Wtf is wrong with men
I always say before the booking don't manhandle and to communicate. Whenever they are about to go near my tits or bits I tell them gentle only to avoid them saying they 'forgot'.
A regular video call client comes to see me for an hour.
He pulls me onto his lap in an awkward way I tell him don't do that. I start taking my leggings off and he holds my boobs from behind but then roughly squeezes and twists them and doesn't instantly stop when I grab onto his arms to stop him continuing.
Conversation
Me : why did you do that
Him : I'm sorry
Me: that's not what I asked, why did you roughly squeeze my tits after I told you not to manhandle me
Him: I'm sorry
Me: I'm sorry doesn't answer my question. I give him a taste of his own medicine and ask him was that enjoyable, are you still turned on?
Him: okay I'm sorry.
Me: you can have a quick BJ and you'll be kicked out. (2hr booking and it was only 5 minutes in that this unravelled)
Him: don't be angry
Me: don't be angry after you roughly man handled me twice and you not enjoying that feeling would you like me to tell you not to be angry?
GET OUT
Him: still sat on my bed saying sorry
Me: say sorry all you want you're still leaving and you have 2 minutes
luckily I have a mate who will always pick up and gave the fake talk of come upstairs in 2 minutes. Then my other mate called me so I got to give the impression multiple men were going to be upstairs if he didn't leave.
I have no problem body pressuring them to get out either.
Honestly WTF tho, I know porn normalizes roughhousing but still have the the fucking cell to remember that I'm a different person with my own boundaries and that stuff has to be built up with consent.