u/riley_uncensored

Yesterday we had an evening to ourselves, so to tease my husband I did that thing where you write something on two cards and the other person blindly picks one.

One option was cuck sex, with the cage and dirty talk and I get to get off while he doesn’t. Of course I liked that idea, but the other option was dominate sex, where my husband controls everything. Honestly, our sex life is all over the place and has drastically changed since i started my hotwife journey. Originally he was the dominate one in our relationship, as well as the bedroom, but over the last six months that has changed and it’s been a great time too.

Anyway, he got the one he wanted and we had an amazing night! Was just curious, are any of the men on this sub like my husband where you switch back and forth? If you are completely a cuck, I’m interested to hear that perspective as well.

So in our dynamic, I handle all the conversations with potential thirds, and my husband always gets to veto guys.

Holy shit does it bring out the weirdos. And I don’t mean to kink shame anyone.

But the amount of men that add me on snap and then immediately send me videos of other women on there dicks is too damn high. Do other women like that? It just makes me wonder if that woman knows her videos with her face in it are being shared like that, etc. I personally don’t like it, like ok, cool, you’ve been laid before buddy…

Also, more than once, I’ve had a potential third share my post with another couple and try to set up an orgy? And then when I decline the other couple declines. Like they’re using me as bait? Fucking wild.

What do you other ladies think?

So far we have used Reddit, and I (the wife) have my own account. Our location has a fairly active swinger community and I’ve gotten a lot of interest just from posting. (I am aware other apps exist, not interested in trying those yet).

In the past I have stayed the communication on Reddit and my husband is logged in on his phone and can read everything. However, recently I started adding people on Snapchat. I like that I am notified if anyone screenshots my pictures. There are photos on my Reddit posts of course, but the back and forth banter is fun and I have to see their face if I’m going to fuck them, so Snapchat is obviously convenient. Plus I get a kick out of the men realizing i am a real woman and attractive lol

Now my husband feels extremely excluded. I genuinely don’t want to do anything that makes him unhappy, so how do you all handle it?

I think we have more success when I handle the conversations, lol, but he wants to be a part of things?

It’s finally warming up where I live, which means sundresses.

We recently started in this lifestyle this year, and while I’ve gone on a few dates and had fun, my outfit choices were very weather dependent. Anyway, we picked out five or so new dresses and they came in the mail.

Naturally I tried each of them on for my husband and asked him what he thought of each, and he told me his favorite, so I put that one back on. Then, I told him I picked these out for future dates with other men, and he kinda lost it at that point.

I never thought my life would be like this, we are still very new. But he’s extremely supportive of me and I love that.