u/thattinymolecule679

He basically said it's not cheating unless I cum in another guy's mouth or on his dick? Do other guys have this mentality?

I’m single now, and I’m posting this as an autopsy of the session that ended my relationship. My ex-boyfriend spent months begging to see me with another man, specifically an oral-only scenario. We finally did it: me in a hoodie, legs wide in a chair, a stranger kneeling between them.

The hard truth I learned is that when a stranger's mouth is that skilled and that focused, your "Loyal Girlfriend" identity is effectively locked out of the room. I was so nervous at first, but once the slurping and the vacuum seal on my clit started, my brain just... disconnected.

The tragedy happened right at the peak. My boyfriend came first, and had a really bad post-nut clarity, and started begging me to stop. But I was already at the point of no return. The physical pressure was a runaway train. I was literally whispering "I’m sorry, I’m sorry" to him while my body was snapping into a rigid arch for a stranger. The hardest truth to live with? It felt good. It felt better than anything I’d ever experienced with my partner. I had to let it out. I couldn't stop it, even with my boyfriend's crying. The disconnect, between my heart wanting to stop for him and my body demanding the release from a stranger, is what eventually killed us.

Would it be cheating?

So i'm attending a university here in the Pacific Northwest and my bf is on the east coast. I went to my first frat party last week friday. Nothing happened, i danced and got a bit drunk, not that drunk but like tipsy. I got aroused because of the atmosphere and I knew some guy was trying to eat me out that night. I had heard from a friend he wanted to eat me out.

I honestly don't know how to feel about it but like it's so interesting why he's like that. So his scenario involves me wearing his hoodies which are big on me, and he wants me to sit on the couch or the edge of the bed, spread my legs and let another guy bury his face between. Like what aspect of it turns him on seeing me like that? If you're like my boyfriend, what about it really turns you on?