u/sexisboringfightme

I am not looking for an RP so please don't ask, more just a conversation or talking about wholesome cuddly things we like doing, cute things, comfort things, things we like doing with other people. Would likely go well if we have a lot of commonalities in this front, for me that is diapers, using them, being changed, being dressed, being held, etc. The whole nine yard of classic ABDL things. Onesies and shortalls, cute little booties and maybe mittens. I must admit to also have a huge weakness for all things princess like, disney princess or classic architypical ruffles and fluff kinda of princess stuff.

It can even just be about simple diapers, meeting someone who wears them 24/7 for one reason or another. Maybe they never got potty trained and are fine with it? Maybe it's a medical condition, maybe it's just for comfort?

From there it is easy to build on adding more, as a diaper is used it of course grows heavy with it's new contents so wearing a onesie would be obvious, supporting it's weight and making sure it doesn't droop. Bottles or sippy cups are great if you are prone to bringing your drinks with you wherever you go, or just like drinking something for the same of drinking so that coffee disappears pretty quickly but with a sippy cup or a bottle it is slowed down enough to still let you drink but without having five cups per day.

Maybe eventually adding some bondage aspects to it so it makes the wearer really helpless. Like a pacifier gag that makes it so they can't talk, padded mittens so their hands are useless, spiked booties so walking is impossible. Maybe even straps on the bed, a locking crip top, arm and leg restraints on the high chair so they have to be fed?

Any sort of punishments you like? Are you the soft kind that only does corner time, maybe a spanking? Sent to bed early with or without dinner? Or do you take your punishments further because sparing the rod will spoil the brat? I'd love to hear your takes c:

Another thing I have been huge on is using special needs items or clothing to help with that. Such as sleepers or undergarments that are back zippered to discourage stripping or diaper removal, harnesses with a lead so they don't wonder off, hell, we could find a use for a wheelchair in there somewhere too.

If you want free extra credits since this has come up a bit. If you had a magic machine that could magically adjust my height to whatever you would want. How tall or short would you want your diapered girl?

First off. I am not looking to debate. I am not looking to argue and if I get a message from someone seeking out to "Prove me wrong" in any sort of ways, you will not be getting a response. I am looking for a discussion, a sharing of ideas, opinions and views. Your worldview isn't a fact, it's an opinion like anyone else's. Pretending to be right gets you ignored. We good? Good.

Though even still, I would especially love to hear from you if you are the opposite to me, or if you are right of center in general. And if you really want my attention, start off with a hot take. Your opening message should always try to start a conversation.

In recent conversation a topic has been coming up a bit. I do share a lot with the further right wing sphere in general when it comes to my "Lifestyle kinks", as it were. Traditional roles in the household, 50's marriages, femininity in the forefront such as only allowing women to wear skirts or dresses, etc. Being pro spanking in general, etc. Except the difference is that most people like "In the bedroom" but for me. That ruins the fun of it. Knowing that it ends, knowing I can tap out at any time, knowing that I am fundementally safe makes me thinking of nothing but the time it ends... So I am stuck in this dilemma of my politics valuing consent and my urges telling me I should have none.

The problem is that... I would never want to be with someone who acts out of instinct, impulse or emotions on those things. Someone who believes that beating me is the only right thing to do, regardless of how much I want someone to "Discipline" me. I also find that the adherence to hierarchies and rigid social structures common in those spheres neccessitates a limitation in creativity, after all, creativity questions and explores in spaces where exploration is discouraged and opinions should not be questioned.

So my prompt for the conversation is this, are there other people's who's politics and who's kinks seem like polar opposites. Finding misogyny very hot to be subjected to but being repulsed by misogynists. Or rather, to people who believe that it is right. To want serious restrictions and harsh discipline, but being put off by those who demand it.

Are situations for you different? What conflicts do you experience, with which kinks and why? I'd love to hear. Just try to be articulate. I am not likely to answer one-line messages.

First off. I am not looking to debate. I am not looking to argue and if I get a message from someone seeking out to "Prove me wrong" in any sort of ways, you will not be getting a response. I am looking for a discussion, a sharing of ideas, opinions and views. Your worldview isn't a fact, it's an opinion like anyone else's. Pretending to be right gets you ignored. We good? Good.

Though even still, I would especially love to hear from you if you are the opposite to me, or if you are right of center in general. And if you really want my attention, start off with a hot take. Your opening message should always try to start a conversation.

In recent conversation a topic has been coming up a bit. I do share a lot with the further right wing sphere in general when it comes to my "Lifestyle kinks", as it were. Traditional roles in the household, 50's marriages, femininity in the forefront such as only allowing women to wear skirts or dresses, etc. Being pro spanking in general, etc. Except the difference is that most people like "In the bedroom" but for me. That ruins the fun of it. Knowing that it ends, knowing I can tap out at any time, knowing that I am fundementally safe makes me thinking of nothing but the time it ends... So I am stuck in this dilemma of my politics valuing consent and my urges telling me I should have none.

The problem is that... I would never want to be with someone who acts out of instinct, impulse or emotions on those things. Someone who believes that beating me is the only right thing to do, regardless of how much I want someone to "Discipline" me. I also find that the adherence to hierarchies and rigid social structures common in those spheres neccessitates a limitation in creativity, after all, creativity questions and explores in spaces where exploration is discouraged and opinions should not be questioned.

So my prompt for the conversation is this, are there other people's who's politics and who's kinks seem like polar opposites. Finding misogyny very hot to be subjected to but being repulsed by misogynists. Or rather, to people who believe that it is right. To want serious restrictions and harsh discipline, but being put off by those who demand it.

Are situations for you different? What conflicts do you experience, with which kinks and why? I'd love to hear. Just try to be articulate. I am not likely to answer one-line messages.

First off. I am not looking to debate. I am not looking to argue and if I get a message from someone seeking out to "Prove me wrong" in any sort of ways, you will not be getting a response. I am looking for a discussion, a sharing of ideas, opinions and views. Your worldview isn't a fact, it's an opinion like anyone else's. Pretending to be right gets you ignored. We good? Good.

Though even still, I would especially love to hear from you if you are the opposite to me, or if you are right of center in general. And if you really want my attention, start off with a hot take. Your opening message should always try to start a conversation.

In recent conversation a topic has been coming up a bit. I do share a lot with the further right wing sphere in general when it comes to my "Lifestyle kinks", as it were. Traditional roles in the household, 50's marriages, femininity in the forefront such as only allowing women to wear skirts or dresses, etc. Being pro spanking in general, etc. Except the difference is that most people like "In the bedroom" but for me. That ruins the fun of it. Knowing that it ends, knowing I can tap out at any time, knowing that I am fundementally safe makes me thinking of nothing but the time it ends... So I am stuck in this dilemma of my politics valuing consent and my urges telling me I should have none.

The problem is that... I would never want to be with someone who acts out of instinct, impulse or emotions on those things. Someone who believes that beating me is the only right thing to do, regardless of how much I want someone to "Discipline" me. I also find that the adherence to hierarchies and rigid social structures common in those spheres neccessitates a limitation in creativity, after all, creativity questions and explores in spaces where exploration is discouraged and opinions should not be questioned.

So my prompt for the conversation is this, are there other people's who's politics and who's kinks seem like polar opposites. Finding misogyny very hot to be subjected to but being repulsed by misogynists. Or rather, to people who believe that it is right. To want serious restrictions and harsh discipline, but being put off by those who demand it.

Are situations for you different? What conflicts do you experience, with which kinks and why? I'd love to hear. Just try to be articulate. I am not likely to answer one-line messages.

First off. I am not looking to debate. I am not looking to argue and if I get a message from someone seeking out to "Prove me wrong" in any sort of ways, you will not be getting a response. I am looking for a discussion, a sharing of ideas, opinions and views. Your worldview isn't a fact, it's an opinion like anyone else's. Pretending to be right gets you ignored. We good? Good.

Though even still, I would especially love to hear from you if you are the opposite to me, or if you are right of center in general. And if you really want my attention, start off with a hot take. Your opening message should always try to start a conversation.

In recent conversation a topic has been coming up a bit. I do share a lot with the further right wing sphere in general when it comes to my "Lifestyle kinks", as it were. Traditional roles in the household, 50's marriages, femininity in the forefront such as only allowing women to wear skirts or dresses, etc. Being pro spanking in general, etc. Except the difference is that most people like "In the bedroom" but for me. That ruins the fun of it. Knowing that it ends, knowing I can tap out at any time, knowing that I am fundementally safe makes me thinking of nothing but the time it ends... So I am stuck in this dilemma of my politics valuing consent and my urges telling me I should have none.

The problem is that... I would never want to be with someone who acts out of instinct, impulse or emotions on those things. Someone who believes that beating me is the only right thing to do, regardless of how much I want someone to "Discipline" me. I also find that the adherence to hierarchies and rigid social structures common in those spheres neccessitates a limitation in creativity, after all, creativity questions and explores in spaces where exploration is discouraged and opinions should not be questioned.

So my prompt for the conversation is this, are there other people's who's politics and who's kinks seem like polar opposites. Finding misogyny very hot to be subjected to but being repulsed by misogynists. Or rather, to people who believe that it is right. To want serious restrictions and harsh discipline, but being put off by those who demand it.

Are situations for you different? What conflicts do you experience, with which kinks and why? I'd love to hear. Just try to be articulate. I am not likely to answer one-line messages.

I have only two rules. I don't cum, and the belt is not removed other than for cleaning.

Isn't female chastity wonderful? That tight metal belt denying her any access to herself? In this chat I would love to find out what you like about it, how you prefer it and what accessories you'd bring along.

Is it just a belt, or is there a bra as well? Maybe a collar, thigh bands, cuffs or ankle cuffs? Or do you fancy things such as locking high heels. Or things that put her in a compremising position such as pillories, yokes and fiddles?

Do you prefer plugs on the belt? Ones just small enough to feel but not big enough to get any pleasure so it's just a sense for frustration? Or a plug so big it really stretches her holes?

Maybe there are spikes or shock pads inside of the bra, maybe it's a choking or a chock collar too?

Who would we be to eachother? Are we just starting to date and this is a condition of it? Is it government mandated? Are you my father and heard that I wanted to start dating and you didn't want me to?

There are loads of other things that come into play there as well, such as wardrobe control (no, i'm not interested in being naked as a form of wardrobe control). Obviously if I have thigh bands on, I will not be able to wear shorts or pants, after all, good girls only wear skirts and dresses.

I'd love to hear from you to discuss all things female chastity!

A quick note off the top that this is meant to be a conversation, a chat. Any requests which offer or mention RP will not be answered.

Ever gone to a museum and seen all the archaic cuffs, the heavy metal ones which look like they weighed five pounds? That and more is what I wish to talk about. What are some things have interested you from history, in terms of restraints, punishments or more.

Honestly the most fun I think is if we brought back stockades to the public square to punish people for minor crimes, such as shoplifting. Paddlings or throwing rotten food at them. Etc. But whipping posts and even hanging cages could be fun.

Punishments that are more torture methods can also be fun. Ishidaki out of japan is not a well known one. Basically a board made with triangular ridges which you are knelt on with stones pressed on your lap to push you down further.

And who can forget about wooden horses? Sitting split across it with weighs on each leg pulling you down.

There is also one out of china that I kinda like. Where a wooden board was nailed around your head wide enough so your hands couldn't reach your mouth and with your crime written on the front of it, you were reliant upon others to feed you or else you'd starve slowly.

One which is a bit more low maintenence is an oubliette. A hole in the ground with a grate on the top which is the only way in and out. The person could be shackled up inside of it, but usually they are left there, the name as well comes from the french word "To forget".

Are there any favorite archaic or antique forms of punishments or restraining that you like, or even torture? Any I didn't cover or do you have a specific fondness for one I did mention? I'd love to hear from you.

A quick note off the top that this is meant to be a conversation, a chat. Any requests which offer or mention RP will not be answered.

Ever gone to a museum and seen all the archaic cuffs, the heavy metal ones which look like they weighed five pounds? That and more is what I wish to talk about. What are some things have interested you from history, in terms of restraints, punishments or more.

Honestly the most fun I think is if we brought back stockades to the public square to punish people for minor crimes, such as shoplifting. Paddlings or throwing rotten food at them. Etc. But whipping posts and even hanging cages could be fun.

Punishments that are more torture methods can also be fun. Ishidaki out of japan is not a well known one. Basically a board made with triangular ridges which you are knelt on with stones pressed on your lap to push you down further.

And who can forget about wooden horses? Sitting split across it with weighs on each leg pulling you down.

There is also one out of china that I kinda like. Where a wooden board was nailed around your head wide enough so your hands couldn't reach your mouth and with your crime written on the front of it, you were reliant upon others to feed you or else you'd starve slowly.

One which is a bit more low maintenence is an oubliette. A hole in the ground with a grate on the top which is the only way in and out. The person could be shackled up inside of it, but usually they are left there, the name as well comes from the french word "To forget".

Are there any favorite archaic or antique forms of punishments or restraining that you like, or even torture? Any I didn't cover or do you have a specific fondness for one I did mention? I'd love to hear from you.

I have always been fascinated with where ABDL can intersect with various special needs. Since a lot of bondage-adjacent items can be justified that way. Diapers are a natural inclusion, but you could also justify a toddler leash on someone in their twenties. A wheelchair even, maybe one with straps for the hands and legs if someone has trouble controlling themselves.

Back zippered clothing, pajamas or otherwise are also a natural inclusion, naturally made to prevent special needs people from stripping of their clothes or accessing their diaper. Who needs a locking diaper cover when you have a short bodysuit worn under your clothing that achieves the same effect but gives you plausible deniability.

Many things and more can be justified under this, including not speaking in public other than just babbles, being fed, wearing a bib. A high chair at home or a bed you can't escape, either in a crib or with bed restraints, perhaps both.

I wonder who else is into this idea. I am not here to roleplay but I would like to discuss ideas or fantasies you might have, or even if you just are curious and want to know more, feel free to hit me up :D.

Also as a note. Please do say something of note. I am not answering posts that only say "hi" or something that could have been a mass post to anyone for any ad. Say something substantive and add to the conversation if you want to have a conversation. Thank you.

Three things of order to start off. I am a sub so I am mostly interested in talking with doms, I am not going to be able to humor you if you want to be the one at the recieving end. Secondly, I will not respond to comments, send a pm/chat if you want to talk.

The third, and perhaps most important since I get this every single time. No, we won't have a relationship of any kind online. Rules do nothing for me if there is not a stern hand to threaten punishment. Any attempts to enforce rules upon me will not be met in a way that you like. That being said, I am still interested in discussing hypotheticals as if we lived together or otherwise were under the same roof. The "What ifs" of situations where punishment was a real and immediate threat.

To start off. As my username suggests, I am not interested in sex, sexual stimulation or edging or anything that could be construed as sexual and or pleasure in any way, shape or form. If you cannot separate sex and stimulation from kink, I'd ask you to seek elsewhere.

I like discipline, rules and punishments. A whole lot. Though my take on is is that rules shouldn't only be what you like and punishments should never be easy to get through. Discipline is to make you be a better person according to someone else's image, if that means you have to let go of things you like in order to achieve that then it is a sacrifice that must be made. The same with punishment, a deterrent is useless if you don't mind it happening. A punishment should be something you fear and wish would not happen. These two when going hand in hand will let discipline shape you into a better person.

Another one that I rather much believe in is the strictness of it. The only exceptions that will ever be given will be in terms of emergencies. If you're sick, injured, need to go to the hospital or something, that is the only exception to the rules and discipline. If you break a rule, you get punished, the rules will never be given an exception except under extraordinary situations. The minute you say "Well I'll let you do X just this time" is when people think they can negotiate the rules or change them to be less effective. The minute you say "I won't punish you for it this time" is when people will push their luck and break the rules because they think they can have no consequences for it.

The two most common things I can think of would be speech restriction and wardrobe control, when it comes to rules and discipline. No cursing, no talking back, no disrespecting. Same with things like not allowing certain clothes or mandating certain clothes at certain times, etc. But also more procedural ones like curfews and rules such as always eating everything from your plate and if you don't arrive precisely at 8 for dinner you will miss it and won't be allowed to eat until breakfast, etc.

I have also recently gotten into a "My house, my rules" sort of system. Where if you move back into your parents place, their rules and punishments would apply. It doesn't matter if you're 25, their rights as a parent trump your rights as a person and they would have complete control and last say over your matters until you move out again.

Anyone interested in discussing rules, discipline and punishments? What are your favorite kinds of rules? What sort of rules would you implement? What sort of punishments? (Spankings are evergreen but don't need to be the only ones). Do reach out if you're interested :D

Three things of order to start off. I am a sub so I am mostly interested in talking with doms, I am not going to be able to humor you if you want to be the one at the recieving end. Secondly, I will not respond to comments, send a pm/chat if you want to talk.

The third, and perhaps most important since I get this every single time. No, we won't have a relationship of any kind online. Rules do nothing for me if there is not a stern hand to threaten punishment. Any attempts to enforce rules upon me will not be met in a way that you like. That being said, I am still interested in discussing hypotheticals as if we lived together or otherwise were under the same roof. The "What ifs" of situations where punishment was a real and immediate threat.

To start off. As my username suggests, I am not interested in sex, sexual stimulation or edging or anything that could be construed as sexual and or pleasure in any way, shape or form. If you cannot separate sex and stimulation from kink, I'd ask you to seek elsewhere.

I like discipline, rules and punishments. A whole lot. Though my take on is is that rules shouldn't only be what you like and punishments should never be easy to get through. Discipline is to make you be a better person according to someone else's image, if that means you have to let go of things you like in order to achieve that then it is a sacrifice that must be made. The same with punishment, a deterrent is useless if you don't mind it happening. A punishment should be something you fear and wish would not happen. These two when going hand in hand will let discipline shape you into a better person.

Another one that I rather much believe in is the strictness of it. The only exceptions that will ever be given will be in terms of emergencies. If you're sick, injured, need to go to the hospital or something, that is the only exception to the rules and discipline. If you break a rule, you get punished, the rules will never be given an exception except under extraordinary situations. The minute you say "Well I'll let you do X just this time" is when people think they can negotiate the rules or change them to be less effective. The minute you say "I won't punish you for it this time" is when people will push their luck and break the rules because they think they can have no consequences for it.

The two most common things I can think of would be speech restriction and wardrobe control, when it comes to rules and discipline. No cursing, no talking back, no disrespecting. Same with things like not allowing certain clothes or mandating certain clothes at certain times, etc. But also more procedural ones like curfews and rules such as always eating everything from your plate and if you don't arrive precisely at 8 for dinner you will miss it and won't be allowed to eat until breakfast, etc.

I have also recently gotten into a "My house, my rules" sort of system. Where if you move back into your parents place, their rules and punishments would apply. It doesn't matter if you're 25, their rights as a parent trump your rights as a person and they would have complete control and last say over your matters until you move out again.

Anyone interested in discussing rules, discipline and punishments? What are your favorite kinds of rules? What sort of rules would you implement? What sort of punishments? (Spankings are evergreen but don't need to be the only ones). Do reach out if you're interested :D

First off. I am not looking to debate. I am not looking to argue and if I get a message from someone seeking out to "Prove me wrong" in any sort of ways, you will not be getting a response. I am looking for a discussion, a sharing of ideas, opinions and views. Your worldview isn't a fact, it's an opinion like anyone else's. Pretending to be right gets you ignored. We good? Good.

Though even still, I would especially love to hear from you if you are the opposite to me, or if you are right of center in general. And if you really want my attention, start off with a hot take. Your opening message should always try to start a conversation.

In recent conversation a topic has been coming up a bit. I do share a lot with the further right wing sphere in general when it comes to my "Lifestyle kinks", as it were. Traditional roles in the household, 50's marriages, femininity in the forefront such as only allowing women to wear skirts or dresses, etc. Being pro spanking in general, etc. Except the difference is that most people like "In the bedroom" but for me. That ruins the fun of it. Knowing that it ends, knowing I can tap out at any time, knowing that I am fundementally safe makes me thinking of nothing but the time it ends... So I am stuck in this dilemma of my politics valuing consent and my urges telling me I should have none.

The problem is that... I would never want to be with someone who acts out of instinct, impulse or emotions on those things. Someone who believes that beating me is the only right thing to do, regardless of how much I want someone to "Discipline" me. I also find that the adherence to hierarchies and rigid social structures common in those spheres neccessitates a limitation in creativity, after all, creativity questions and explores in spaces where exploration is discouraged and opinions should not be questioned.

So my prompt for the conversation is this, are there other people's who's politics and who's kinks seem like polar opposites. Finding misogyny very hot to be subjected to but being repulsed by misogynists. Or rather, to people who believe that it is right. To want serious restrictions and harsh discipline, but being put off by those who demand it.

Are situations for you different? What conflicts do you experience, with which kinks and why? I'd love to hear. Just try to be articulate. I am not likely to answer one-line messages.

First off. I am not looking to debate. I am not looking to argue and if I get a message from someone seeking out to "Prove me wrong" in any sort of ways, you will not be getting a response. I am looking for a discussion, a sharing of ideas, opinions and views. Your worldview isn't a fact, it's an opinion like anyone else's. Pretending to be right gets you ignored. We good? Good.

Though even still, I would especially love to hear from you if you are the opposite to me, or if you are right of center in general. And if you really want my attention, start off with a hot take. Your opening message should always try to start a conversation.

In recent conversation a topic has been coming up a bit. I do share a lot with the further right wing sphere in general when it comes to my "Lifestyle kinks", as it were. Traditional roles in the household, 50's marriages, femininity in the forefront such as only allowing women to wear skirts or dresses, etc. Being pro spanking in general, etc. Except the difference is that most people like "In the bedroom" but for me. That ruins the fun of it. Knowing that it ends, knowing I can tap out at any time, knowing that I am fundementally safe makes me thinking of nothing but the time it ends... So I am stuck in this dilemma of my politics valuing consent and my urges telling me I should have none.

The problem is that... I would never want to be with someone who acts out of instinct, impulse or emotions on those things. Someone who believes that beating me is the only right thing to do, regardless of how much I want someone to "Discipline" me. I also find that the adherence to hierarchies and rigid social structures common in those spheres neccessitates a limitation in creativity, after all, creativity questions and explores in spaces where exploration is discouraged and opinions should not be questioned.

So my prompt for the conversation is this, are there other people's who's politics and who's kinks seem like polar opposites. Finding misogyny very hot to be subjected to but being repulsed by misogynists. Or rather, to people who believe that it is right. To want serious restrictions and harsh discipline, but being put off by those who demand it.

Are situations for you different? What conflicts do you experience, with which kinks and why? I'd love to hear. Just try to be articulate. I am not likely to answer one-line messages.

Three things of order to start off. I am a sub so I am mostly interested in talking with doms, I am not going to be able to humor you if you want to be the one at the recieving end. Secondly, I will not respond to comments, send a pm/chat if you want to talk.

The third, and perhaps most important since I get this every single time. No, we won't have a relationship of any kind online. Rules do nothing for me if there is not a stern hand to threaten punishment. Any attempts to enforce rules upon me will not be met in a way that you like. That being said, I am still interested in discussing hypotheticals as if we lived together or otherwise were under the same roof. The "What ifs" of situations where punishment was a real and immediate threat.

To start off. As my username suggests, I am not interested in sex, sexual stimulation or edging or anything that could be construed as sexual and or pleasure in any way, shape or form. If you cannot separate sex and stimulation from kink, I'd ask you to seek elsewhere.

I like discipline, rules and punishments. A whole lot. Though my take on is is that rules shouldn't only be what you like and punishments should never be easy to get through. Discipline is to make you be a better person according to someone else's image, if that means you have to let go of things you like in order to achieve that then it is a sacrifice that must be made. The same with punishment, a deterrent is useless if you don't mind it happening. A punishment should be something you fear and wish would not happen. These two when going hand in hand will let discipline shape you into a better person.

Another one that I rather much believe in is the strictness of it. The only exceptions that will ever be given will be in terms of emergencies. If you're sick, injured, need to go to the hospital or something, that is the only exception to the rules and discipline. If you break a rule, you get punished, the rules will never be given an exception except under extraordinary situations. The minute you say "Well I'll let you do X just this time" is when people think they can negotiate the rules or change them to be less effective. The minute you say "I won't punish you for it this time" is when people will push their luck and break the rules because they think they can have no consequences for it.

The two most common things I can think of would be speech restriction and wardrobe control, when it comes to rules and discipline. No cursing, no talking back, no disrespecting. Same with things like not allowing certain clothes or mandating certain clothes at certain times, etc. But also more procedural ones like curfews and rules such as always eating everything from your plate and if you don't arrive precisely at 8 for dinner you will miss it and won't be allowed to eat until breakfast, etc.

I have also recently gotten into a "My house, my rules" sort of system. Where if you move back into your parents place, their rules and punishments would apply. It doesn't matter if you're 25, their rights as a parent trump your rights as a person and they would have complete control and last say over your matters until you move out again.

Anyone interested in discussing rules, discipline and punishments? What are your favorite kinds of rules? What sort of rules would you implement? What sort of punishments? (Spankings are evergreen but don't need to be the only ones). Do reach out if you're interested :D

Three things of order to start off. I am a sub so I am mostly interested in talking with doms, I am not going to be able to humor you if you want to be the one at the recieving end. Secondly, I will not respond to comments, send a pm/chat if you want to talk.

The third, and perhaps most important since I get this every single time. No, we won't have a relationship of any kind online. Rules do nothing for me if there is not a stern hand to threaten punishment. Any attempts to enforce rules upon me will not be met in a way that you like. That being said, I am still interested in discussing hypotheticals as if we lived together or otherwise were under the same roof. The "What ifs" of situations where punishment was a real and immediate threat.

To start off. As my username suggests, I am not interested in sex, sexual stimulation or edging or anything that could be construed as sexual and or pleasure in any way, shape or form. If you cannot separate sex and stimulation from kink, I'd ask you to seek elsewhere.

I like discipline, rules and punishments. A whole lot. Though my take on is is that rules shouldn't only be what you like and punishments should never be easy to get through. Discipline is to make you be a better person according to someone else's image, if that means you have to let go of things you like in order to achieve that then it is a sacrifice that must be made. The same with punishment, a deterrent is useless if you don't mind it happening. A punishment should be something you fear and wish would not happen. These two when going hand in hand will let discipline shape you into a better person.

Another one that I rather much believe in is the strictness of it. The only exceptions that will ever be given will be in terms of emergencies. If you're sick, injured, need to go to the hospital or something, that is the only exception to the rules and discipline. If you break a rule, you get punished, the rules will never be given an exception except under extraordinary situations. The minute you say "Well I'll let you do X just this time" is when people think they can negotiate the rules or change them to be less effective. The minute you say "I won't punish you for it this time" is when people will push their luck and break the rules because they think they can have no consequences for it.

The two most common things I can think of would be speech restriction and wardrobe control, when it comes to rules and discipline. No cursing, no talking back, no disrespecting. Same with things like not allowing certain clothes or mandating certain clothes at certain times, etc. But also more procedural ones like curfews and rules such as always eating everything from your plate and if you don't arrive precisely at 8 for dinner you will miss it and won't be allowed to eat until breakfast, etc.

I have also recently gotten into a "My house, my rules" sort of system. Where if you move back into your parents place, their rules and punishments would apply. It doesn't matter if you're 25, their rights as a parent trump your rights as a person and they would have complete control and last say over your matters until you move out again.

Anyone interested in discussing rules, discipline and punishments? What are your favorite kinds of rules? What sort of rules would you implement? What sort of punishments? (Spankings are evergreen but don't need to be the only ones). Do reach out if you're interested :D

I have always been fascinated with where ABDL can intersect with various special needs. Since a lot of bondage-adjacent items can be justified that way. Diapers are a natural inclusion, but you could also justify a toddler leash on someone in their twenties. A wheelchair even, maybe one with straps for the hands and legs if someone has trouble controlling themselves.

Back zippered clothing, pajamas or otherwise are also a natural inclusion, naturally made to prevent special needs people from stripping of their clothes or accessing their diaper. Who needs a locking diaper cover when you have a short bodysuit worn under your clothing that achieves the same effect but gives you plausible deniability.

Many things and more can be justified under this, including not speaking in public other than just babbles, being fed, wearing a bib. A high chair at home or a bed you can't escape, either in a crib or with bed restraints, perhaps both.

I wonder who else is into this idea. I am not here to roleplay but I would like to discuss ideas or fantasies you might have, or even if you just are curious and want to know more, feel free to hit me up :D.

Also as a note. Please do say something of note. I am not answering posts that only say "hi" or something that could have been a mass post to anyone for any ad. Say something substantive and add to the conversation if you want to have a conversation. Thank you.

First off. I am not looking to debate. I am not looking to argue and if I get a message from someone seeking out to "Prove me wrong" in any sort of ways, you will not be getting a response. I am looking for a discussion, a sharing of ideas, opinions and views. Your worldview isn't a fact, it's an opinion like anyone else's. Pretending to be right gets you ignored. We good? Good.

Though even still, I would especially love to hear from you if you are the opposite to me, or if you are right of center in general. And if you really want my attention, start off with a hot take. Your opening message should always try to start a conversation.

In recent conversation a topic has been coming up a bit. I do share a lot with the further right wing sphere in general when it comes to my "Lifestyle kinks", as it were. Traditional roles in the household, 50's marriages, femininity in the forefront such as only allowing women to wear skirts or dresses, etc. Being pro spanking in general, etc. Except the difference is that most people like "In the bedroom" but for me. That ruins the fun of it. Knowing that it ends, knowing I can tap out at any time, knowing that I am fundementally safe makes me thinking of nothing but the time it ends... So I am stuck in this dilemma of my politics valuing consent and my urges telling me I should have none.

The problem is that... I would never want to be with someone who acts out of instinct, impulse or emotions on those things. Someone who believes that beating me is the only right thing to do, regardless of how much I want someone to "Discipline" me. I also find that the adherence to hierarchies and rigid social structures common in those spheres neccessitates a limitation in creativity, after all, creativity questions and explores in spaces where exploration is discouraged and opinions should not be questioned.

So my prompt for the conversation is this, are there other people's who's politics and who's kinks seem like polar opposites. Finding misogyny very hot to be subjected to but being repulsed by misogynists. Or rather, to people who believe that it is right. To want serious restrictions and harsh discipline, but being put off by those who demand it.

Are situations for you different? What conflicts do you experience, with which kinks and why? I'd love to hear. Just try to be articulate. I am not likely to answer one-line messages.

A quick note off the top that this is meant to be a conversation, a chat. Any requests which offer or mention RP will not be answered.

Ever gone to a museum and seen all the archaic cuffs, the heavy metal ones which look like they weighed five pounds? That and more is what I wish to talk about. What are some things have interested you from history, in terms of restraints, punishments or more.

Honestly the most fun I think is if we brought back stockades to the public square to punish people for minor crimes, such as shoplifting. Paddlings or throwing rotten food at them. Etc. But whipping posts and even hanging cages could be fun.

Punishments that are more torture methods can also be fun. Ishidaki out of japan is not a well known one. Basically a board made with triangular ridges which you are knelt on with stones pressed on your lap to push you down further.

And who can forget about wooden horses? Sitting split across it with weighs on each leg pulling you down.

There is also one out of china that I kinda like. Where a wooden board was nailed around your head wide enough so your hands couldn't reach your mouth and with your crime written on the front of it, you were reliant upon others to feed you or else you'd starve slowly.

One which is a bit more low maintenence is an oubliette. A hole in the ground with a grate on the top which is the only way in and out. The person could be shackled up inside of it, but usually they are left there, the name as well comes from the french word "To forget".

Are there any favorite archaic or antique forms of punishments or restraining that you like, or even torture? Any I didn't cover or do you have a specific fondness for one I did mention? I'd love to hear from you.

Three things of order to start off. I am a sub so I am mostly interested in talking with doms, I am not going to be able to humor you if you want to be the one at the recieving end. Secondly, I will not respond to comments, send a pm/chat if you want to talk.

The third, and perhaps most important since I get this every single time. No, we won't have a relationship of any kind online. Rules do nothing for me if there is not a stern hand to threaten punishment. Any attempts to enforce rules upon me will not be met in a way that you like. That being said, I am still interested in discussing hypotheticals as if we lived together or otherwise were under the same roof. The "What ifs" of situations where punishment was a real and immediate threat.

To start off. As my username suggests, I am not interested in sex, sexual stimulation or edging or anything that could be construed as sexual and or pleasure in any way, shape or form. If you cannot separate sex and stimulation from kink, I'd ask you to seek elsewhere.

I like discipline, rules and punishments. A whole lot. Though my take on is is that rules shouldn't only be what you like and punishments should never be easy to get through. Discipline is to make you be a better person according to someone else's image, if that means you have to let go of things you like in order to achieve that then it is a sacrifice that must be made. The same with punishment, a deterrent is useless if you don't mind it happening. A punishment should be something you fear and wish would not happen. These two when going hand in hand will let discipline shape you into a better person.

Another one that I rather much believe in is the strictness of it. The only exceptions that will ever be given will be in terms of emergencies. If you're sick, injured, need to go to the hospital or something, that is the only exception to the rules and discipline. If you break a rule, you get punished, the rules will never be given an exception except under extraordinary situations. The minute you say "Well I'll let you do X just this time" is when people think they can negotiate the rules or change them to be less effective. The minute you say "I won't punish you for it this time" is when people will push their luck and break the rules because they think they can have no consequences for it.

The two most common things I can think of would be speech restriction and wardrobe control, when it comes to rules and discipline. No cursing, no talking back, no disrespecting. Same with things like not allowing certain clothes or mandating certain clothes at certain times, etc. But also more procedural ones like curfews and rules such as always eating everything from your plate and if you don't arrive precisely at 8 for dinner you will miss it and won't be allowed to eat until breakfast, etc.

I have also recently gotten into a "My house, my rules" sort of system. Where if you move back into your parents place, their rules and punishments would apply. It doesn't matter if you're 25, their rights as a parent trump your rights as a person and they would have complete control and last say over your matters until you move out again.

Anyone interested in discussing rules, discipline and punishments? What are your favorite kinds of rules? What sort of rules would you implement? What sort of punishments? (Spankings are evergreen but don't need to be the only ones). Do reach out if you're interested :D

First off. I am not looking to debate. I am not looking to argue and if I get a message from someone seeking out to "Prove me wrong" in any sort of ways, you will not be getting a response. I am looking for a discussion, a sharing of ideas, opinions and views. Your worldview isn't a fact, it's an opinion like anyone else's. Pretending to be right gets you ignored. We good? Good.

Though even still, I would especially love to hear from you if you are the opposite to me, or if you are right of center in general. And if you really want my attention, start off with a hot take. Your opening message should always try to start a conversation.

In recent conversation a topic has been coming up a bit. I do share a lot with the further right wing sphere in general when it comes to my "Lifestyle kinks", as it were. Traditional roles in the household, 50's marriages, femininity in the forefront such as only allowing women to wear skirts or dresses, etc. Being pro spanking in general, etc. Except the difference is that most people like "In the bedroom" but for me. That ruins the fun of it. Knowing that it ends, knowing I can tap out at any time, knowing that I am fundementally safe makes me thinking of nothing but the time it ends... So I am stuck in this dilemma of my politics valuing consent and my urges telling me I should have none.

The problem is that... I would never want to be with someone who acts out of instinct, impulse or emotions on those things. Someone who believes that beating me is the only right thing to do, regardless of how much I want someone to "Discipline" me. I also find that the adherence to hierarchies and rigid social structures common in those spheres neccessitates a limitation in creativity, after all, creativity questions and explores in spaces where exploration is discouraged and opinions should not be questioned.

So my prompt for the conversation is this, are there other people's who's politics and who's kinks seem like polar opposites. Finding misogyny very hot to be subjected to but being repulsed by misogynists. Or rather, to people who believe that it is right. To want serious restrictions and harsh discipline, but being put off by those who demand it.

Are situations for you different? What conflicts do you experience, with which kinks and why? I'd love to hear. Just try to be articulate. I am not likely to answer one-line messages.