. Physically, I'm looking for a man who's average to fit with a nice face. Traditionally attractive. I'm a fan of guys who work out, and can share things about themselves. From the mundane to the sexy. No giant beards covering your face because ... I want to see your face haha. Not into large age gaps.I want someone who shows initiative and wants to talk with me. Tells me when they're free and brings an energy to the table. When it's there, this is easy. I do want someone that can meet, not looking for solely online, but can deal with distance if you travel. Also, it's a plus if you have experience with this. No poly.

I'll probably regret saying this next bit, but chemistry. I want a man who can excite me? Has game? More on the leading, dominant side. Someone to keep me wanting them- that part is important. I like the side of me that is needy...but that's hard to bring out in me. I'm probably complicated that way. Knows the art of teasing and building up. I just can't get into someone that texts me about my "big tiddies". I just can't. Please save me from this.

About me- I'm a mom of three young kids with curves, long dark hair, green eyes. Hobbies are hard when you're a mom of three, but I'm getting back into working out after having my children.I like to do DYI type projects, I get excited about my plants, I enjoy cooking as well. I like a lot of different things, chances are there's something we can connect on

Think you can keep this going? Something long term? Let's figure this out 😘.

Obligatory not wanting to change your situation or my own.

This place is tough to be, but realistically, it only takes one right person. So I keep trying, even if my standards are high and people on here are fickle.

I want that easy connection that gives me butterflies, makes me a little nervous

I want to crave eachother. I want you to go out of your way to do things you know will make me smile. I want to tease eachother. Build up. I want to be the first thing you think about when you have a moment to yourself. A small commute? Running an errand? House magically alone? That's our time. Keeping the fire burning between meets and/play sessions.

I reciprocate, when it's there. That feeling, that fire. Being left on read and lack of conversation just goes...nowhere. If you let it fizzle out...then that's just what happens. I won't waste either of our time.

I like to do voice and video calls. My schedule will be changing soon, so commutes are my best time. Physically, I'm looking for a man who's average to fit with a nice face. Traditionally attractive. I'm a fan of guys who work out, and can share things about themselves. From the mundane to the sexy. No giant beards covering your face because ... I want to see your face haha. Not into large age gaps.I want someone who shows initiative and wants to talk with me. Tells me when they're free and brings an energy to the table. When it's there, this is easy. I do want someone that can meet, not looking for solely online, but can deal with distance if you travel. Also, it's a plus if you have experience with this. No poly.

I'll probably regret saying this next bit, but chemistry. I want a man who can excite me? Has game? More on the leading, dominant side. Someone to keep me wanting them- that part is important. I like the side of me that is needy...but that's hard to bring out in me. I'm probably complicated that way. Knows the art of teasing and building up. I just can't get into someone that texts me about my "big tiddies". I just can't. Please save me from this.

About me- I'm a mom of three young kids with curves, long dark hair, green eyes. Hobbies are hard when you're a mom of three, but I'm getting back into working out after having my children.I like to do DYI type projects, I get excited about my plants, I enjoy cooking as well. I like a lot of different things, chances are there's something we can connect on

Think you can keep this going? Something long term? Let's figure this out 😘.

Obligatory not wanting to change your situation or my own.

This place is tough to be, but realistically, it only takes one right person. So I keep trying, even if my standards are high and people on here are fickle.

I want that easy connection that gives me butterflies, makes me a little nervous

I want to crave eachother. I want you to go out of your way to do things you know will make me smile. I want to tease eachother. Build up. I want to be the first thing you think about when you have a moment to yourself. A small commute? Running an errand? House magically alone? That's our time. Keeping the fire burning between meets and/play sessions.

I reciprocate, when it's there. That feeling, that fire. Being left on read and lack of conversation just goes...nowhere. If you let it fizzle out...then that's just what happens. I won't waste either of our time.

I like to do voice and video calls. My schedule will be changing soon, so commutes are my best time. Physically, I'm looking for a man who's average to fit with a nice face. Traditionally attractive. I'm a fan of guys who work out, and can share things about themselves. From the mundane to the sexy. No giant beards covering your face because ... I want to see your face haha. Not into large age gaps.I want someone who shows initiative and wants to talk with me. Tells me when they're free and brings an energy to the table. When it's there, this is easy. I do want someone that can meet, not looking for solely online, but can deal with distance if you travel. Also, it's a plus if you have experience with this. No poly.

I'll probably regret saying this next bit, but chemistry. I want a man who can excite me? Has game? More on the leading, dominant side. Someone to keep me wanting them- that part is important. I like the side of me that is needy...but that's hard to bring out in me. I'm probably complicated that way. Knows the art of teasing and building up. I just can't get into someone that texts me about my "big tiddies". I just can't. Please save me from this.

About me- I'm a mom of three young kids with curves, long dark hair, green eyes. Hobbies are hard when you're a mom of three, but I'm getting back into working out after having my children.I like to do DYI type projects, I get excited about my plants, I enjoy cooking as well. I like a lot of different things, chances are there's something we can connect on

Think you can keep this going? Something long term? Let's figure this out 😘.