u/rosemarynewmar

Hi everyone, no official dynamic in our home, but I'm (F) naturally a sub and my husband (M) is a dom-leaning switch. I am happy to be soft domme when he's in the mood for that, although it doesn't come super naturally.

ANYWAY, with all that in mind, my husband asked me to overstim him until he safewords. We've done some of this before by having me continue to stimulate him with my mouth or hands after he's already come. This is fun but I was wondering if more experienced folks might have some suggestions for other ways to overstim someone with a penis. The lack of multiple orgasms as an option is stumping me a little bit 🤔

Other than the classic collar, do you or your partner like to wear anything for your scenes and intimate moments?

I'm always on the hunt for lingerie that leaves my erogenous zones available so I can actually keep it on for the main event rather than pose for a few moments and then take them off. My favorites are stockings and garters. I also recently ordered a pair of crotchless pantyhose that has "Good Girl" stitched across the thighs that I'm very excited about 🤭

What about you? Harnesses, jewelry, perhaps a jaunty cap? Maybe someone actually wears "dom jeans" like the guy in Fifty Shades of Grey? (seems unlikely but I'd love to hear about it if so lol)