Online Bud Experience
I’m married.
The three guys I’m still in touch with online all have wives or serious girlfriends. We’re all in that 35-55 range, a couple of us WFH which makes the timing easier.
Conversations never got weird. Sessions stayed consistent. Same energy as the first time we got on mic.
It usually starts the same way. We’re talking about whatever work, whatever the wife’s got going on, some golf or hunting trip one of us is planning, a bottle of bourbon that’s sitting on the desk.
Then someone drops a pic or a vid. Not even always porn. Slow build. Nobody rushing. WFH allow this…
Mic on. You hear the other guy breathing, hear the chair creak, hear grab lube. Dirty talk stays low and specific. What we’d do if we were in the same room. What his wife looked like last time he fucked her. What mine sounds like when she’s close. Nobody pretending we’re not married. That’s part of why it works.
We edge. We talk through it. We finish. Then we stay on a few minutes after and talk about the trip or the game or whatever. No sudden “gotta go.” No post-nut disappearing act.
Just two guys one on one who got off and still want to shoot the shit.
That’s the part that keeps it going. It’s not just the jerk-off. It’s having a couple of actual buds who also happen to like stroking together. Low pressure. Masculine. Chill. Mutual respect and showing up when you say you will.
We’ve talked about making one of those “guys trips” actually happen golf, fishing, hunting, hiking, a couple days of bourbon and a hotel room with two beds that probably don’t both get used for sleeping. Nothing’s booked yet, but the conversation is there.