u/thebuttlers

Over a year ago, I brought up the idea of hotwifing to my wife. At first she thought it was crazy. But I could tell she was curious because she’s always been a very flirty person and I could picture her flirting with guys even when we were just dating. It was something that I was drawn to. She seemed like she would transition into a hotwife fairly easily. The way she chats to men now is similar to how we texted when we first started dating. So much excitement. Hotwifing came up a few more times in our post sex cuddles. It started to feel like she was getting ready to give it a try. Then finally, one day I brought up that I had found a married guy who would like to have sex with us. And he had a wife. So we started off slowly with her chatting to him, and eventually going a date. The excitement of getting to know someone and being in that meet cute, flirty stage. It was just as much for me as it was for her. Getting to hear about their chats. Eventually this led to me meeting the wife, and then we went on a double date. Needless to say, we started this lifestyle by swinging. And that eventually led to her being open to exploring even deeper, and that meant putting hotwifing back on the table. :)

She had a DM on Instagram, and it was from a married guy who was a bull for other couples. She started getting to know him, and eventually built a decent connection on IG. We arranged to have him meet us at a hotel. I was stoked. I packed my camera and she brought a few outfits. I love photography and cinematography. So I asked if I could capture her first hotwife encounter on film. I wanted to have something I could watch later if this ended up being the only time we got to do it, I wanted to have the option to watch it again. As my own adult film, staring my hot wife. After just over a year, I keep finding myself watching it time and time again. And it’s sparked a creative flame in me, and a horny spark in my wife!

I’m so glad my wife and I have such open and honest communication. I think that shows the true strength of our relationship. Is being able to tell eachother our DEEPEST and darkest desires. And being able to have trust that our communication will always be able to help us express our emotions and thoughts to eachother. We joke that I’ve created a monster. But she’s my little monster.