



Figured this is the best tag and community to ask. I saw another ftm guy use this and got me one too as cage. But I'm not sure how to put this together. What's the ring for and why does one of the straps have this short added part? Anybody know?
So I tried different ways for orgasm denial and no touch without a Dom for a while now and never really made past two or three days.
One of the things I tried was hypnosis tracks to make you stop having orgasms. Like many people, I came across Cal's Curse first. But it actually always just got me super horny and definitely didn't work for me. I hear it does work for some people though so fair enough.
I was looking around a bit more and found a video on Youtube that is about an hour long of ... I wouldn't even call it hypnosis? Maybe more brainwashing or something, I am not sure. There is some subliminal messaging in there on top of the clearly audible part. The first time I tried that one, I fell asleep during it but it had some effect on me. I was horny after, like with Cal's Curse but it was different, because i didn't get close to the edge as fast as I usually would (which though all the training I did is already a good 2 hrs). But I still came at that point.
I have been listening to it when I have been really tired (so I would fall asleep to it playing) for a few weeks now. Not every day, but I would say about 4 or 5 times a week definitely. And the more I listen to it the better it works. In my case it definitely helps that I just fall asleep and I let my brain take it in subconsciously for the most part.
Anyway, In the past 12 days I masturbated twice, touched around my pussy just to touch it a bit every day, and came one time only. That one time I came, I had to absolutely force that orgasm out of me.
Last night I decided to put my wand on my clit while listening to it, and even then had to take it off after about 10 minutes. My pussy did get all hot and puffy and it felt really good even on a low setting until it felt like basically nothing so I didn't see the point to keep it on lol.
So it's actually finally working. I masturbate a lot less, so the toys feel a lot better, and I can't cum unless I force it.
Also if you are curious about the audio thing I am listening to, I will link it below so you can give it a try. (i hope that's ok)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yA6xE5n9Qxo
Good luck to anybody who tries that one.
Hi all,
I hope somebody knows how this works or if this is super common.
I created an account on OF and wanted to get it verified / approved so I can start uploading content there and advertise for it. The issue is that on my passport I have my deadname and female, I am a trans man. But the picture is of course my current face.
I sent my passport and the selfie with me holding it along with my bluesky as the additional link.
They rejected it and need additional social media. In the explanation of that, it says that it needs to reflect the kind of profile I am setting up on OF. So for that I only have the bluesky and maybe this reddit account if they accept it. I also have a pornhub but it has a different profile name. None of these kinds of profiles have my face on it. the only ones with my face on it do not reflect anything sexual and also do not have my deadname on it.
So now I am unsure what to add other than a fresh photo of my ID. Nothing I can link them to fits my passport and the stuff that has the kind of content I will be posting, does not have my face so it can also not be cross checked for confirmation. They are not explaining what exactly they need to see for the verification so I am a little stuck.
Is this a usual issue for OF? I searched this subreddit but couldn't find quite the same scenario. Any ideas or info will be helpful.
Thank you!
For context:
OP from Monday
So I have been too rough with my T-Dick so now there is a blister on it, doing too much abrasive stuff with bottle brush and such things (I'm into pain play). I noticed the blister yesterday but I felt it on Wednesday already. So I decided on complete no touch to let it heal. I am using Sudeocrem to create a safe barrier. Keeping it clean and handling gently of course. But otherwise am on complete no touch rn. Meaning yesterday's and today's big O are still up for grabs. Probably tomorrow as well but we will see how it heals.
I am also avoiding watching porn, reading erotica, or looking at nudes too much because it makes me horny and dumb. Gotta be safe first, horny later 😃
Let me know if you want one of the two O's I have up for grabs right now (if you are allowed to have them of course)❤️
UPDATE EVENING:
Just had my shower, a proper shave, and then inspected my dick. It's already much better. with a bit of luck, I can gently play with it tomorrow 🤔
My pussy feels so soft and lovely, I want to play with it so much. Even just stroking the lips would be so lovely right now, but I will stick to the no touch and see how everything is tomorrow.
Diary for day one
For context, this week I will give away my orgasms or ruin them (on video) along with punishments. You can read more here https://www.reddit.com/r/FTMorgasmdenial/comments/1t9p3hz/giving_away_my_orgasms_for_a_week/
( Unsure what the best flair is for this, hoping this is the right one. )
Afternoon:
So I slept in until really late in the day and I have to leave the house shortly but decided that I should have at least a short session before. Last time I came was last night so today is the clean start for the week.
I had my wand on my dick for 15 minutes, half of that time I stayed very still and did my best not to react at all, the second half of the time I did quite a bit of grinding and humping. By the end of it I was super wet and hard. So I took a quick shower to clean up my cunt, Of course I paid special attention to my dick, using the massage setting on the shower head.
I am now about to leave the house, am still super horny and overly aware of my cunt. Once I get back home, I will probably use the fuck machine for a while, trying to ignore my dick and maybe clean my cunt a bit again like I just did hehe. But we will see. For now, me and my horny cunt have to leave the house for a few hours.
TBC evening / night
I'm a bit nervous about this because i have never done this before, but I want to try and give away my orgasms this week. Who wants to have them?
I will masturbate every day as usual but I will donate the orgasm I would normally give myself at the end, to other needy sluts. So if you have a dom who is open to let you have mine or your rule permits you to receive donated orgasms, I'm happy to give them away.
Basically just let me know. I will do first come first serve basis. The first one I see each day, when I get online, will be notified that you are the lucky winner. This includes comments and DMs (i can't see who likes so I can't take that into account). I will try to pick a different person each day if there are enough takers. If there are not that many takers, that's fine too.
Bonus rule: If there are no takers at all on any of those days, I will cum but I have to do record it (which makes it very difficult for me to cum) and upload it so you can at least see my failure. But I will always edge and masturbate throughout the day and only fall back on this before I go to sleep to make sure I don't cheat or find excuses to cum.
If I remember, I will give status updates and probably some pics but just depends how edged out of my mind I am lol.
Wish me luck, and I am open to suggestions about what I should do to my front hole and T-Dick. I have a kinks toys and limits list on my profile but TLDR (yes to pain, edging, etc. / No to lasting damage, unsanitary. / toys: different vibes, dildos, fuck machine, etc)
btw those cums mentioned above need to be punished of course, so open to punishment ideas as well)
anyway, wish me luck and a strong mind