u/your_puppy_prince

In my vanilla life, I'm in a very demanding line of work. The pay and benefits are stellar, but it is a consistently difficult job. Nothing I can't deal with, of course. But, the stress cost is is non-negligible.

You'd never guess I was into this based on my looks. Outwardly, I'm just like any other twenty-something with an office job. I'm somebody who takes a lot of pride in having my life together; I participate in many 'normal' hobbies, spend time volunteering, and keep my affairs well in order. Being a textbook picture of a functional adult is something that makes this all the more thrilling to me.

Behind closed doors, a very different side of me is able to come out. Boxer briefs become soft, thick diapers. Suits become the most babyish of onesies. Dinner dates become having a warm bottle in bed. You get the picture.

I'm looking to make connections with others that can appreciate how blissful it is to press pause on adult life, and take a trip back to toddlerhood. To me, regression is a happy medium between kink and therapy. Little me is a sensitive, soft and sweet boy, who fully enjoys the authentic 2-year-old experience, with everything that it entails.

Physically, I'm 6'2, with a medium build, brown hair/eyes, and slightly boyish features. Although appearance is second to personality in my book, many would consider me conventionally attractive. I'm based in NYC, so folks in or around the five boroughs take priority. That said, I will do my best to respond to everyone who sends me at least one complete sentence. I welcome messages from both littles and bigs, across all gender identities and orientations.

I look forward to hearing from you.

It's hard to come up with a more profound expression of intimacy between a CG and a little than breastfeeding. As a pan-identifying male, I've wanted to explore this with a feminine CG for a long time. Both of the women I have nursed with in the past did not particularly care for the CG/Little dynamic, sadly.

For those who incorporate nursing into your little time: what has your experience been? What is your relationship with your nursing partner like? Super keen on hearing everyone's experiences and thoughts!

As someone who lives in a major metro area, am I barking up the wrong tree? Tried my absolute best to put real effort into a post seeking local ABDL friends on there, but all the responses I get are either one word, or they’ll ghost after 2-3 messages. Like, I’m not the world’s best conversationalist either, but like… cmon, give me something to go off of. And if you’re no longer interested, please just tell me if that’s the case?

Rant aside, I’ve been wondering about others’ experiences with finding local ABDLs on that sub. Are there any good alternatives?

(Just a heads up— I will be ignoring one word responses. I put effort into writing this post, and am looking for people who are willing to do the same when it comes to building a friendship. You don’t have to write an essay or be a great conversationalist, just tell me a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for!)

In my daily life, I’m a textbook example of a high-functioning adult. I work a demanding (but rewarding) job, take good care of myself, and keep all my affairs in order. I strive to be a clean-cut and well-spoken gentleman who does his best to improve the world around him. Whether it’s my job, volunteering, or one of my (many) hobbies, I take all of it seriously.

However, I do keep one secret— something that nobody in my regular life would ever suspect of me. I enjoy revisiting my toddlerhood, with everything that it entails. Wearing thick, babyish diapers and cute outfits. Playing with age-appropriate toys and watching cartoons. Curling up with a stuffie and a warm bottle at the end of a long, grown-up day. All of it is very therapeutic, and has played a large role in keeping me mentally and emotionally healthy.

After keeping all of this to myself for a very long time, I’d like to make connections with people who I can be open about being an ABDL with. No matter your gender identity, orientation, or whether you’re a little or a big, as long as you’re in or near NYC, I would love to hear from you!

Physically, I’m 6’2, with brown hair and eyes, and a medium build. Most people would consider me conventionally attractive, but in my view, looks come second to personality.

If you’re in or around the five boroughs and are looking for a new ABDL friend, I would love to chat and get to know each other! If you’ve gotten in touch with me in the past, feel free to send another message. If this post is still up, I’m still looking. Hope to hear from you soon!

One of my favorite parts about this kink is the dichotomy it presents; by day, I’m a manager working at a fairly well known institution here in NYC. I pride myself on being a clean-cut and well-spoken gentleman, with the understanding that that success in life doesn’t come without honest, hard work. Outwardly, you could say I’m as ‘adult’ as it gets.

However, in my private time, I want nothing more than to be a toddler again. Diapers, pacifiers, bottles, toys— I love all of it. It’s a big part of how I stay healthy emotionally, and gives me that form of authentic happiness that is hard to find anywhere else. Plus, there’s always the thrill of having a secret :)

After indulging in this alone for a number of years, I’ve decided to search for someone to share this hidden part of my life with. Preferably, someone feminine that would enjoy filling a caregiver/older sibling role.

Physically, I’m 6’2, conventionally attractive, with brown hair and eyes, and an average to stocky build. I take hygiene seriously, and expect the same of any play partner. Little me is docile, slightly clingy, and sweet as can be. I enjoy the soft, sensual aspects of toddlerhood: diapers that are soft and thick, cute and comfy outfits, curling up with a bottle and stuffie friend at the end of a long day, so on and so forth.

Ideally, you’re in the five boroughs, are kind, sane, hygienic, and would love nothing more than to have a sweet little boy to call your own. I can cover all supplies (diapers, clothes, toys, etc.).

If you’ve sent me a chat before, feel free to send another message. Things have been extraordinarily busy these past few weeks, but I’m finally at a point where I can comfortably respond.

If you’ve read this far, thank you! I look forward to hearing from you!