u/theprincessmiaaa

most of my subs and paypigs at some point talk about meeting irl and that’s something I would like to do as a findomme (like cash meets). my problem is that I would not do that with just any sub that i don’t even know well and just met him this week, for safety reasons. I have to trust the sub before doing something like that. so knowing a piggie for 2 or 3 weeks is not enough. I always tell this to them and they agree but then after like 1 month they completely disappear, I never hear from them again. why does this happen? i know I’m not asking too much of them so… why? does anyone have the same experience?