r/FreeUseLifestyle

Mój ojciec oddawał matkę przyjacielowi który bardzo lubił to a on patrzał albo zabawiał się z jego żoną

I F23 have a friend M23 we recently started hooking up and have started a free use agreement on his end. As a self proclaimed nymphomaniac I find it really fun and may better than the reverse. Has anyone else had this arrangement? If so I’d love to hear your stories or what you liked about it!

Im mid 40s F. Its been a fantasy of mine for so long. Id love to know 2-3 male roommate who live together, and I'll come over for a weekend and let them pass me around. Spit roast too. sucking cock makes me horny so I'd love to get fucked while doing it. I want them to use me up hard so i go home sore thinking how good they fucked me over the weekend ❤️

Whenever he left the room or went to grab drinks, one of them would pull me aside and take what they wanted. I never said no. I’d just spread my legs or drop to my knees and let them use me quick and quiet, then fix my clothes like nothing happened before he came back.

They all knew the rule don’t leave marks, don’t take too long, and never tell him. I loved how normal he thought everything was while his friends were already familiar with every part of my body.

My bf is somewhat vanilla we've been dating for about 3 and a half years and I've finally convinced him to let me be free use although him being vanilla is an issue sometimes maybe he will let one of his less vanilla friends use me while he uses me or at least someday explore some kinks, I wish he was meaner to me ugh

my daddy has kept me denied for around 6 months now, and every day, i feel hornier than the last.

ive been living in daddy's house for the last month and ive been his freeuse fucktoy. he works and takes care of me, and i fulfil his every need, want, and desire. it's been so perfect

i make sure my pussy stays ready for him 24/7 so that any time he feels like using me, its easy for him to do so. he keeps me edged so that i can get wet and horny for him the second he needs my holes

on days he works in the office, i edge myself periodically at home and stay a gooned, edged mess for him, and i make sure to keep him updated over text. when he gets home, I'll be naked. wet and waiting for him to use me as soon as he gets home

on days he works from home, i get to spend the day under his desk, making him feel good and dripping my juices all over the floor. he even created a comfy bed area under his desk for me

he arranged a threesome recently with a big black man and allowed him to fuck my pussy with his bbc while daddy fucked my ass. they had to keep stopping a lot to make sure i didn't cum and eventually had to take turns in my pussy. it didnt take long before my pussy couldnt take it anymore without cumming so i used my hands and mouth on their cocks. both of them bred my pussy deep when they came and in the end i was lying there, edged and gooned out, with their cum overflowing from my pussy

i love being daddy's cumdump and making him feel so good. im so lucky to have my daddy, he makes sure im bred properly every time he uses me and knows exactly when to stop so that i dont go over the edge

I’ve had multiple long-term relationships with truly submissive women and all of them had very strict or even abusive, by today’s standards, parents. I don’t know that I subscribe to a link between the two, but I am Dominant so I don’t have that firsthand account

What is your experience?

In the past few weeks I met a guy and we started hanging out. For me it’s pretty clear that I’m not interested romantically. But I am pretty sure he is. Like we cuddle a lot and I am fine with that but you know like this moment when you just know that when you look up to someone that they are going to kiss you? Yeah this every time.
So I don’t want a relationship or anything, but I am horny and like a free use dynamic. Also he is not really my type, but it’s a turn on in this fucktoy kinda a thing.
Problem is: I know I don’t wanna make out with him and I think that could make him believe that it’s more than Sex. And I’m pretty sure that I can’t hold like the fantasy if I’m would start by making out with him.
So what should I do to make the First move and to let him know that he can just use me. Best would be via chat and he is also very shy and like is afraid that he could say or do something wrong 🥲

He’s brought it up a few times now, like it’s just a normal thing to suggest. At first I thought he was joking, but he keeps talking about how he likes the idea of me being available whenever, no questions asked. He’s pretty serious about it.

I haven’t really said yes or no yet. Part of me is curious, but it’s still a weird thing to hear from your own boyfriend. He just looks at me like it’s the most obvious request in the world.

Just sharing here, I miss the old days lol and I love reading all the stuff in this sub.

I’ve been lurking a while and finally decided to post. I’m 28, divorced and since the marriage ended I’ve been slowly (and sometimes guiltily) exploring the freer, more “available” side of myself. Part of that has been private sensual modeling and selling photos to help with bills which feels empowering and also a little terrifying if the “good mom” image ever collides with the rest of me. Anyway… the thing I miss most from the more free use phases of my life is this specific activity..

Curling up in his lap (or stretched out across the couch with my head in his lap), soft blanket over us, TV on, and just… keeping his cock warm in my mouth for as long as the show lasts. No big performance, no rushing toward orgasm just leisurely, intimate free use. Mouth full, body relaxed, occasionally shifting a little or giving a slow suck when something good happens on screen. It felt so deliciously domestic and filthy at the same time.

I miss the quiet intimacy of it. There’s something about being used so casually while everyday life (TV, snacks, whatever) continues around you that hits a really specific free-use sweet spot for me..

Would love to hear your stories positions, durations, feelings, funny moments, anything. What does this kind of extended mouth-warming free use look like in your real life too??

I’ve been free use for my husband for the past six months or so. I’m currently pregnant with our third baby. My hormones are outrageous and I need him all the time. I try to initiate but always get denied. Our free use is mainly kept to the bedroom but I am able to walk around the house in a t shirt and undies since our kids are still little. When in the bedroom for the night I’m often naked or wearing laced underwear. What else can I do to essentially throw myself at him and let him know that I’m available.

The rules say there are other subreddits where you can find a free use partner. But where? I can't find any.

Are there any sites where I can have genuine conversations with women who are actually looking for a relationship?

My wife and I have a bedtime free use understanding. A few nights a week, if she isn’t in the mood for a full session after a long day or on nights when she has work in the morning, I am supposed to use her in a way where she doesn’t have to move at all. We find this hot in its own way. The key is that it is supposed to be zero-effort on her part. I do what I want and she takes it and enjoys the dynamic.

The issue is that this usually leads to the same position over and over. Some kind of spooning position where I am laying behind her. Which is great but can get repetitive.

Do others here have a position or activity that fits this? Anything that you find fun or hot.

I spent more hours than I want to admit writing up a very official and legal sounding contract for my wife. (Obviously we’re both aware that this is not a real legal contract).

The terms are laid out as:

-she will be available sexually at all times, irregardless of outside factors including sickness, period, exhaustion, or mood

-No entry is off limits and there are zero limitations to frequency of use (she does not love anal, so I was surprised she went along with this)

-She will wear lingerie to bed minimum four nights per week (she may change into whatever pyjamas if she wishes after I fall asleep)

-she must present herself available for immediate access at all times, and if there is anything blocking access for any reason it must be removed on command

-she is not allowed to show displeasure at being used nor imply, hint, or suggest in any way that the current act or any part of the process is a chore

-she will always indicate happiness to serve and at no time will she be sarcastic or treat it as a joke of any sort

-during the term of the contract there will be zero expectation for her to initiate any sexual activity, though she is absolutely welcome to do so as long as the activity she initiates does not contradict an activity I have initiated (ie no trying to get away with suggesting something else if I’ve already told her to prepare her ass to be fucked)

-she has a safety word. If she says it, I will stop whatever the current act is and assess whether to adjust or provide aftercare immediately

-Either of us can end the contract immediately at any time before it ends, but should someone execute that option, this contract and arrangement will end and never be available again. While that seems possibly a little extreme, it covers two things. The first is that she can’t just choose to end it for now and try for it again when she’s in the mood later, which would go against the entire spirit of the contract. And secondly, if she does have the kind of reaction where she genuinely feels traumatized or extremely negative about it, I won’t be coming back to her a few weeks later to suggest doing the thing that traumatized her again.

-I can record all sexual acts I wish to

-I can take any photos at any time

-She will send me any photos or videos I request on demand when we are apart

-the content will remain in my possession and never be seen by another person

-she has 2 deferred days in the contract term. At any point she can redeem a day, and for the remainder of that day, until I wake up the next day, she is free of her duties. Once redeemed, a day will be added to the end of the contract

-should she violate any rules, she will immediately uncover her ass, bend over my knee and receive five spanks. After each spank she will say “I’m sorry” and when the punishment is complete she will stand up and say “Thank you husband”

-the contract will last 45 days with an option to renew should both parties desire

-For the duration, she has zero autonomy sexually and in all sexual aspects she will be my property.

-Outside of sexual activity she has complete autonomy over her life and the control provided in the contract will have no bearing on any other part of her life or our relationship

So now I’m looking for suggestions on ideas of how to make good use of this 45 day contract.

Some notes:
-she is not into pain or humiliation
-Some mildly degrading treatment and verbiage is ok, but this is my wife and I love her, so keep that in mind. I’m looking to use her like a whore, but not treat her like one
-I am not looking to be abusive, just in complete control and to make sure she knows her place in this
-no involvement of third parties in any part of this contract. She has made it very clear that this contract is for my exclusive use of her body.

Give me your best tips and advice please, especially if you’ve been in this situation before. I’m hoping to take as much advantage of this as possible

I’ve been in the lifestyle for a while- tbh it’s my preferred relationship style, and always has been! I just think it’s so hot when my partner regardless of what we are doing stops and goes “okay I’m going to use your mouth now.” Literally hottest thing ever. I have a big oral fixation too, so the heavy lean towards head being the first moment of any scenerio is perfect foreplay!

I’m wondering if there is any ways I could spice things up? I’m never the initiator and I also never am entirely certain when he’ll start it! I DID wear lingerie under my clothes this weekend so that when he told me to “get to work” I stripped without being asked to show off my outfit and he loved it! So I’m curious for more ideas like that!