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I am intersex male and a femboy so if that is that all an issue, please don’t message me. I also do not really enjoy being fetishized, so if you’ve never “been with someone like me” please do not message me. Someone with experience with trans or intersex people is better.
I only feel sexual connection through trust. So if you are just here too be sexual, I am not the one. I need to trust the person and have attraction towards them.
I talk a lot and have found that people don’t really like it! So if you’re not really a talker or you don’t like people who talk, definitely don’t message me.
I definitely enjoy people who can talk a lot with me and have a great exchange with me, but I also expect you to at least try to showcase subtle dominant things about yourself into our conversation. Like I said, I don’t like things to be sexual, but I at least want to know that you know what you’re doing or you actually show interest. I’ve noticed that sometimes the conversation can die off because I don’t really get the vibe that someone truly wants to indulge in that dynamic.
Hello <3
About me: Hi, my name is Bishop! I’m a 29 year old he/him intersex male (I’m a femboy too!) and I am trying to get myself out there and push myself to be more involved with this culture. I know a bit about it, but from my research that I believe that I really will enjoy it more than anything. Unfortunately, I do struggle with the idea of being vulnerable and listening only because I find myself to be a very independent person. I grew up, not really needing anybody so this is a really scary territory for me. Because of this issue, I highly want to move this into being more of an actual relationship rather than just an exchange. I do think that living the lifestyle of CG/L or D/s would be great, but also having a partner who knows when to just be my partner would be great too.
More about myself, I’m an extreme video game and comic nerd. Like legit I probably wake up play video games, read comics, play video games again and then go to sleep. Even when I get off of work, I’m likely reading comics, or playing video games. I also really love to read, and I’m really into things like D&D, WARHAMMER A LOT, Marvel, and DC, cringe culture, anything that discusses paranormal stuff or mythological stuff, True crime, Dressing up, fantasy, topics, and just Vibing in general. I’m super autistic so I act much younger than I actually am and I’m pretty damn cringe/brain rot (I can do a pretty fast 67). So don’t be shocked. I also really love talking. Like no joke I sent 10 minute voice messages on a regular basis. (I prefer voice messages) When it comes to my humor, I’m definitely way more inclined to have a darker or not so politically correct humor. (I think being offensive is funny.) I also really love learning about people and their life stories.
What I’m looking for: I am pretty particular about how I want my ideal partner. For obvious reasons, I would love for whoever I talk to to be similar to some of my hobbies like if you don’t play video games like I do or you aren’t into nerd culture, then we probably won’t click at all. I also tend to like people who have very similar humor to me as well. When it comes to looks, I’m not super picky at all, but if you look on my profile, you can clearly see pictures of me and I definitely take pride in how I look. Which means i definitely expect you to also at least look put together— Like pls no grease balls or neck beards dude! Obviously someone experienced in this culture of CG/DDLBo or D/s would be good. I also like people who are upfront and don’t take ages to basically show me they’re interested. I do enjoy talking and getting to know one another but I also would like for the person I’m speaking to to even slightly throw in some of the dynamic in our conversation. It shows me that you know what you’re doing, but it also makes me much more excited to talk to you. I believe in having a dynamic well also looking for a long-term relationship with that person, I don’t believe they should be separate for myself. If you’re okay knowing I can’t be this “uwu thank you sir” type person than yeah—-