Brooklyn Freestyling

I know people ask a lot about NYC freestyling, but it always skews towards Manhattan (which makes sense). I'm curious if anyone has tried freestyling in Brooklyn or any of the other boroughs? If you haven't tried explicitly, any spots you think would be good for experimenting? This will be for a niche crowd lol, but curious to hear your thoughts (:

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u/secretsbthrowaway — 8 hours ago

23 F SB NYC

Hello there! Do you call NYC home or visit often? I'm totally open to something long-distance as long as we can plan it out well. I'm a 23 year-old black female, studying in the city, with an athletic physique and standing tall at 5’11.

I absolutely love exploring different restaurants, visiting museums, and enjoying music events. If we hit it off, I'd be thrilled to enjoy a beautiful dinner together, accompany you to work functions, or social gatherings. Plus, I'm really into fitness—so if that's your thing too, maybe we could work out together!

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u/secretsbthrowaway — 6 days ago

From SB to Escort, Any words of advice?

I'm a current SB in NYC who is seriously considering pivoting to escorting. I made a tryst profile back in October and even published a website. I then found a serious SD so I decided to focus on him. Now that we are separated, I want to try this out. I'm early 20s, black, tall, and slim-athletic. I eventually want to transition into high end but obviously will start more basic/lower prices before I can get to that level. With that said, I do still want to have a sophisticated/high-end adjacent profile. I already have my tryst profile and personal website up, and I'm wondering if anyone can support with review or giving any feedback on how I can improve my profile? I know we're not allowed to post our profiles on here but my dms are open. If anyone has feedback for the written content of my tryst profile that would be great as well. I'm kinda going for a "sexual intellectual" kinda vibe:

"But poetry, beauty, romance, love...these are what we stay alive for."

If you understand the reference, you're in the right place. If it sounds foreign, you're in for a treat.

Are you looking for a delicate sensual pleasure, intimacy that reminds you of your favorite poem, or the most beautiful thing you've ever seen? Are you yearning for a rare connection that makes you feel whole, even if ever fleeting.

You're in luck, you've discovered [name].

Similarly to you, I believe that intimacy is one of the most valuable experiences a human can cherish. I also am aware that finding that spark, that electric connection, is ever so rare. I find that understanding and knowing someone on a personal level forms the perfect foundation to reaping the benefits of salacious desire.

I want to know what makes you tick. Is it a warm kiss on your tender lips? A gentle stroke? A kinky spank?

Let's embark on this journey together."

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u/secretsbthrowaway — 16 days ago

A Month of M/Gs in NYC (SB)

I'm an early 20s Black SB in NYC who is back in the bowl after recently separating from my SD. I'm mainly using Seeking and have posted on a sugar personals sub with no leads.

POT1: He was 57 years old single white male local to NYC. Connected on Seeking late last year but he wasn't looking for an arrangement at the time. He reached back out to me a few weeks ago and we set up a meet and greet at a high end restaurant. Everything went really well and our date lasted about 4 hours, at the restaurant till close. I admired his intelligence and found him handsome. We agreed to xxxx ppm prior to the m/g. After the m/g we both messaged expressing we had a great time. He told me he would message me to set up another date and I didn't hear from him for 3 weeks after the m/g. He was active on Seeking. I took that as an L.

POT2: He was a 42 year single old Black male from Texas who visits NYC on occasion. Connected on seeking a few weeks ago but didn't set up the date until 3 weeks later because he was not in town. We went to a high end bar for our meet and greet and the date lasted about 3.5 hours. Conversation was definitely more surface level but I enjoyed getting to know him. We did not discuss numbers before the m/g or at the m/g. By the end I realized he was looking for something short term and I'm not looking for that.

POT3: He was a 43 year old attached White male local to NYC. Reached out to me on Seeking and we moved to text within an hour of chatting. We connected on a Friday and had our m/g on a Tuesday. He is new to the bowl but has engaged with SWers in the past. It was clear through our text conversations that we had a lot in common. He set up a fabulous meet and greet at a high end bar, then dinner at a unique high end restaurant. The date lasted exactly 3 hours. We had a great kiss at the end and a lot of chemistry. I had never had such chemistry on a date (sugar/non-sugar). We agreed to xxxx ppm. We both seemed to be infatuated with each other but told me he would like to explore other connections so I am not sure if there will be an arrangement.

Reflection:

  1. Before these past m/gs I usually discussed $ expecations beforehand, but for two of these POTS I opted not to. Looking back, I will stick to my original procedure of discussing beforehand.
  2. Although things may not work out with POT3, he truly blew me away. That date taught me that it is very possible to have insane chemistry with an SD.
  3. Regardless of attractiveness, intellect, and emotional maturity, the bowl can be very humbling for all parties involved. I appreciate this experience because it is helping me let go of ego and I am learning to not be offended by rejection in the bowl (or otherwise).
  4. The bowl is truly alive and well. It is very difficult to find an arrangement but it is not impossible and there are serious people looking. It can be discouraging but if you've had success in the past, you can certainly have it now. If you are new, assess your fit and be patient.
  5. I think I want to try freestyling.
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u/secretsbthrowaway — 18 days ago

23 F SB NYC

Hello there! Do you call NYC home or visit often? I'm totally open to something long-distance as long as we can plan it out well. I'm a 23 year-old black female, studying in the city, with an athletic physique and standing tall at 5’11.

I absolutely love exploring different restaurants, visiting museums, and enjoying music events. If we hit it off, I'd be thrilled to enjoy a beautiful dinner together, accompany you to work functions, or social gatherings. Plus, I'm really into fitness—so if that's your thing too, maybe we could work out together!

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u/secretsbthrowaway — 1 month ago

Hello there! Do you call NYC home or visit often? I'm totally open to something long-distance as long as we can plan it out well. I'm a 23 year-old black female, studying in the city, with an athletic physique and standing tall at 5’11.

I absolutely love exploring different restaurants, visiting museums, and enjoying music events. If we hit it off, I'd be thrilled to enjoy a beautiful dinner together, accompany you to work functions, or social gatherings. Plus, I'm really into fitness—so if that's your thing too, maybe we could work out together!

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u/secretsbthrowaway — 2 months ago

Hello there! Do you call NYC home or visit often? I'm totally open to something long-distance as long as we can plan it out well. I'm a 23 year-old black female, studying in the city, with an athletic physique and standing tall at 5’11.

I absolutely love exploring different restaurants, visiting museums, and enjoying music events. If we hit it off, I'd be thrilled to enjoy a beautiful dinner together, accompany you to work functions, or social gatherings. Plus, I'm really into fitness—so if that's your thing too, maybe we could work out together!

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u/secretsbthrowaway — 2 months ago