u/twinkielover259

24-year-old Dom in OC looking for a submissive guy to build a real, ongoing D/s dynamic with. Not a hookup, not something casual.

I want something consistent. Think regular hangouts, talking during the week, actual connection outside of scenes too. I tend to vibe best with nerdy or gamer types. I play Minecraft, Valorant, ARK, so someone I can just chill with matters as much as the kink side.

What I'm looking for:

○ Male or masc-leaning NB sub

○ Under 30 preferred

○ Communicative, reliable, and actually present

○ Experienced or genuinely curious about D/s structure

○ Available to meet in person regularly (OC area)

Dynamic expectations:

This isn't just play sessions. I want a sub I own and can use regularly, ideally once a week or more, while also building friendship and consistency between meets. Exclusivity is required on your end: no other sexual partners or dynamics.

Kinks / Interests:

○ Orgasm control and edging

○Impact play

○Bondage

○Underwear kink

○Rules, tasks, obedience

○Ongoing power exchange

STI testing and sharing recent results will be expected for anything ongoing. Safety is non-negotiable.

If you message me, include ⭐ and tell me:

Name and age

Your D/s experience or curiosity

Your limits and boundaries

What draws you to submission

Low effort messages get ignored.

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24-year-old Dom in OC looking for a submissive guy to build a real, ongoing D/s dynamic with. Not a hookup, not something casual.

I want something consistent. Think regular hangouts, talking during the week, actual connection outside of scenes too. I tend to vibe best with nerdy or gamer types. I play Minecraft, Valorant, ARK, so someone I can just chill with matters as much as the kink side.

What I'm looking for:

○ Male or masc-leaning NB sub

○ Under 30 preferred

○ Communicative, reliable, and actually present

○ Experienced or genuinely curious about D/s structure

○ Available to meet in person regularly (OC area)

Dynamic expectations:

This isn't just play sessions. I want a sub I own and can use regularly, ideally once a week or more, while also building friendship and consistency between meets. Exclusivity is required on your end: no other sexual partners or dynamics.

Kinks / Interests:

○ Orgasm control and edging

○Impact play

○Bondage

○Underwear kink

○Rules, tasks, obedience

○Ongoing power exchange

STI testing and sharing recent results will be expected for anything ongoing. Safety is non-negotiable.

If you message me, include ⭐ and tell me:

Name and age

Your D/s experience or curiosity

Your limits and boundaries

What draws you to submission

Low effort messages get ignored.

Dom looking for a sub who can match my freak. 6'4", 250, 6" uncut

Love giving and getting head, using toys on you, and getting rough when it fits. The kinkier the better

Horny tonight but open to making this a regular thing if we vibe. Long term works too.

Can host in Orange. HMU

24-year-old Dom in OC looking for a submissive guy to build a real, ongoing D/s dynamic with. Not a hookup, not something casual.

I want something consistent. Think regular hangouts, talking during the week, actual connection outside of scenes too. I tend to vibe best with nerdy or gamer types. I play Minecraft, Valorant, ARK, so someone I can just chill with matters as much as the kink side.

What I'm looking for:

○ Male or masc-leaning NB sub

○ Under 30 preferred

○ Communicative, reliable, and actually present

○ Experienced or genuinely curious about D/s structure

○ Available to meet in person regularly (OC area)

Dynamic expectations:

This isn't just play sessions. I want a sub I own and can use regularly, ideally once a week or more, while also building friendship and consistency between meets. Exclusivity is required on your end: no other sexual partners or dynamics.

Kinks / Interests:

○ Orgasm control and edging

○Impact play

○Bondage

○Underwear kink

○Rules, tasks, obedience

○Ongoing power exchange

STI testing and sharing recent results will be expected for anything ongoing. Safety is non-negotiable.

If you message me, include ⭐ and tell me:

Name and age

Your D/s experience or curiosity

Your limits and boundaries

What draws you to submission

Low effort messages get ignored.

​

24-year-old Dom in OC looking for a submissive guy to build a real, ongoing D/s dynamic with. Not a hookup, not something casual.

I want something consistent. Think regular hangouts, talking during the week, actual connection outside of scenes too. I tend to vibe best with nerdy or gamer types. I play Minecraft, Valorant, ARK, so someone I can just chill with matters as much as the kink side.

What I'm looking for:

○ Male or masc-leaning NB sub

○ Under 30 preferred

○ Communicative, reliable, and actually present

○ Experienced or genuinely curious about D/s structure

○ Available to meet in person regularly (OC area)

Dynamic expectations:

This isn't just play sessions. I want a sub I own and can use regularly, ideally once a week or more, while also building friendship and consistency between meets. Exclusivity is required on your end: no other sexual partners or dynamics.

Kinks / Interests:

○ Orgasm control and edging

○Impact play

○Bondage

○Underwear kink

○Rules, tasks, obedience

○Ongoing power exchange

STI testing and sharing recent results will be expected for anything ongoing. Safety is non-negotiable.

If you message me, include ⭐ and tell me:

Name and age

Your D/s experience or curiosity

Your limits and boundaries

What draws you to submission

Low effort messages get ignored.

24-year-old Dom in OC looking for a submissive guy to build a real, ongoing D/s dynamic with. Not a hookup, not something casual.

I want something consistent. Think regular hangouts, talking during the week, actual connection outside of scenes too. I tend to vibe best with nerdy or gamer types. I play Minecraft, Valorant, ARK, so someone I can just chill with matters as much as the kink side.

What I'm looking for:

○ Male or masc-leaning NB sub

○ Under 30 preferred

○ Communicative, reliable, and actually present

○ Experienced or genuinely curious about D/s structure

○ Available to meet in person regularly (OC area)

Dynamic expectations:

This isn't just play sessions. I want a sub I own and can use regularly, ideally once a week or more, while also building friendship and consistency between meets. Exclusivity is required on your end: no other sexual partners or dynamics.

Kinks / Interests:

○ Orgasm control and edging

○Impact play

○Bondage

○Underwear kink

○Rules, tasks, obedience

○Ongoing power exchange

STI testing and sharing recent results will be expected for anything ongoing. Safety is non-negotiable.

If you message me, include ⭐ and tell me:

Name and age

Your D/s experience or curiosity

Your limits and boundaries

What draws you to submission

Low effort messages get ignored.