r/findomtalk

Never in a million years did I think I’d be making a post like this, actually venting about a sub.
I’ve never been one to noticed the presence of a sub leaving my life.
There were ALWAYS more in line
This one subs though, one of my most prized possessions; and I have NEVER referred to a sub as a prized nor a possession, much less in combination.
He paid me to clean my house.
He didn’t come every month at the same time. Depending on what he had going on in his life, he’d sometimes come weekly, biweekly, & sometimes skip a month, but he came. When he was finished, he’d leave my money on the shelf in my bedroom closet and roll out.
I trusted him. (EXTREMELY rare.)
He had the combination to my door. He had access to my home and my personal space even when I wasn’t there.
I finally understand what ppl mean when they say not to take things for granted!
Like WTH am I supposed to find another one?!
Do they even exists anymore?
Because, apparently;
my standards are a problem.
On a positive note, it has opened my eyes to just how good my life truly is.
I suppose even a f can occasionally be reminded that some possessions are priceless.

But seriously though…
I need another one!!!

would you take a sub back if they paid an unblocking fee after spamming your phone all day 😫 likeee geez on all platforms is crazy

and how does it manifest in ur dynamics?
i really enjoy clear communication and honesty. i get that some subs like to jump in, send a couple of times and disappear but that’ll often make me feel empty afterwards.
for me inconsistencies, bad communication and being an overall vague person; would make me absolutely drop a dynamic.
i’m also not a huge fan of brats, a little bit of a bratty side i can handle but personally im not here for a cat and mouse game. like i’m not the one that’ll bend over backwards to convince u to send.
i’ve also noticed that i attract quite a lot of nd subs, idk how it happens but its so funny to me.

Your Goddess decided today is another shopping day.
Five days in a row now. Your bank account is nearly sucked dry, and yet you still find yourself watching your phone, desperately hoping to see Her name light up your screen.

You sit there in your office, red-faced and sweating, staring at the numbers.
$0. $0. $0.
You know exactly what another message could mean. One more purchase and your card will be maxed out.

Then your Goddess walks out the door, completely unbothered, giggling as She sends you a text.
“Thinking about a new coat… $450 should do the trick!”
Your stomach drops.
You almost want to cry. You can't decide whether what you're feeling is euphoria or the realization that you're watching your own financial ruin unfold.
And the funniest part?
You know you can stop at any time.
You could put your phone down. You could say no. You could walk away.
But you're not going to.
Because you're a pathetic little simp, completely addicted to the privilege of serving your Goddess. One little text from Her has you trembling, and somehow that's worth more to you than the money in your account.

So you type your answer.
Yes, Goddess.
And you send.
Completely drained.
Completely obedient.
And absolutely loving it <3

My boyfriend thinks my captions suck and is convinced he could do a better job. Do your boyfriends say this shit? How do we punish them?

Hi, I have been married for over 6 years to my beautiful wife and ever since we met I would say we were in a FLR because she was a lot more dominant than me both in life and sexually while I preferred to stay as sub. We have played around with chastity since early into our relationship and now I have been 24/7 locked for the past three years.

Something which she and I have been agreeing a lot on and implementing in this past two years was financial control. I am not exactly the best at managing my own money and my own bank statements prove that with silly purchases she wasn’t happy with so she opened a joint bank account for both of us and that is where I would have all of my money kept while my salary gets directly paid into her bank account. She lets me have a small allowance every month but she does increase or decrease it based on my behaviour. The allowance is not much either way it’s only enough for fuel and to just get around any real purchases I have to ask for permission for so she can top up my account.

The vast majority of the money goes directly into her account and it’s up to her on what exactly she wants to do with the rest after all expenses have been paid off.

Let me know your thoughts

Everyone come across my DMs wants free attention or scammers who ask me to send a video of myself.Why now finding a finsub feels like this impossible.I need advice of new findommes who started this in 2026

So since the beginning of our marriage my wife has been controlling all of the finances and been giving me a small allowance. Something which we have decided to do was to sell my bigger truck ( ford f350) and we have used the money to save it and she spent a portion of it on getting me a much smaller less masculine car which is the Volkswagen polo. I think the one she got me only has 60 horsepower and has a very slow 0-60 I think it’s around 13 seconds. But I do appreciate it since she is the one who manages the finances around the house and would rather me drive slower and more cheaper/ economical cars than high powered trucks which just cost more. Let me know what you guys think about this in our FLR/ findom

Queens, tell Me about your favorite type of sub. I'm curious.

Mine are the smart and generous ones who make My life easier and teach Me new things, preferably with good arms so they can show Me when I'm sad or tired 🫦

I’d say a majority of us in this community know exactly what we like or what makes us tick…. But are there any kinks heavily associated with findom/femdom that you just can’t seem to find any interest in?👀

I’m curious!!!❤️