MOD POST 7/5/26: New rules about karma farming or attention seeking posts

These will now be removed, and repeat offenses will lead to a ban

For clarification on the terms:

Karma farming: posting with the goal of building karma points through upvotes

Attention seeking: posting things like, "How much attention would I get?", "Would anyone be interested?", "What did you think of the wife/the husband/us/etc.?"


The point of this sub is to inform people curious about Stan's how things work and what they can expect. Or to try to meet someone for fun at Stan's

There are PLENTY of subs whose only purpose is for showing off/exhibitionism. There are even subs where you can post and ask people for upvotes. So if you can't find any of those things here, you have options elsewhere

But, for the sake of reducing spam and keeping the sub focused on its purpose, we'll be instituting this rule going forward

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 2 days ago

πŸ¦… From the CAP'N Mod Team, Happy 4th of July πŸ¦…

Hope the day and weekend give you the opportunity to relax, spend time with loved ones, and if you can't catch any fireworks, make some of your own πŸ˜‰

As always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 3 days ago

πŸ¦… From the CAP'N Mod Team, Happy 4th of July πŸ¦…

Hope the day and weekend give you the opportunity to relax, spend time with loved ones, and if you can't catch any fireworks, make some of your own πŸ˜‰

As always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 3 days ago

πŸ¦… From the CAP'N Mod Team, Happy 4th of July πŸ¦…

Hope the day and weekend give you the opportunity to relax, spend time with loved ones, and if you can't catch any fireworks, make some of your own πŸ˜‰

As always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 3 days ago

πŸ¦… From the CAP'N Mod Team, Happy 4th of July πŸ¦…

Hope the day and weekend give you the opportunity to relax, spend time with loved ones, and if you can't catch any fireworks, make some of your own πŸ˜‰

As always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 3 days ago

πŸ¦… From the CAP'N Mod Team, Happy 4th of July πŸ¦…

Hope the day and weekend give you the opportunity to relax, spend time with loved ones, and if you can't catch any fireworks, make some of your own πŸ˜‰

As always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 3 days ago

πŸ¦… From the StansAdultStore Mod Team, Happy 4th of July πŸ¦…

Hope the day and weekend give you the opportunity to relax, spend time with loved ones, and if you can't catch any fireworks, make some of your own πŸ˜‰

No events planned at Stan's for today that we're currently aware of, but keep an eye out. And, the holidays are usually good times to try your luck, so you never know what might happen

As always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 3 days ago

πŸ¦… From the San Diego Hotwives Mod Team, Happy 4th of July πŸ¦…

Hope the day and weekend give you the opportunity to relax, spend time with loved ones, and if you can't catch any fireworks, make some of your own πŸ˜‰

As always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 3 days ago

πŸ¦… From the SanDiegoR4R Mod Team, Happy 4th of July πŸ¦…

Hope the day and weekend give you the opportunity to relax, spend time with loved ones, and if you can't catch any fireworks, make some of your own πŸ˜‰

As always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 3 days ago

πŸ¦… From the SDAT2 Mod Team, Happy 4th of July πŸ¦…

Hope the day and weekend give you the opportunity to relax, spend time with loved ones, and if you can't catch any fireworks, make some of your own πŸ˜‰

No events planned at any of the theaters that we're currently aware of, but keep any eye out. And, the holidays are usually good times to try your luck so you never know what might happen

As always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 3 days ago

MOD PSA: It's officially July in San Diego, so wanting to put this back on everyone's radar

https://reddit.com/r/SanDiegoAdultTheater2/comments/1nvtynj/since_the_topic_has_come_up_a_few_times_the_past/

Linked above is a list of STD/STI testing resources around town

The 4th is this weekend

San Diego Pride Parade is the weekend of the 18th, and that's usually pretty lit

San Diego Comic-Con is the weekend of the 25th, also usually pretty lit in and around the Gaslamp and convention center area. And some of the regular play party hosts/organizers usually plan events around these dates too

Lots of parties. Lots of out-of-town visitors. Lot of chances for fun

So, just want to make everyone aware again of what's out there to get right before, or after, any festivities you may get into. I'm sure most of you already have your own resources, but some of those in the link are free, and at least one has a 24-48 hour turnaround time for results

As always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky this July πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 6 days ago

MOD PSA: It's officially July in San Diego, so wanting to put this back on everyone's radar

https://reddit.com/r/SanDiegoAdultTheater2/comments/1nvtynj/since_the_topic_has_come_up_a_few_times_the_past/

Linked above is a list of STD/STI testing resources around town


The 4th is this weekend

San Diego Pride Parade is the weekend of the 18th, and that's usually pretty lit

San Diego Comic-Con is the weekend of the 25th, also usually pretty lit in and around the Gaslamp and convention center area. And some of the regular play party hosts/organizers usually plan events around these dates too

Lots of parties. Lots of out-of-town visitors. Lot of chances for fun


So, just want to make everyone aware again of what's out there to get right before, or after, any festivities you may get into. I'm sure most of you already have your own resources, but some of those in the link are free, and at least one has a 24-48 hour turnaround time for results

As always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky this July πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 6 days ago

MOD PSA: It's officially July in San Diego, so wanting to put this back on everyone's radar

https://reddit.com/r/SanDiegoAdultTheater2/comments/1nvtynj/since_the_topic_has_come_up_a_few_times_the_past/

Linked above is a list of STD/STI testing resources around town


The 4th is this weekend

San Diego Pride Parade is the weekend of the 18th, and that's usually pretty lit

San Diego Comic-Con is the weekend of the 25th, also usually pretty lit in and around the Gaslamp and convention center area. And some of the regular play party hosts/organizers usually plan events around these dates too

Lots of parties. Lots of out-of-town visitors. Lot of chances for fun


So, just want to make everyone aware again of what's out there to get right before, or after, any festivities you may get into. I'm sure most of you already have your own resources, but some of those in the link are free, and at least one has a 24-48 hour turnaround time for results

As always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky this July πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 6 days ago

U/sweet_unknow is a catfish, and will be banned

Posting here for awareness to the community, since I know there's overlap with other subs

I couldn't get a definite answer on if the pics they used were AI or not. But as far as in this sub, this is the second time they've posted looking for group fun, then disappeared into a "private room" with no one on-site able to verify they were ever there

At best, they make misleading posts. At worst, they're karma farming and actively wasting people's time. Either way, their grace and benefit of the doubt has run out in this sub, and any others I modetate

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 15 days ago

MOD POST 5/26/26: Rules updated for clarity

Had an issue where someone complained they hadn't broken a rule in the sub, and they were technically right, but also wrong. This sub is for information about, and plans to meet at, Stan's ONLY. Not the place to post pics unrelated to that, or anything else irrelevant.

So, rules were officially updated to help reduce confusion. They can be found in the "Rules" tab, but for the sake of clarity will post them here in this temporary announcement post


No penis/dick pics

No Dick Pics allowed in the sub. Sub is for getting information about Stan's, or planning meets there. If this rule wasn't instituted, main page would be flooded with πŸ† pics

And yes, this does apply to transladies and crossdressers. You're more than welcome to post in the sub, but please keep it tucked away, because this is a bannable offense


No soliciting

Simple. This sub isn't to sell your services, products, etc. Any such posts will be removed


No prohibited/illegal activities, or anything against Reddit TOS

No minors allowed in the sub whatsoever (18+ only). No drug uses, references, selling, or soliciting. Nothing against site wide rules

Not a comprehensive list, but we're all adults in here. Use your best judgment, because this rule warrants a permanent, irreversible ban


No harassment or abusive language

This covers quite a bit, and warrants anywhere from a temporary to a permanent ban, depending on the specific circumstance and moderator discretion

Insults. Derogatory language. Pestering someone to show up at Stan's at a certain time, when they've already given another, specific time. Not taking "No" for an answer. And more


Last one is especially notable, because it's all too common for guys in here to ask a lady or couple to show up at a certain time other than what they already stated. Another one is "Hey, meet me at my place/hotel room instead". No one is obligated to rearrange their plans just to accommodate you and your desire to get laid.

That's it. Pretty straightforward, simple, and now all in one place. Hopefully helps cut down on the rule violations and bans the moderators have to process. Any questions, concerns, comments, etc., please feel free to add in the post

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 1 month ago

πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ From the CAP'N Mods, Happy Memorial Day/Weekend πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ

In the midst of the long weekend, unofficial start to summer, and hopefully some much needed time for everyone to relax and cut loose a bit, want to take a moment to remember what the holiday is for and acknowledge the people affected by it. Both those who've passed, and their loved ones

What rights and liberties we have people fought, bled, and died for. And some of those people were servicemembers. So, even if it's just for a moment this weekend, please think about and acknowledge them and what's been sacrificed

All that said, hope everyone has a great weekend. If you're looking for fun, hope you find it. Or, hope it finds you πŸ˜‚ And as always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 2 months ago

πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ From the CAP'N Network Mod Team, Happy Memorial Day/Weekend πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ

In the midst of the long weekend, unofficial start to summer, and hopefully some much needed time for everyone to relax and cut loose a bit, want to take a moment to remember what the holiday is for and acknowledge the people affected by it. Both those who've passed, and their loved ones

What rights and liberties we have people fought, bled, and died for. And some of those people were servicemembers. So, even if it's just for a moment this weekend, please think about and acknowledge them and what's been sacrificed

All that said, hope everyone has a great weekend. If you're looking for fun, hope you find it. Or, hope it finds you πŸ˜‚ And as always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 2 months ago

πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ From the CAP'N Network Mod Team, Happy Memorial Day/Weekend πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ

In the midst of the long weekend, unofficial start to summer, and hopefully some much needed time for everyone to relax and cut loose a bit, want to take a moment to remember what the holiday is for and acknowledge the people affected by it. Both those who've passed, and their loved ones

What rights and liberties we have people fought, bled, and died for. And some of those people were servicemembers. So, even if it's just for a moment this weekend, please think about and acknowledge them and what's been sacrificed

All that said, hope everyone has a great weekend. If you're looking for fun, hope you find it. Or, hope it finds you πŸ˜‚ And as always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 2 months ago

πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ From the CAP'N Network Mod Team, Happy Memorial Day/Weekend πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ

In the midst of the long weekend, unofficial start to summer, and hopefully some much needed time for everyone to relax and cut loose a bit, want to take a moment to remember what the holiday is for and acknowledge the people affected by it. Both those who've passed, and their loved ones

What rights and liberties we have people fought, bled, and died for. And some of those people were servicemembers. So, even if it's just for a moment this weekend, please think about and acknowledge them and what's been sacrificed

All that said, hope everyone has a great weekend. If you're looking for fun, hope you find it. Or, hope it finds you πŸ˜‚ And as always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 2 months ago

πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ From the CAP'N Network Mod Team, Happy Memorial Day/Weekend πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ

In the midst of the long weekend, unofficial start to summer, and hopefully some much needed time for everyone to relax and cut loose a bit, want to take a moment to remember what the holiday is for and acknowledge the people affected by it. Both those who've passed, and their loved ones

What rights and liberties we have people fought, bled, and died for. And some of those people were servicemembers. So, even if it's just for a moment this weekend, please think about and acknowledge them and what's been sacrificed

All that said, hope everyone has a great weekend. If you're looking for fun, hope you find it. Or, hope it finds you πŸ˜‚ And as always, be safe, have fun, and stay kinky πŸ€™

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u/throwawaybull0 β€” 2 months ago