u/rando_frendo

40s married guy here. Marriage itself is honestly pretty good, we’re partners, good friends, good life together, but the physical/intimate side has been is so lacking for very long time. Partner has basically no libido and after enough rejection you stop initiating because it just feels pointless.

What I miss most honestly is feeling wanted. The flirting, teasing, tension, someone actually desiring you physically instead of feeling invisible in that part of your life. I miss having that outlet and connection with someone where there’s mutual attraction and excitement instead of everything being shut off all the time.

I stay active and take care of myself. With cycling, swimming, gym most days, and I’d say I’m in pretty solid shape for my age. Normal, grounded guy with a good career and stable life, just missing that side of things.

Not really looking to blow up my marriage or judge anyone else’s situation either. More interested in finding someone who understands this kind of loneliness while still being in an otherwise functioning relationship. Would love to find an online connection where there’s chemistry, flirting, attention, fun conversations, and maybe a safe outlet for all the stuff that’s been bottled up way too long. ~

I have been married for over 10+ years now, things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Unfortunately my partner is not an overly sexual person, her drive is pretty low. One big thing I just love doing is cumming on a woman. It's always been a thing for me and always wanted to do it. I remember being younger and girls would "brag" about swallowing. I'd always think... no I dont want you to... I think it's so hot and sexy. Sadly though my partner does not like it at all, for her it's "gross". So because of that I dont do it, haven't for a long long time. I can't help but miss it and fantasize about it often.

Are there any ladies that do like it on them? is that a thing or no? Anyways figured I'd try putting this out there and see if anyone wants a fun chat. Long shot sure but taking a shot none the less.

So I am just plugging away at work, there is lots to do but that still doesn't mean it isn't boring and mundane most of the times. Here I am the boss so most of what I do is reactive to things, being available for people and more planning. With being the boss means that with all people I have to be work me and professional etc.... yet little do they really know that under it all I am just an old perv what can I say...... So would be great to chat with someone to help pass the time and make the days a bit more... interesting.

I have been married for over 10+ years now, things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Unfortunately my partner is not an overly sexual person, her drive is pretty low. One big thing I just love doing is cumming on a woman. It's always been a thing for me and always wanted to do it. I remember being younger and girls would "brag" about swallowing. I'd always think... no I dont want you to... I think it's so hot and sexy. Sadly though my partner does not like it at all, for her it's "gross". So because of that I dont do it, haven't for a long long time. I can't help but miss it and fantasize about it often.

Are there any ladies that do like it on them? is that a thing or no? Anyways figured I'd try putting this out there and see if anyone wants a fun chat. Long shot sure but taking a shot none the less.

So I am just plugging away at work, there is lots to do but that still doesn't mean it isn't boring and mundane most of the times. Here I am the boss so most of what I do is reactive to things, being available for people and more planning. With being the boss means that with all people I have to be work me and professional etc.... yet little do they really know that under it all I am just an old perv what can I say...... So would be great to chat with someone to help pass the time and make the days a bit more... interesting.

I have been married for over 10+ years now, things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Unfortunately my partner is not an overly sexual person, her drive is pretty low. One big thing I just love doing is cumming on a woman. It's always been a thing for me and always wanted to do it. I remember being younger and girls would "brag" about swallowing. I'd always think... no I dont want you to... I think it's so hot and sexy. Sadly though my partner does not like it at all, for her it's "gross". So because of that I dont do it, haven't for a long long time. I can't help but miss it and fantasize about it often.

Are there any ladies that do like it on them? is that a thing or no? Anyways figured I'd try putting this out there and see if anyone wants a fun chat. Long shot sure but taking a shot none the less.

Well just like Michael Scott said that Wayne Gretzky said, "You miss 100% of the shots you dont take". So with that why not, it's a long shot but a shot none the less.

Okay so the thing is I have been married long time now, over 10 years. Things are fine but I can't help but miss some things after all these years. Unfortunately my partner is not an overly sexual person, her drive is pretty low. One thing I just used to always love was a blowjob. Back in the younger days I would even just prefer that over sex honestly. I think it's so hot and fun the visual aspect along side the feel was just so amazing.

Of course though my partner does not like it at all. So because of that I dont get one anymore, haven't for a long long time. I can't help but miss it. I remember previously partners and women who like actually enjoying doing it and dear lord, those were the absolute best! I cannot help but think back at those and fantasize and try and relive in my head.

Well just throwing this out there to see what happens, I Work out often between cycling and swimming but that doesn't mean I can't help the dad bod at this point in my life, I am in decent shape overall though. I am a professional and the boss at my job so I have a good career as well. Also in terms of downstairs I have been told many times it I have a nice large package so if that means anything.