Is it cheating?
So my wife and I always had fun with my buddy and recently she wanted add more to the roster. We’ve been trying to find a third male to join us but it’s been tough finding guys that are tested and meet her standards and won’t flake. Today I got home and I thought it was odd, that I head her moaning from our bedroom. I figured it was my friend, we agreed that it was ok for him to play and them to play alone without me but when I walked in I saw her with 3 strangers. I didn’t know how to feel. I felt like I was cheated on because I didn’t agree to these guys and they were having their way with her. I confronted her after and she said she thought it would be ok, how? We always said we have to agree on these things. The worse part is I had to hold myself together as these guys left and said bye and thank you. And she works with them so now I’m thinking what’s she’s done with them behind my back. It’s crazy that I love sharing her but this was different. Am I wrong?